Does a girl really love once in her life?

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It is said, "larki zindagi mein ek baar mohabbat karti hay". What does this philosophy signify actually?

Let's suppose, a girl loves someone and later on could not marry him. Afterwards she marries some other person. So now what is the state of her love to her husband? If, according to the said philosophy, the previous one was her 'ek baar mohabbat' so what kind of this 'mohabbat' is? Or this is COMPROMISE (because she had already loved someone earlier i.e. 'zindagi mein ek baar mohabbat').

So what the husband is receiving from her wife:
. love (which he believes to be true)
. compromise love (which the wife knows what she is
giving to him)

Does this 'kahi janay wali baat' work in real sense? Or should this 'nazariah' exist to classify the standard of love of a girl?

What do you say?
Posted 10 Aug 2007

umm.. i donno really!.. muje abhi tak howa hi nahi..
Posted 10 Aug 2007

eshajam says
abi tak tu nahi howa
baad main nahi pata??
laiken my wife will be happy with me that for sure
in the future..
Posted 10 Aug 2007

Sentiments says
In my opinion, if a girl fails to marry the person whom she loves or loved, and when she gets marries with another person, she should take him as his first (or true love) as he now became his life partner and she should start loving him more than she used to love the person before.

This is the thing that just came to my mind. Well, what do you say?
Posted 10 Aug 2007

new_beau says
I dont blv that anyone lovces only once in life.
Posted 11 Aug 2007

but i think yes ..... shadi ke baad to bas samjhota hota hai.. or agar husband se sacha pyaar mile to larki ko ahsas ho jata hai.. or wo bhi karne lagti hai. Ye just compromize he hota hai
Posted 11 Aug 2007

Fairl_Girl says
London_Girl said:

umm.. i donno really!.. muje abhi tak howa hi nahi..

bilkul such
Posted 13 Aug 2007

cutefriend says
London_Girl said:

umm.. i donno really!.. muje abhi tak howa hi nahi..



aur woh jo u ne book likhi hia itni stories

woh sab xperiments thye
Posted 14 Aug 2007

Fairl_Girl says
Posted 14 Aug 2007

cutefriend says
dekha moti aunty bhag gaye ab
Posted 14 Aug 2007

new_beau says
books ..stories kis nay likhi hainn
Posted 14 Aug 2007

cutefriend says
new_beau said:

books ..stories kis nay likhi hainn



apni moti aunty LG aunty
Posted 14 Aug 2007

new_beau says
Tabhi mainn kahoon..J.K. ROWLING kay naam say kon likhta hay
Posted 14 Aug 2007

cutefriend says
nai yeh sirf wahan se copy paste marti hai

likhthi shekspears ke name se hai
Posted 15 Aug 2007

new_beau says
lollllllllllllzzzzzzzzzzzzzz
Posted 15 Aug 2007

cutefriend says
ohhh LG aunty bzy ho gaye
i think new adition ki tyaryan hain
Posted 15 Aug 2007

Fairl_Girl said:

London_Girl said:

umm.. i donno really!.. muje abhi tak howa hi nahi..

bilkul such


hae na Fg.. mene sahi kaha hae na

sachi FG.. chup kero
Posted 15 Aug 2007

cutefriend said:

London_Girl said:

umm.. i donno really!.. muje abhi tak howa hi nahi..



aur woh jo u ne book likhi hia itni stories

woh sab xperiments thye


yea.. sirf experiments thhey..

experiments se pata yeh chalta hae k love bekaar hota hae
Posted 15 Aug 2007

cutefriend said:

dekha moti aunty bhag gaye ab



nai app aaye to idher!.. app ko jawaab diya jaega
Posted 15 Aug 2007

new_beau said:

books ..stories kis nay likhi hainn




experiments kelie tha .. shhh
Posted 15 Aug 2007

cutefriend said:

new_beau said:

books ..stories kis nay likhi hainn



apni moti aunty LG aunty


wo Cf ne bhi read kerli hain
Posted 15 Aug 2007

new_beau said:

