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Ashii

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y our parents never beleive us
y they never trust us

unhein kyun lagta hai k we galz are unable to do anything
wot is aim of our life,,, shadi karo ghar sambhalo aur marrr jao
is that all wot they want ?????????????


Y
Posted 28 Nov 2005

Bazigaar says
actually u forgot to add one thing..ghar sanbhaloo..aur phir bachay bhi sanbhalo
Posted 28 Nov 2005

Bazigaar says
parents ko es liye lagta hae cuz for parents...u will always be a child no matter how grow up u r...u will know whe u;r kids grow up...
Posted 28 Nov 2005

parents should ask their children happiness...they dont..dont know y
Posted 28 Nov 2005

nikama says
apna apna experience he
Posted 28 Nov 2005

Bazigaar says
hate is a strong word
Posted 28 Nov 2005

nikama says
sall ghuse main ho to kuch bhi keh sakti he shukar he sirf hate hi kaha
Posted 28 Nov 2005

Ashii says
hate is not a strong word
when i say it,, i mean it

jaise hi baat ghar aur family k ilawa hoti hai we galz r good for nothing
i hate this system
i hate this society
i hate this world
but i dont want to hate my parents

y do they always use word ISLAM and PPL only when it comes of galz independance
Posted 28 Nov 2005

Bazigaar says
hate is a strong word..u mean it or not...

secondly..if u feel parents u not justified..just tell them..look i am married now...it;s upto my husband to let me do whatever or not...parents can;t dictate a girl after she is married...
Posted 28 Nov 2005

Ashii says
i wish my children wont grow up in such world
no its not only a wish
i ll try my best

i wont let anyone even my family interfaring in their life
they will have right to do everyyything which is right
they will be confident
i ll trust them,, i ll love them as i ve never been loved
Posted 28 Nov 2005

Bazigaar says
SALL said:

i wish my children wont grow up in such world
no its not only a wish
i ll try my best

i wont let anyone even my family interfaring in their life
they will have right to do everyyything which is right
they will be confident
i ll trust them,, i ll love them as i ve never been loved



on the other hand, i want my mom to help raise my kids excatally as she raised me
Posted 28 Nov 2005

Ashii says
sall respects elders more than anyone i ve ever seen
he said parents understand things better than us

he doesnt want to take any responsibility ??
he doesnt want to b blamed if anything goes wrong ??


how can they all do this to me
Posted 28 Nov 2005

Ashii says
coz u think u are a GOOD PERSON
im sure i am not
and i dont want my children to b like me,, not even like the rest of the world
Posted 28 Nov 2005

Bazigaar says
SALL said:

sall respects elders more than anyone i ve ever seen
he said parents understand things better than us

he doesnt want to take any responsibility ??
he doesnt want to b blamed if anything goes wrong ??


how can they all do this to me



no offense but if that;s what he says then he reall don;t wanna take responsibilities...and dat shows...lack of confidence...which can always be build...

whe problems like this arise, it;s always a good idea to move out if u r living with parents...to avoid more serious problems...
Posted 28 Nov 2005

Ashii says
im not in position to leave home right now
but i ll do it,,, vvv soon Insha Allah

i dont need anyone,,
my kid is enuff for me
Posted 28 Nov 2005

Ashii says
lack of confidence
in my family they call it FARMABARDARI
Posted 28 Nov 2005

Bazigaar says
SALL said:

coz u think u are a GOOD PERSON
im sure i am not
and i dont want my children to b like me,, not even like the rest of the world



no i don;t think i am good person, but i know i am not bad person either...just an normal average guy...but to someup what ppl who know me say bout me..here;s somehting...in my family, i am oldest cousin...from both sides..and i am not showing off or anyting, but all my aunts tell me mom they wants their sons to grow up like me...
Posted 28 Nov 2005

Bazigaar says
SALL said:

lack of confidence



what?
Posted 28 Nov 2005

Ashii says
Shahenshah said:

SALL said:

lack of confidence



what?

