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Top Ten Excuses Of Muslim Women Who Don't Wear Hijaab And Their Obvious Weaknesses


Excuse 1: I'm not yet convinced (of the necessity) of hijaab.

Excuse 2: I am convinced of Islamic dress but my mother prevents me from wearing it and if I disobey her I will go to the Fire.

Excuse 3: My position does not allow me to substitute my dress for Islamic dress.

Excuse 4: It is so very hot in my country and I can't stand it. How could I take it if I wore the hijaab?

Excuse 5: I'm afraid that if I wear the hijaab I will take it off at another time because I have seen so many others do so!

Excuse 6: If I wear the hijaab then nobody will marry me, so I'm going to leave it off until then.

Excuse 7: I don't wear hijaab based on what Allah says: And proclaim the grace of your Rabb [Soorah Ad-Dhuhaa 93:11] How can I cover what Allah has blessed me with of silky soft hair and captivating beauty?

Excuse 8: I know that hijaab is obligatory (waajib), but I will wear it when Allah guides me to do so.

Excuse 9: It's not time for that yet. I'm still too young for wearing hijaab. I'll do it when I get older and after I make Hajj!

Excuse 10: I'm afraid that if I wear Islamic clothing that I'll be labeled as belonging to some group or another and I hate partisanship.

In summary: Stop presuming some future expectation in your life will indeed occur! How can you guarantee your own life until tomorrow?
Posted 09 May 2005

Ashii says
mera wala kahan hai ??


n° 11
jiss din hijab ki targeeb dene walon ki nazron mei sharam nazar aae gi mujhe,,, i ll wear it
Posted 09 May 2005

Badal says
aap ka wala...

top ten hain na ye bas, aap ka 11th sahi

hijab le lain tu kisi ki nazar main sharam ho ya na ho is say fark hi nahi parayga aap ko. aur aap ka hijab lena kisi doosray ka kisi amal say mashroot nahi hai, all are lame excuses, at least maan tu lena chahiye.
Posted 09 May 2005

Ashii says
i know,, im not blaming anyone for that, yeh to aise hi sab ko chup karwane ka tareeka hai


see u said mera hijab lena kissi doosre k amal se mashroot nahi hai (mera khyal se iss ka matlab hai k its something that concerns me,, rite ??)
issi tarha mera hijab na lena bhi concerns only ME :)


dont take me wrong,,, im not at allll against hijab,,
par me rasam se zyada niyyat se yakeen rakhti hu
Posted 09 May 2005

Badal says
mera ye matlab nahi kay wearing or not wearing hijab only concerns you. i only said it is not right to say, if it will be so or so then i will wear hijab. it an order of God not any 'rasam'. the whole society is affected by it, not just an individual. you believe on niyyat so what is the 'good' niyyat behind not wearing hijab and breaking Allah's order?
Posted 09 May 2005

Ashii says
good or bad,,,
there isnt any reason,,, i know that well
im not trying to justify myself

but the only thing i cant get is.... it seems pooori dunya mei sirff iss liye buraiyan hein coz women dont wear hijab

i only believe in BALANCE,, that s it
we know few examples of coutries where women r in hijab par unn jaghon pe bhi utni hi buraiyan aur jahalat hai jitna kissi western coutry mei
jab tak kissi ko hijab ka matlab aur reason nahi pata koi fark nahi pare ga,, har woh kaam jo soche samjhe bager kiya jae rasm hi hoti hai,,

hijab shd b the consequence of a global attitude and not a way to avoid pbs



ab lare na to.......................
Posted 09 May 2005

Badal says
SALL said:

but the only thing i cant get is.... it seems pooori dunya mei sirff iss liye buraiyan hein coz women dont wear hijab



who said that? not me at least. and we know very well isi tarah aik aik burai ikathi ho kar poori society kharab kar deti hain, larna to inhi buraiyoon say grass root level par hi parta hai.

SALL said:

i only believe in BALANCE,, that s it
we know few examples of coutries where women r in hijab par unn jaghon pe bhi utni hi buraiyan aur jahalat hai jitna kissi western coutry mei



BALANCE okay then as it requires perform your duties without any 'shart' and pursuade and expect from others the same, not just critisize others.
i do not agree to your second opinion.