Tabhi mainn kahoon..J.K. ROWLING kay naam say kon likhta hay




LOL!!!.. likhta chahe jo bhi ho, love stories alwayz fake nikalti hain..
Posted 15 Aug 2007

cutefriend said:

nai yeh sirf wahan se copy paste marti hai

likhthi shekspears ke name se hai




copy paste

cutie.. poll khol daali na



Shakespeare ka name se nai likhon gi to aa ker read kon kerey ga

Posted 15 Aug 2007

new_beau said:

lollllllllllllzzzzzzzzzzzzzz






Posted 15 Aug 2007

cutefriend said:

ohhh LG aunty bzy ho gaye
i think new adition ki tyaryan hain



new ediition agaya hae.. read kerlo
Posted 15 Aug 2007

new_beau says
London_Girl said:

new_beau said:

lollllllllllllzzzzzzzzzzzzzz








chal koi gal nahin
Posted 15 Aug 2007

cutefriend says
London_Girl said:

cutefriend said:

new_beau said:

books ..stories kis nay likhi hainn



apni moti aunty LG aunty


wo Cf ne bhi read kerli hain



han aur jo ghaltyan thi us main woh main ne mail ker di hain
Posted 16 Aug 2007

cutefriend says
London_Girl said:

cutefriend said:

nai yeh sirf wahan se copy paste marti hai

likhthi shekspears ke name se hai




copy paste

cutie.. poll khol daali na



Shakespeare ka name se nai likhon gi to aa ker read kon kerey ga



ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh


Posted 16 Aug 2007

new_beau said:

London_Girl said:

new_beau said:

lollllllllllllzzzzzzzzzzzzzz








chal koi gal nahin


koi gal nahi.. fir sahi hae :P
Posted 27 Aug 2007

cutefriend said:

London_Girl said:

cutefriend said:

new_beau said:

books ..stories kis nay likhi hainn



apni moti aunty LG aunty


wo Cf ne bhi read kerli hain



han aur jo ghaltyan thi us main woh main ne mail ker di hain


chahatt patti mail ki.. yeh bhi saath kaho
Posted 27 Aug 2007

LiL_DollY says
Sentiments said:

It is said, "larki zindagi mein ek baar mohabbat
karti hay". What does this philosophy signify actually?

Let's suppose, a girl loves someone and later on could not marry him.
Afterwards she marries some other person. So now what is the state of
her love to her husband? If, according to the said philosophy, the
previous one was her 'ek baar mohabbat' so what kind of this 'mohabbat'
is? Or this is COMPROMISE (because she had already loved someone
earlier i.e. 'zindagi mein ek baar mohabbat').

So what the husband is receiving from her wife:
. love (which he believes to be true)
. compromise love (which the wife knows what she is
giving to him)

Does this 'kahi janay wali baat' work in real sense? Or should this
'nazariah' exist to classify the standard of love of a girl?

What do you say?



its all in the head.

I was in love once. And some people told me it wasnt love. But to me in
my heart it was...and all those feelings I had never felt, and the
butterflies. Of course it was love. Especially when you feel...hurt like
youve never been hurt before you know its love. And its hard...when a
girl first falls in love she thinks shes gonna spend the rest of her life with
that person. but this isnt always the case.

And usually in our culture what happens. We all know. Girl falls in love
with one person and she marries another. So common its a typical story
not a surprise at all.

I think...
If your full of love...
you can love with all your heart again.

From each moment in life whether its falling in love and not being with
the person you love or anything else....theres a lesson to be learned. And
that lesson only helps you make yourself become a better person. And
that better person someday falls in love once again with another person.
Lifes a circle of lessons. Whether its love or anything else. We have to
make the best of it.

I believe in love. And I believe in true love. WHether I have it in my life or
not. Im truly a believer, a fantisizer, and a hopeful person. I do believe a
women can love again. The second time around She loves better. Just
like we do anything the 1st time its usually not as good as we couldve
done it. But the 2nd time or 3rd time we do it better beause we
experinced something, we learned.

I know...that every person (whether paki or not) before getting married
likes someone, has a crush on them, or is friends with that person
whatever. And they usually end up marrying someone their parents
chose or suggested for them.
According to what you said...sounds like...
its really hard when you feel like you love someone and you marry
someone else. You used the word: "Compromise," which means
agreement. So I guess thats how marriage is defined in a culture that
does not widely accept love marriages.
Very common in our culture. hardly ever hear about true love
marriages. I always hear about arranged marriages. But maybe someday
that will change.
Its something to ponder upon.
We all live our lives once.
Lets make the best of it!
Posted 31 Aug 2007

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