and main chamjhi thi X as "used" istmal hota hay

Chall i cant understand it
x wife, gf, bf
yah to wo log hotay hain jinko banda sab say ziada janta hay
to how come "unknown" ???
yah log bi ajeeb hain lol
waichay hamali society main X ko kafi -ive samjha jata hay
i think we should not use it
COZ jab aap kahtay ho k wo mera/meri x thi/tha
to sun.nay walay k zehn main yahi ata hay k
"us insan main toi na toi burai thi, thats y yah log ab sath main nahin hain"
uff Chall yah kafi muchtil topic hay lol
m confused