SALL said:

jab tak kissi ko hijab ka matlab aur reason nahi pata koi fark nahi pare ga,, har woh kaam jo soche samjhe bager kiya jae rasm hi hoti hai,,

hijab shd b the consequence of a global attitude and not a way to avoid pbs



jo kaam Allah ha hukam samajh kar kiya jaye at least wo rasam nahi hota as is the case with hijab.

hijab should be the consequence of fear of Allah.
Posted 09 May 2005

SohniKuddi says
MASHALLAH, A TOPIC THAT MEANS SOMETHING

I BELIVE THAT THE TOP 10 EXCUSES ARE TOTALLY LAME!
Posted 10 May 2005

SohniKuddi says
SALL, U COME FRM FRANCE....IT WAS QUITE RECENT THAT THERE WAS A BAN ON HEAD SCARVES HAS THAT CHANGED PPLS VIEWS AND HOW IS LIFE DIFFERENT THERE FOR MUSLIM WOMEN OVER THERE?
Posted 10 May 2005

Ashii says
no more comments Z
.......
aap ka maqsad yakeenan theek hai,,, so i better keep my opinions for myself
Posted 10 May 2005

Ashii says
SohniKuddi said:

SALL, U COME FRM FRANCE....IT WAS QUITE RECENT THAT THERE WAS A BAN ON HEAD SCARVES HAS THAT CHANGED PPLS VIEWS AND HOW IS LIFE DIFFERENT THERE FOR MUSLIM WOMEN OVER THERE?


well sohni,, it didnt effect me at all coz i dont wear hijab

but yep im against that law coz its simply a discrimination,,
btw ban sirf scarf pe nahi hai,, its on anyyy religious sign,,
scarf for muslims
turban for siks
kepi for jews
.......


as long as it concerns other muslim women living here,, hmm donno exactly,,
dil mei to yakeenan kuch log khush bhi hue honge but zahir hai kehta kaun hai,, yahan k muslims ki halat kafi Masha Allah hai,, wahid pehchan hijab tha aur ab shayd woh bhi nahi rahe ga
khair,, Allah miyan zyada jante aur samajhte hein
Posted 10 May 2005

Blue Oasis says
Another excuss, and one which I meet with a lot is:

Islam is a religion of intentions and if my intentions are good (i.e. i'm not wearing hijab to attract male attention) then God knows best.
Posted 13 May 2005

Badal says
Jia_ka_chand said:

Another excuss, and one which I meet with a lot is:

Islam is a religion of intentions and if my intentions are good (i.e. i'm not wearing hijab to attract male attention) then God knows best.



Yes, i met with it too, and here again:

SALL said:

dont take me wrong,,, im not at allll against hijab,,
par me rasam se zyada niyyat se yakeen rakhti hu





Badal38486.7358217593
Posted 14 May 2005

Ashii says

no comments

gireban apna apna
amaal apne apne,,
but thnx again,,, coz aap ki NIYYAT kissi ko neecha dikhane ya apne aap ko behtar sabit karne ki nahi hogi,, aap ki niyyat yakeenan achi hai
Posted 14 May 2005

friend_16 says
.. nice topic badal ..

wo point jo mujhay kaafi click ker raha hai .. "kay hamaree niyyat theek hai .. Allah jaanta hai" ... par app ko deekh ker kitnay logoon ki niyaat kharab hoti hai kabhee ye bhee socha hai? .. aur is ka gunnah bhee millay ga kay app kisi ki niyaat kharab kernma ka baais baan raheen hein ...

secondly Quran main hijab ka huqm Hazoor (SAW) ki Azwaj-e-mutahiraat ko aaya hai .. kia un say khalis bhee kisi ki niyaat ho ge?? aur un kay ird gird bhe ziada ter Sahabi hotay thay .. un say ziada koi naik insaan hoo ga??

think for urself.. waqayee ye ye lame excuses hein ..
Posted 14 May 2005

friend_16 says
SALL said:

mera wala kahan hai ??


n° 11
jiss din hijab ki targeeb dene walon ki nazron mei sharam nazar aae gi mujhe,,, i ll wear it



is say koi farq perta hai??

"jis nay jo amal kia hai us ko us ka wohi ajar milay ga "

agar koi hijab pehn ker bhee bura hai tu Allah jaanta hai us ko .. us ki niyaat ko .. is say hamain tu koi farq nahi perna chahyee ..
Posted 14 May 2005

Badal says
friend_16 said:

.. nice topic badal ..

wo point jo mujhay kaafi click ker raha hai .. "kay hamaree niyyat theek hai .. Allah jaanta hai" ... par app ko deekh ker kitnay logoon ki niyaat kharab hoti hai kabhee ye bhee socha hai? .. aur is ka gunnah bhee millay ga kay app kisi ki niyaat kharab kernma ka baais baan raheen hein ...

secondly Quran main hijab ka huqm Hazoor (SAW) ki Azwaj-e-mutahiraat ko aaya hai .. kia un say khalis bhee kisi ki niyaat ho ge?? aur un kay ird gird bhe ziada ter Sahabi hotay thay .. un say ziada koi naik insaan hoo ga??

think for urself.. waqayee ye ye lame excuses hein ..



