When we consider about the causes of the cheatingspouse in a couple, infidelity is the first thing that appears in our mind.
There is no other aspect of love that arouses more fear, fascination or gossip.
The statistics differ since there is no common definition of the term. The
digital age offers us unprecedented possibilities, and in continuous expansion,
to maintain all types of illegal encounters. The disloyal person is one who has
sexual relations with a third party without the consent of his partner.
Whenthere is infidelity in a cheating spousePsychologist and author of The State of the Affairs, abook that aims to keep in an open conversation and without taboos about
infidelity, explains that there must be at least one or more of the following
assumptions:
1. The relationship is secret and happens outside ofanother relationship. That we could qualify as the main relationship. It is
exactly the secret, according to the author, that
gives intensity to the
encounters.
2. Sexual alchemy for illegal relationships sometimesinclude sex and sometimes not, but they are always sexiness.
3. The emotional link is parallel relationships to anemotional part to one degree or another.
Howto detect a cheating spouseSometimes it is not easy to know if our partnermisinforms us. An expert psychologist helped a couple to recover after
infidelity. There are signs that could show something is not right.
· Thereis an augment in a couple of discussions is angry and critical.
· Itaccuses you of wanting to control it and claims more space of its own.
· Sheis more enthusiastic about life and has much more energy than before. So she
things that were not interested like before or she acquires new hobbies.
· Yourpartner becomes emotionally absent, distant, withdrawn or depressed.
· Itgets defensive if we ask questions that have to do with our doubts.
· Suddenly,you should work more hours than before, have more meetings outside of business
hours and business trips.
