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An 80 year old man was sitting on the sofa in his house along with his 45 years old highly educated son. Suddenly a crow perched on their window.
The Father asked his Son, "What is this?"
The Son replied "It is a crow".
After a few minutes, the Father asked his Son the 2nd time, "What is this?"
The Son said "Father, I have just now told you "It's a crow".
After a little while, the old Father again asked his Son the 3rd time,
What is this?"
At this time some ex-pression of irritation was felt in the Son's tone
when he said to his Father with a rebuff. "It's a crow, a crow".
A little after, the Father again asked his Son t he 4th time, "What is this?"
This time the Son shouted at his Father, "Why do you keep asking me the same question again and again, although I have told you so many times 'IT IS A CROW'. Are you not able to understand this?"

A little later the Father went to his room and came back with an old tattered diary, which he had maintained since his Son was born. On opening a page, he asked his Son to read that page. When the son read it, the following words were written in the diary :-

"Today my little son aged three was sitting with me on the sofa, when a crow was sitting on the window. My Son asked me 23 times what it was, and I replied to him all 23 times that it was a Crow. I hugged him lovingly each time h e asked me the same question again and again for 23 times. I did not at all feel irritated I rather felt affection for my innocent child".

While the little child asked him 23 times "What is this", the Father had felt no irritation in replying to the same question all 23 times and when today the Father asked his Son the same question just 4 times, the Son felt irritated and annoyed.

So..
If your parents attain old age, do not repulse them or look at them as a burden, but speak to them a gracious word, be cool, obedient, humble and kind to them. Be considerate to your parents.From today say this aloud, "I want to see my parents happy forever. They have cared for me
ever since I was a little child. They have always showered their selfless love on me.

They crossed all mountains and valleys without seeing the storm and heat to make me a person presentable in the society today".

Say a prayer to God, "I will serve my old parents in the BEST way. I will say all good and kind words to my dear parents, no matter how they behave

Dear brothers n sisters love ur parents sure Allah SWT wil love you.My Salaam to all d fathers n mothers of this world!!
Posted 07 Jan 2008

eshajam says
we all must respect our parent
because of allah and they we existed
they must be loved respected cared
my father told me this story but
thxx for sharing it
jazak-ALLAH
Posted 07 Jan 2008

sun_shine says
thanks alot
yaa we should always give love,respect to our parents
Posted 08 Jan 2008

How about those who want to disobey their parents for the new found love in their lifves?
Posted 11 Jan 2008

sun_shine says
i think kyunki situation aisi hoti hay k unkay parents is relation pe raazi nahi hotay aur woh yeh soch kar unki baat ko nahi mantay k parents kabhi bhi apnay bacho say ziyada arsay naraaz nahi reh saktay
Posted 12 Jan 2008


nice sharing...

Posted 14 Jan 2008

sun_shine says
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saneeha says
jazak allah khair...............
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