hmmm,, okk one more thing ive been observing since few yrs time to say it
Pak mei ab bohot log larkiyon ki studies pe zor dete hein,, kam se kam graduate to ab pak mei tareeban harr larki hai,, higher studies bhi karti hein
i met a lot of paki families (in pak, in uk, in france) they sometimes introduce me to their daughters, daghters in law,, so proudly "she s MA Eco.. MBA, studying Medical, double MA, Mphil,, etc etc" Q : aur yeh sab karti kya hein ?? A : shadi ho gai hai,, ghar sambhalti hein
wait wait,,, im not saying aurat ko parhna nahi chaiye, na hi yeh keh rahi hu k job karna bohooootttt zaroori hai yeh bhi nahi keh rahi k bachon aur ghar ko chor k sirf prof life ki taraf dehan de
but mujhe yeh lagta hai k, pehle jiss tarha larki ka khoobsurat, khoob-seerat, ameer etc etc hona zaroori tha,, ab uss ki degrees bhi sirf uss ki "value barhane" k kaam aati hein that ur in-laws can present u so proudly to their relatives "k hamari bahu kittniiii parhi likhi hai"
hmmm,, meri soch galt ho sakti hai,,, but i asked a question to a vvv old friend whose fiancee is mba, and after engagement woh ghar pe rehti hai,,, jawab yeh mila k na-mehram k saath job kaise kar sakti hai,,, Q : hmmmm,,, na-mehram k saath woh parh bhi to rahi thi na A : me kama sakta hu,, usse job ki kya zaroorat hai Q : hmmm,, baat job ki nahi hai,, baat aik prof activity ki hai,, jo k sirf paison liye nahi ki jati,, khud ko kaar-amad banane ki baat hai no answer,,
khair aik zyada important masla these galz who know well k unhein parh likh k kuch bhi nahi karna,, y do they take place of other students ???? univ mei fixed number hote hein,, larki layak hai usse jaga mil gaya,,, larka parhai mei thora kam hai usse admission nahi mila,,, but he could b get a better job agar uss ki jaga kissi larki ne nahi li hoti
abhi aur kehne ka mood nahi ur turn now (dont take me wrong,, im only talking abt galz who r concerned by this matter,, bohot si aisi larkiyan hein jo k ghar, bachon k saath apni studies / job bohot ache tareeke se chala sakti hein)
plzzzzz hath hola rakh k............ ps : barae meherbani molvi type answer na kiye ja'ain (molvi type se matlab lanat malamat waale)