edited
Posted 28 Nov 2005

Ashii says
Shahenshah said:


no i don;t think i am good person, but i know i am not bad person either...just an normal average guy...but to someup what ppl who know me say bout me..here;s somehting...in my family, i am oldest cousin...from both sides..and i am not showing off or anyting, but all my aunts tell me mom they wants their sons to grow up like me...


ppl say samething abt me
but thanks GOD i dont beleive them
Posted 28 Nov 2005

nikama says
we cant see the true picture when we r angree.its better to divert attention from the problem.parents r not always right but they r parents.ofcourse they know better
Posted 28 Nov 2005

Bazigaar says
SALL said:

Shahenshah said:


no i don;t think i am good person, but i know i am not bad person either...just an normal average guy...but to someup what ppl who know me say bout me..here;s somehting...in my family, i am oldest cousin...from both sides..and i am not showing off or anyting, but all my aunts tell me mom they wants their sons to grow up like me...


ppl say samething abt me
but thanks GOD i dont beleive them


SALL said:

Shahenshah said:


no i don;t think i am good person, but i know i am not bad person either...just an normal average guy...but to someup what ppl who know me say bout me..here;s somehting...in my family, i am oldest cousin...from both sides..and i am not showing off or anyting, but all my aunts tell me mom they wants their sons to grow up like me...


ppl say samething abt me
but thanks GOD i dont beleive them


i don;t believe them, but i don;t disbelieve them either...if they think i am good..well, well and good...but like i said...i an just average guy...u said u r sure u r not a good person...lol....but i am sure i am NOT a not-good person...i just average...which is good enough for me...and i won;t mind my kids to be like me..plus i will pass on my own experiences and stuff to them while raising them too...making them...a hopefuly better person them myself, but again...i won;t mind if they turn out EXCATALLY like me either...

having said that....the way things r going and culture..i fear it won;t be piece of cake
Posted 28 Nov 2005

Ashii says
DONT AGREE nikama


btw imma mother too
it means i am always RIGHT
Posted 28 Nov 2005

nikama says
when it comes to your son..yes u r always right
Posted 28 Nov 2005

Bazigaar says
SALL said:

DONT AGREE nikama


btw imma mother too
it means i am always RIGHT



well, i agree k parents know better...but it doesn;t means they r right 100% of times either...

for example sall gave example of her mom...well, maybe she was right in whatever she did..but it was for her own house and it worked there..and it might nto work in sall's house...saal is married and she have her own house..own family and rules...
Posted 28 Nov 2005

Bazigaar says
who mom r u talkin bout sall? u;r or u;r saas?
Posted 28 Nov 2005

Ashii says
hahaha,,,,,,
it mean wotever i decide for my son,, i ll always b right,,,
hahahahhaaa... and wot if sall ki marzi kuch aur ho
dono mei se kaun theek hoga
Posted 28 Nov 2005

Ashii says
bazu
wot is the definition of an AVERAGE person,, its different in all societies in all cultures
im not here to be like OTHERS
and i dont want my kids to be like others
i only want to be GOOD,, same for my kids


im talking abt my parents
mom and dad
Posted 28 Nov 2005

Bazigaar says
well, wotever i decide for my kids..in few cases, it will be her dicision and in few it will be mine...but mostly it would be mutual decision between me and my wife...
Posted 28 Nov 2005

Ashii says
but i ve seen loads of cases where parents are like north n south
both of them think to do the best for their kids

id say parents are as wrong as their children could be
Posted 28 Nov 2005

Bazigaar says
SALL said:

bazu
wot is the definition of an AVERAGE person,, its different in all societies in all cultures
im not here to be like OTHERS
and i dont want my kids to be like others
i only want to be GOOD,, same for my kids


im talking abt my parents
mom and dad



average se matlab he be good to others, don;t steal, ppl don;t lable u as a liar, ppl don;t think of u as an a**hole, ppl like to be u;r friend, ppl trust u, ppl think they can share their problems with u, u can make ppl laugh no matter what, no matter what u never take stress, use u;r brain all the time, keep connected to religion, respect elders, care for others feelings friend or stranger, etc etc...

yes i am not perfect, no one is...so they r alowed to stay away here and their now and then..i did too
Posted 28 Nov 2005

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