Well, there is this girl whom I like and I know she likes me as well to a certain extent. But I am not sure that she likes me in that particular manner. She is quite pretty and good looking. The problem is, we have a certain communication gap. I kind of get boring while in a conversation with her, I try to act nice and sober. I am not so good when it comes to the opposite gender. i think she thinks that I am boring.
Suggest me on what topics should I talk with her. How to check that whether she loves me or not.
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castro said:
Well, there is this girl whom I like and I know she likes me as well to a certain extent. But I am not sure that she likes me in that particular manner. She is quite pretty and good looking. The problem is, we have a certain communication gap. I kind of get boring while in a conversation with her, I try to act nice and sober. I am not so good when it comes to the opposite gender. i think she thinks that I am boring.
Suggest me on what topics should I talk with her. How to check that whether she loves me or not.
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Hi Cool Boy ! You are actually expecting miracles to take place. Impossible things do happen but miracles take time. You love a girl & You cannot express this. How will she know your feelings? You will have to make efforts to let her know of your love for her. Unless you share this with her, you will never come to know of what she thinks of you & her feelings for you. Buddy, dont take all the time in the world to say those golden words. Say it now before it is too late. You could possibly take help of some trusted common friend to let her know your feelings. Good Luck !
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Yes tell her - the worst that can happen is that she'll laugh at you and us chaps can stand up to rejection cos we are tough (aren't we?). If you don't tell her then some other bugger will come and nick her off you. So hurry up - Just go up to her in a quiet moment and ask her out on a date.
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experience counts i beleive
if you would have asked the same question 30 yrs back it would have been tough to answer.. but nowadays its' very very simple.. there are plenty of modes of communication, including verbal & non-verbal.
try something different if u can't talk face-to-face.. sms ? email ? etc.. atleast get it rolling warna as Janubaba said.. bugger wala scene hoga.. and u'll have to come back to JB and tell us your sad story
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jag said:
experience counts i beleive
if you would have asked the same question 30 yrs back it would have been tough to answer.. but nowadays its' very very simple.. there are plenty of modes of communication, including verbal & non-verbal.
try something different if u can't talk face-to-face.. sms ? email ? etc.. atleast get it rolling warna as Janubaba said.. bugger wala scene hoga.. and u'll have to come back to JB and tell us your sad story
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JanuBaba said:
jag said:
experience counts i beleive
if you would have asked the same question 30 yrs back it would have been tough to answer.. but nowadays its' very very simple.. there are plenty of modes of communication, including verbal & non-verbal.
try something different if u can't talk face-to-face.. sms ? email ? etc.. atleast get it rolling warna as Janubaba said.. bugger wala scene hoga.. and u'll have to come back to JB and tell us your sad story
& btw, best of luck.
30 years back the famous phrase was Paan Khao Gi
Lolz...
@Jag, I will try the non-verbal style. I am better in non-verbal setup...
Friends, I called her today, she said she is busy at the moment. Will call me later. Her tone sounded quite harsh though...
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Just talked with her. Just usual stuff no progress on the whole. I think my ego is getting sensitive day by day. I think its the rejection that I fear most...
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Today I called her. I asked her to join me for a supper. I picked her from her place, we went to a place, had supper. I acted very normal and casual. On our way back home I implicitly tried to mention that I kind of like her.
She said "I think its good that we stay friends"... And thats it.
I kind of went cold, kind of nervous. There was this long silence and a bloody traffic jam. After dropping her home.
I was and am so pissed off at myself. Ohh man this is bad. This is bad. This is some damn thing I did. I really made a fool of myself. I think I should take some time before venturing into that territory. But all that gas which was filled to me in last few days by my friends really took its toll.
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castro said:
Today I called her. I asked her to join me for a supper. I picked her from her place, we went to a place, had supper. I acted very normal and casual. On our way back home I implicitly tried to mention that I kind of like her.
She said "I think its good that we stay friends"... And thats it.
I kind of went cold, kind of nervous. There was this long silence and a bloody traffic jam. After dropping her home.
I was and am so pissed off at myself. Ohh man this is bad. This is bad. This is some damn thing I did. I really made a fool of myself. I think I should take some time before venturing into that territory. But all that gas which was filled to me in last few days by my friends really took its toll.
Damn man..
awwww u poor thing
well in a way i think u jumped in too quick...n u shunt hav dun...just be frends with her, make her laff, buy her things, make her happi, take her here, take her there...then she may u knw start liking u, bcoz the more u knw sumone the better it is...anyway am a girl i knw these things...but try wat i sed then u may get sumthing in the end....
