sun_shine said:Yess right
kehtay hain k
Aurat say ghar banta hain
jannat bhi jahanum bhi
per Husband ka role bhi buhat important hota hain
aaj kay wakt main
How can we expect that
kay hum kisi ko respect na day
aur woh hamain dan.
Buhat kam aisay log hongay
So Both have their responsibilities.
~Nilam PaRi~ said:i think wen one is single tu one wants 2 get married n wen one gets married tu u wana b single again wohi baat jo shaadi karey woh b pashtaye aur jo na karey wo b.....its human nature 2 complain about wat one has n want 2 want wat u don have.....
danie said:
~Nilam PaRi~ said:i think wen one is single tu one wants 2 get married n wen one gets married tu u wana b single again wohi baat jo shaadi karey woh b pashtaye aur jo na karey wo b.....its human nature 2 complain about wat one has n want 2 want wat u don have.....
Aapki baat kafi had tak sahi hei. It is not human nature to get fully satisfied with anything. Lekin agar hum is matter ko disscuss kare- to mere khayal mei shadi ke pahle aur shadi ke baad mei person (girl/boy) ki life aur life style aur zaruraton mei change aa jata hei. Jaise ek larrke ki nazar se dekhe to- shaddi ke baad use wife ko bhi time dena hota hei (an addition in new life). Apne life ka ek integrated and respectable part accept karna hota hei (by heart). Use ye baat samajhni hoti hei ki uski wife ki ijjat bhi uski ijjat hei. Aur apne ghar mei use ek respectable place dilane ke liye sabse pahke use khud apni wife k\o respect dena hota he.Agar wo ise achi tarah adjust, tuned kar pata hei to uski wife uski jindgi mei khushian hi khushian bikher deti he. agar nahi to dono ki life pareshan ho jati hei. So, it is all matter of adjustment and tuning.
Royaa Afghan said:
danie said:
~Nilam PaRi~ said:i think wen one is single tu one wants 2 get married n wen one gets married tu u wana b single again wohi baat jo shaadi karey woh b pashtaye aur jo na karey wo b.....its human nature 2 complain about wat one has n want 2 want wat u don have.....
Aapki baat kafi had tak sahi hei. It is not human nature to get fully satisfied with anything. Lekin agar hum is matter ko disscuss kare- to mere khayal mei shadi ke pahle aur shadi ke baad mei person (girl/boy) ki life aur life style aur zaruraton mei change aa jata hei. Jaise ek larrke ki nazar se dekhe to- shaddi ke baad use wife ko bhi time dena hota hei (an addition in new life). Apne life ka ek integrated and respectable part accept karna hota hei (by heart). Use ye baat samajhni hoti hei ki uski wife ki ijjat bhi uski ijjat hei. Aur apne ghar mei use ek respectable place dilane ke liye sabse pahke use khud apni wife k\o respect dena hota he.Agar wo ise achi tarah adjust, tuned kar pata hei to uski wife uski jindgi mei khushian hi khushian bikher deti he. agar nahi to dono ki life pareshan ho jati hei. So, it is all matter of adjustment and tuning.
yeh u r right
per problems kis waja sy hoty hain
ky woh apni wahi old life main rehta/rehti hain
en sary changes ko accept nahi karta to es waja sy woh sajta/samajti hain ky shadi main ny kiu ki
lekin ager woh es new life ko khushi sy accept kary to
yeh new life old life sy kafi behter hoti hain
tab app akly nahi hoty har waqt app ka sath deny wala koi hota hain
shahrukh khan said:da only solution 2 dis prob is communicationbiggest problem is UNDERSTANDING..and their inlaws
~Nilam PaRi~ said:
shahrukh khan said:da only solution 2 dis prob is communicationbiggest problem is UNDERSTANDING..and their inlaws
