For many men, I can understand it..... it's harder for most men to get a
good sex life in the first place and when they do get with someone that
at least at one time appeared to consent to sex with them,, it's hard
to walk away when that dries up because they had a very hard time
finding someone in the first place. And now that they are balder and
fatter and more set in their ways, starting over often appears
particularly daunting if not even near impossible task. (I'm not
necessarily saying that it is impossible for men to start over.. in many
ways it's much easier for a mature man in their 30s, 40s and beyond
than in their younger days. But I am saying to the individual man, it
may seem very daunting at the time)
So unless a guy is a star athlete, rock star, celebrity, very rich or
unusually good looking, sex is always a challenge for men. So I kind of
get why men may settle into sexless marriages.
But women???? Women have to fight off sexual advances from puberty on.
We have to teach women self defense and rape awareness to keep from
having sex forced upon them against their will.
A woman can download a phone app and have a hook up arranged in less than an hour.
A woman can walk into any bar in any town at any of the hour day or
night and hook up right there in the bathroom or parking lot.
Now yes yes yes, I get it... not many if any women will actually choose to do that - but my point is THEY CAN.
Another difference between the boys and the girls is men won't care that
a woman is married if he has a chance to score and there is at least a
slight chance he won't get caught and beat up or a chance that he may
not get an STI. Men will line up to some WWs boytoy.