love or parents?

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if you are in love so your parents don't agree on that so will leave
your 20 year parents love
your 1/2 year lover's love
which one will you choose
Posted 11 Jun 2005

Bazigaar says
always parents
Posted 11 Jun 2005

irsa says
Bazigaar said:

always parents



ya i knew it thankyou very much
Posted 11 Jun 2005

Bazigaar says
irsa said:

Bazigaar said:

always parents



ya i knew it thankyou very much


if u knew then why did u bothered asking the question
Posted 11 Jun 2005

paki_fan says
parents obviously
Posted 11 Jun 2005

BadShaH1 says
i dont know
i wont leave both
Posted 12 Jun 2005

Awaaara says
pAReNtS
Posted 12 Jun 2005

irsa says
BadShaH1 said:

i dont know
i wont leave both



if you have to leave one so what would you do
Posted 12 Jun 2005

irsa says
Bazigaar said:

irsa said:

Bazigaar said:

always parents



ya i knew it thankyou very much


if u knew then why did u bothered asking the question


just timepass
Posted 12 Jun 2005

Bazigaar says
ohh acha...keep going then
Posted 12 Jun 2005

irsa says
Bazigaar said:

ohh acha...keep going then



thankyou!
Posted 12 Jun 2005

guest. says
irsa said:

if you are in love so your parents don't agree on that so will leave
your 20 year parents love
your 1/2 year lover's love
which one will you choose



non
Posted 13 Jun 2005

irsa says

itni halkay say bhi na lagay kai khuck fell hi na ho
to phir jhatke ka kia faida

King of jb said:

irsa said:

Bazigaar said:

irsa said:

Bazigaar said:

always parents



ya i knew it thankyou very much


if u knew then why did u bothered asking the question


just timepass




baazi joor ka jhatka dheeray say lagey
Posted 13 Jun 2005

mallak!! says
wha?
everyone ud leave their parents?
:/

a wiseman nbever mixes both...mua ha ha
Posted 14 Jun 2005

irsa says
ahaaaaaaaa


mallak!! said:

wha?
everyone ud leave their parents?
:/

a wiseman nbever mixes both...mua ha ha

Posted 14 Jun 2005

cutefriend says
parents


and also try to agree them
Posted 15 Jun 2005

LiL_DollY says
irsa said:

if you are in love so your parents don't agree on that so will leave
your 20 year parents love
your 1/2 year lover's love
which one will you choose



I want my love
because eventually if your parents lvoe you.
they will understand and overcome their anger and sadness.
I mean parents raise you and keep you happy and give you everything that you want
so why not marry you to the perosn that you love.

Whatever happens happens
you have to accept it
everything is form Allah (swt)
Posted 15 Jun 2005

Bazigaar says
LiL_DollY said:

irsa said:

if you are in love so your parents don't agree on that so will leave
your 20 year parents love
your 1/2 year lover's love
which one will you choose



I want my love
because eventually if your parents lvoe you.
they will understand and overcome their anger and sadness.
I mean parents raise you and keep you happy and give you everything that you want
so why not marry you to the perosn that you love.

Whatever happens happens
you have to accept it
everything is form Allah (swt)


why is it that kids always say..if my parents love me they will understand me...? why u always want to test parent's love? can u pay back a mom for only one night that she slept on wet spot when u pee'd and put u on dry spot? can u pay for dat father's affection and love jis ke unglee pakar ker apne duniya dekhee hae? naah...we can never never never pay back for what our parents did...least we can do is to make sure we don;t make them sad or give them dukh or sadma....

yes as most say...parents love us..they will forgive us..yes..probably they will...but un ko jo sadma aur dukh ho ga from u;r action...us ke baray mae bhi socha hae kabhi? remember...ajj hum jo bhi hain....r cuz of our parents...

my sincere advice to u all (from my own personal experience) is never...ever...try u;r best to give dukh to u;r parents...especially ye love and stuff...trust me guys...if u give dukh to u;r parents cuz of love or whatever...u will never find happiness in life...and it;s gonna haunt u forever...no matter what

sorry if i offended someone...i feel parents should be respected no matter what...
Posted 15 Jun 2005

irsa says
so that's mean you are gana disapoint your parents



LiL_DollY said:

irsa said:

if you are in love so your parents don't agree on that so will leave
your 20 year parents love
your 1/2 year lover's love
which one will you choose



I want my love
because eventually if your parents lvoe you.
they will understand and overcome their anger and sadness.
I mean parents raise you and keep you happy and give you everything that you want
so why not marry you to the perosn that you love.

Whatever happens happens
you have to accept it
everything is form Allah (swt)
Posted 15 Jun 2005

LiL_DollY says
Bazigaar said:

LiL_DollY said:

irsa said:

if you are in love so your parents don't agree on that so will leave
your 20 year parents love
your 1/2 year lover's love
which one will you choose



I want my love
because eventually if your parents lvoe you.
they will understand and overcome their anger and sadness.
I mean parents raise you and keep you happy and give you everything that you want
so why not marry you to the perosn that you love.

