You hit the nail on the head about loneliness being a big factor. A few years ago, I was going through a rough patch after a breakup and ended up visiting places like that more than I care to admit. It wasn’t about being "horny," but about wanting connection, even if it was just the illusion of someone enjoying my company.
When I traveled to Seoul, I visited ?????, and it felt different. The atmosphere was more relaxed and personal, almost like hanging out with friends rather than just a transaction. It reminded me that sometimes it's not about seeking attention but about finding spaces where you feel comfortable and seen.
