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love advice for men

hello,
this is topic is not for all men just the ones that make decisions and dont know what to do, if u marry a girit l and in the begg you are happy but later on you are not and want someone else ten please let her know in a honest way you want out make sure shes not pregnant if shes pregnannt ten you have to stay even if
it hurts in the beg time will heal her wounds so please men either accept your marriage but please dont stay and make urself misreable and her

Posted on 2/6/2008 9:41:00 PM

well i agree bt y wud any1 wana marry sumone he doesn't luv or its jus a one nite stand

Posted on 2/6/2008 9:55:32 PM

well in my case he was happy befoe the marriage afterwards he changed i stayed the same you can tell wen someo nes not happy in a realationship staying distant non-responsive not thinking ure good enough
is a problem.

Posted on 2/6/2008 9:58:55 PM

try 2 find out da reason warna ail dam se kia ho gaya?

Posted on 2/6/2008 10:35:20 PM

He wont tell me the reason hes not direct with me so i can ask him all i want he wont tell me.

Posted on 2/6/2008 10:38:21 PM

you ask him unhain batana hi parega.
coz life aap dono ki hain aur relation bhi.

Posted on 2/7/2008 9:22:10 AM

he wont say i t he just wont hes not concerened i wish i could commit suicide but i know its a sin, he doenst even think i exsist he avoids me at all costs iam not there really i wisdh i could hang myself

Posted on 2/7/2008 9:41:54 AM

dont ever think about suicide as you has said its haraam,you play ur part honesty and enjoy life at your own.

Posted on 2/7/2008 9:45:24 AM

yea but i dont have any patience iam broke at the moment its gonna take me a while to get settled before i move out, and i dont want to wait u know so long

Posted on 2/7/2008 10:05:18 AM

inshAllah ewverything will be Ok

Posted on 2/7/2008 10:06:24 AM

i wish i was not so emotional and i wish i did not make a big deal when someonee breaks my heart but iam so sensitive its like i cant stand someone breaking my heart and just living like its ok to do that...

Posted on 2/7/2008 10:06:44 AM

ok i will tell you one thing
pehlay i was also like that
apnay aik problem ko apni life per haavi mat honay de.
search for a solution
you are the only person who can solve it
ask ur husband to gave you some time to answer ur questions
tell him that what are you feeling towards our relationship etc and clear all the questions which are in ur mind.

Posted on 2/7/2008 10:10:53 AM

i totally agree wid sun shine....dont b hasty ponder,think n den make a decision...divorce or separation is a big decision n has effects on ur life..so plz plz dun b hasty

Posted on 2/7/2008 7:23:41 PM

udaslarki if m nt rong ap k ek topic sy mje lga tha k u dnt want children n ur haby want so...mite b rzn is that....wesy b yar shadi sy pehly married life bht fascinating lgti ha bt baad may apko realistic ho jana chaey...

yar bnda b4 mariage khasi xpectations rkhta ha bt beharhal shadi k baad khud apko b ehsas hna chaey k husband sara tym beth k wife ki shan may qasedy ya ezhar e muhabat type k kam ni kr skta....
newaz best of luck. Allah pak apki pbs.door karain.aamenn

Posted on 2/14/2008 2:07:25 PM

i want to receive something better (

Posted on 2/16/2008 8:09:17 AM


Posted on 2/16/2008 2:26:57 PM

udaaslarki24:
He wont tell me the reason hes not direct with me so i can ask him all i want he wont tell me.



Dtcha think its your right to ask him No matter wat to settle all dispute among yew both !...

Posted on 2/28/2008 5:30:58 AM