aggar main kahoon ke tum jhuut bool rahe ho aur main na maanoon ke tum such bool rahe ho tab tum ghussa karo to theek hai (aggar tum such bool rahe ho to...)
main apni advice buro khool rahi hoon, hmmm good idea i think...
Ghussay say Rooza makooh ho jata hai.. ghussa main agar appp comments do agay say aur baat larayee taak poochcha jaiy tu ...
otherwise app ko ghussa aiy aur app ka self control itna acha hai kay app agay say koi comment nahi daitay tu its alright!
roozay main aisee batein kerna jin say doosroon ko ghussa aiy takleef hoo ye bhee Makrooh hai .. Roza hamain Self control sikhata hai .. aik dosray ki izzat kerni chahyee aur in buree cheezoon say bachna chahyee..
aggar eik ko ghussa aa jaye to doosra chup ho jaata hai aur doosre ko aa jaye to pehla chup ho jaata hai... compromise dear! agli baar (ramzaan ke baad) khuub ghussa karna us par
hmmm gusa acha nahin hai.... aur maaf karnay wala Allah ka dost hota hai.... n waisay bhi gusa kills luv....so better avoid it guys not only in ramzan, throughout ur life avoid it...
"...when some tries to pick a fight or annoys the one who is fasting, he should respond only by saying, 'I am fasting'". Walking away from a tense situation when you know you are right takes tremendous courage and self control.
This makes you love Islam that it offers solutions to all human problems. Prophet (pbuh) advised believers that when you feel anger, find yourself a seat if you are standing, perform wudu if you still can't control it. taking deep breath and letting it out slowly also relieves one from anger and tension.
Yarr kya batt karty hooo Sardion main agar thand lag rahi hoo tu insan ko gusa karna cahiya ander ka temperature increase hoga aur thand lagna khtum hoo jay gi ( Mashwara MUFt MAAIN)
Well Sall u said well lakin maza nahi aya ???? GUSA aur ROZA sath sath chalty hain GUSA insan k ander ka sahitan hota hay jo roza khrab akrnay ki puri kosis karta hay aur kafi had tak kamyab hoo jata hay ???
Don't you love this religion that provides freedom from the slavary of whims & desires!
Allah wants freedom for mankind and shaitan wants to enslave 'em, choice's ours
word saum (fast) in arabic means to hold back. Eating and drinking etc. are needs of the nafs (body). holding back from it is controlling, isn't it!
Then prophet (pbuh) explained it as such. anger is normal, you are rite Jbaby, its control has a reward and letting it loose brings harm. Curbing internal desire to cause injury, physical, mental, emotional..., to one who causes anger is an act of righteousness.