Whatever happens happens
you have to accept it
everything is form Allah (swt)


why is it that kids always say..if my parents love me they will understand me...? why u always want to test parent's love? can u pay back a mom for only one night that she slept on wet spot when u pee'd and put u on dry spot? can u pay for dat father's affection and love jis ke unglee pakar ker apne duniya dekhee hae? naah...we can never never never pay back for what our parents did...least we can do is to make sure we don;t make them sad or give them dukh or sadma....

yes as most say...parents love us..they will forgive us..yes..probably they will...but un ko jo sadma aur dukh ho ga from u;r action...us ke baray mae bhi socha hae kabhi? remember...ajj hum jo bhi hain....r cuz of our parents...

my sincere advice to u all (from my own personal experience) is never...ever...try u;r best to give dukh to u;r parents...especially ye love and stuff...trust me guys...if u give dukh to u;r parents cuz of love or whatever...u will never find happiness in life...and it;s gonna haunt u forever...no matter what

sorry if i offended someone...i feel parents should be respected no matter what...


Bazi...
heres my opninion now
No ones wrong and everyone has their own ideas and opinions. Thats what makes everyone unique.

You sounded like my nana abu when you spoke about the mother taking care of her child. Well...I understand and totally respect my parents. I really do. And I never want them to be sad. I've dont 95% things in life to make them happy. I cant see either of them sad because it breaks me apart. yes, I do love them more than probably anyone in the world.

You know...I just think...that if a parent has sense that the baby should be put in a dry place. Or...the father that holds the childs finger. Well this should continue through out life. A parent should always lvoe and look out for there child. A father should always show the child new things and experiences.

But...if parents give everythig to their children. Of course the children will repay their parents by taking care of them. By massaging their legs. by cooking for them. hugging them and kissinng them. telling them how much they love them. By having their parents relax for a while....while the kids bring the moeny home and pay the bills.

There are other ways that children can show repect to their parents. But giving up their life and sacrificing it...for the love of their parents...is a personal choice. sometimes you believe in it...sometimes you dont and you still do it.

Parents should care and love their children enought o ask them who they want in their life.

MOst parents in the pakistani culture are strict and respected when it comes to religion. I understadn they pray five times. But sometimes praying five times is not the only thing in islam. Nobody's marriage is valid without the girl or boys yes. And no one can force a girl into marriage. this is also islam. Our people need tot be eudcated.

We can also respect our paretns by educating them about Islam. Did you know that.

You talk to them sweetly. You be patient with them. And you dont curse at them. that is beign respectful.

So do you getmy point or would you like me top expand.... on my views...


Posted 17 Jun 2005

LiL_DollY says
irsa said:

so that's mean you are gana disapoint your parents



LiL_DollY said:

irsa said:

if you are in love so your parents don't agree on that so will leave
your 20 year parents love
your 1/2 year lover's love
which one will you choose



I want my love
because eventually if your parents lvoe you.
they will understand and overcome their anger and sadness.
I mean parents raise you and keep you happy and give you everything that you want
so why not marry you to the perosn that you love.

Whatever happens happens
you have to accept it
everything is form Allah (swt)



Irsa darling you misudnerstood.

You asked my opnion and I told it to you...no need to get all rough about it.

I have my own life. I make my own choices. I respect my parents. I always have. I think that you need to understand that you can respect your parents in more than one way. (read the top post I made).

Anways...you gave a choice to have either parents...
or a love

well you offered an option of leaving...

GOD HONEST TRUTH....
I aint no coward...I wouldnt leave...cause I have nothign to fear. If I loved someone...I would confront my parents and tell them...I love this guy and I want to marry him. If they say yes thats fine if they say no thats fine. Ill FACE MY PROBLEMS...not run away form them

Only cowards run away from their problems. You cant always take the easy way out of life. You have to take the hard route sometimes and learn your lesson from it.

Dont Judge me. I have my own life. Im a very respectful person. You jsut dont know me.


Well..

Posted 17 Jun 2005

BadShaH1 says
Dont Judge me. I have my own life. Im a very respectful person. You jsut dont know me


everyone sayz dat.
Posted 17 Jun 2005

LiL_DollY says
BadShaH1 said:

Dont Judge me. I have my own life. Im a very respectful person. You jsut dont know me


everyone sayz dat.



lol...bad shah thum bhi nah
kiyu up bhi yahi ketha ho

well I am not everyone
I am LIL DOLLY
UNIQUE
DIFFERENT
AND VERY SPECIAL

thank you
Posted 17 Jun 2005

BadShaH1 says
gud for u
Posted 20 Jun 2005

Bazigaar says
answer mila gya na
Posted 20 Jun 2005

LiL_DollY says
answer apko mila bazi

I wrote the long one for you
Posted 20 Jun 2005

Bazigaar says
summarize it plz
Posted 21 Jun 2005

LiL_DollY says
no thxz
stop being lazy and readf
it
it might benefit
your health
Posted 21 Jun 2005

Bazigaar says
i'm old guy, got a kid..health is gone
Posted 21 Jun 2005

LiL_DollY says
Posted 21 Jun 2005

Bazigaar says
Posted 21 Jun 2005

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