Nice and perfect explanation friend

Posted 14 May 2005

friend_16 says
Sall ko aa lainay dein maybe un kay mind main aur koi confusion ho ..

yahi farq hai hum main aur pehlay kay loogoon main ( Sahabiyaat main) .. jaab koi huqm aata tha wo maan laitay thay .. jaisay kay Quran main hai :

hum nay suna aur itiaaat ki

aur aj hamain na maannay kay liay hazaroon bahanay hotay hein ... kabhee family .. kabhe loog .. kabhee bachay . kabhee rishtay kay maslay ... as Allah said in Quran:

hum nay maal aur ulaad ko tumharay liay dunya main fitna bana dia hai.

dunya main kisi kaam ka faisla ker lein tu foran stand lay laitay hein .. bhook hartal hoti hai aur kia kia nahi hota baat manwanay kay liay aur jaab deen ka maamla ata hai tu hum inhein logoon kay saamnay kamzoor ho jatay hein... aisa kyun hota hai?friend_1638486.9229166667
Posted 14 May 2005

SohniKuddi says
SALL said:

SohniKuddi said:

SALL, U COME FRM FRANCE....IT WAS QUITE RECENT THAT THERE WAS A BAN ON HEAD SCARVES HAS THAT CHANGED PPLS VIEWS AND HOW IS LIFE DIFFERENT THERE FOR MUSLIM WOMEN OVER THERE?


well sohni,, it didnt effect me at all coz i dont wear hijab

but yep im against that law coz its simply a discrimination,,
btw ban sirf scarf pe nahi hai,, its on anyyy religious sign,,
scarf for muslims
turban for siks
kepi for jews
.......


as long as it concerns other muslim women living here,, hmm donno exactly,,
dil mei to yakeenan kuch log khush bhi hue honge but zahir hai kehta kaun hai,, yahan k muslims ki halat kafi Masha Allah hai,, wahid pehchan hijab tha aur ab shayd woh bhi nahi rahe ga
khair,, Allah miyan zyada jante aur samajhte hein


I SEE
Posted 14 May 2005

Badal says
friend_16 said:

Sall ko aa lainay dein maybe un kay mind main aur koi confusion ho ..

yahi farq hai hum main aur pehlay kay loogoon main ( Sahabiyaat main) .. jaab koi huqm aata tha wo maan laitay thay .. jaisay kay Quran main hai :

hum nay suna aur itiaaat ki

aur aj hamain na maannay kay liay hazaroon bahanay hotay hein ... kabhee family .. kabhe loog .. kabhee bachay . kabhee rishtay kay maslay ... as Allah said in Quran:

hum nay maal aur ulaad ko tumharay liay dunya main fitna bana dia hai.

dunya main kisi kaam ka faisla ker lein tu foran stand lay laitay hein .. bhook hartal hoti hai aur kia kia nahi hota baat manwanay kay liay aur jaab deen ka maamla ata hai tu hum inhein logoon kay saamnay kamzoor ho jatay hein... aisa kyun hota hai?



excuses kisi confusion ka result nahi hotay, desires ka result hotay hain ya phir majboori ka

Sahaba ka Imaan buhat strong tha is liye wo excuses nahi kartay thay aur mostly reason bhi nahi poochtay thay kay aisa kyun karna chahiye ya kyun nahi karna chahiye. maybe aik waja ye bhi thi kay Prophet (SAW) khud un main moujood thay.

aur aaj kal tu dunya ki muhabbat insaan kay dil main itni hai kay mazhab be-maani lagta hai

Posted 14 May 2005

friend_16 says
dont be sad badal coz aik momin hamisha pur umeed hota hai ... na umeedi waisay bhe gunnah hai ..

hamain he dunya ko badalna hai .. meri poori koosish hoti hai kay jo koi yahan koi masla bhaijhay ya jitnee bhee meri info ho main post ker doon .. logoon main la-ilmi bohat ziada hai .. kuch loog aisay bhee hein jin ko pata chalta hai tu wo foraan maan jatay hein aur kuch logoon ko convince kernay main time lagta hai .. is liay give up nahi kerna chahyee ..

aik larki aik village main gaiy aur wahaan kay logoon ko deen kay baray main bataya tu un logoon ney aansoon say roona shoro ker dia kay agar app hamaray paas na atee tu hum tu la-ilmi main he maar jatay ..

aisa cases bhee hein ..
Posted 15 May 2005

SohniKuddi says
YEH KAAM AAP BOHAT ACCHA KARTE HAIN, HUM SAB KO CHAHIYE KE LOGON KO ISLAM KE BARE MEIN BATAYEN, AISE LOGON SE ALLAH (SWT) BOHAT KHUSH HOTE HAIN. G BOHAT LOG AISE HOTE HAIN KE BAAT SUN KAR BHI ACTION NAHIN LETE, MAAN TO LETE HAIN MAGHAR USS BAAT PAR GHOR NAHIN KARTE.
Posted 21 May 2005

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