Avoid Falling Too Hard for Someone

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~Fragi~

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Steps

1. Do not have them on your mind 24/7. Try to think about other things like friends, what your going to do today, past funny memories.. something to keep them off your mind. Because the more you think about them, the more your mind will play up how nice it would be to be with them. So if things don't work out you wont get your hopes up.
2. Don't only hang out with them. You cant just ditch your pals. If you spend every day with this person you will become attached and like them a whole lot. If you separate time for your friends and your girl or guy then you'll see things will work out much better, because the person wont think your the only one they have.
3. Don't be so quick to tell your friends about your new date. This will make the new relationship seem like more than it is. If you guys are starting slow, by telling your friends it will only make them ask you all the time, "so whatsup with you and chad?" you don't want that.. because then in your mind you will start to believe you guys are practically dating, and you may not be. Trust me I know from past experience!
4. Avoid thinking that he/she is the only one out there. If you think things are going downhill, oh well, what can you do? hope for more.. that gets us nowhere. Move on and if this person doesn't like you, then who cares! be strong move on.


Tips

* Be yourself. people can tell when your putting on an act and trying to be someone your not, you look uncomfortable.
* Do not expect ANYONE to have no flaws. More important is to find them and accept or leave that person if you can/can't live with those flaws. Eats with mouth open? Fine I can deal with that. Hates people of different colour or religion? BuhBye!
Posted 13 Apr 2009

Miss mine says

Lol.. ok luv guru
Posted 13 Apr 2009

Rain Man says
why even fall?
lets rise up by not fallin in luv...see if that works.
(i will not be taking my own advice)
Posted 13 Apr 2009

lekin eik problem hai

iss advice ka humey koi fayeda nahi...mein to unke barey mein all the time sochti hu
Posted 13 Apr 2009

kia baat hy Guru ji...
Posted 13 Apr 2009

~Fragi~ says
Miss mine said:


Lol.. ok luv guru



lol u darpok ...
Posted 13 Apr 2009

~Fragi~ says
*~rain_girl~* said:

lekin eik problem hai

iss advice ka humey koi fayeda nahi...mein to unke barey mein all the time sochti hu



oh dats not good sensi alien
Posted 13 Apr 2009

~Fragi~ says
Little Vampire said:

kia baat hy Guru ji...




bus app k ashiwaard ka result hai
Posted 13 Apr 2009


Paa g... in short bataen...
Posted 13 Apr 2009

~Fragi~ says
in short hee bataya hai
Posted 13 Apr 2009

~Fragi~ said:

Little Vampire said:

kia baat hy Guru ji...




bus app k ashiwaard ka result hai


u know aj hi maira Heart Break hoa hy

   
Posted 13 Apr 2009

~Fragi~ says
oh tu in baaton per amal kar lena tha na
Posted 13 Apr 2009

bas Ap ny itna late btaya to ya to hona hi tha na
Posted 13 Apr 2009

~Fragi~ says
oh koi baat nahi

chalta hai chalta hai

hota hai hota hai
Posted 13 Apr 2009

Posted 13 Apr 2009

~Fragi~ says
oh b brave..........
Posted 13 Apr 2009

thank u ji
Posted 14 Apr 2009

~Fragi~ says
Welkum g

R u ready 4 dis dare ?
Posted 15 Apr 2009

sun_shine says
Assalam O Alaikum

*Nice Sharing
But I Think if You Love someone Your Life partner or anyone
tho 24 hours woh ap k mind main hotay hain
unko yaad karna ya na karna yeh Insan k apnay Ikhtiyar main Nahi hota.
Buhat Kam log hotay hain jo har cheez ko apni Jagah pe Rakh k sochtay hain
but I Beleive k Har cheez ki apni jaga aur apni limit hoti hain woh Cheez usi jaga aur limit main rahay tho hi Achi lagti hain...!
Posted 15 Apr 2009

~Fragi~ says
Sun shne wat if u dont love dat person?

Sirf crush ho
Posted 15 Apr 2009

sun_shine says
*I Think Agar Crush ho tho woh chand din ki baat hain woh Khatam ho jati hain,us main Mamla itna Serious nahi hota...!
Posted 15 Apr 2009

~Fragi~ says
Crushes b akser serious ho jatey hain
Posted 15 Apr 2009

sun_shine says

*Yaa Right jee...!
Posted 15 Apr 2009

~Fragi~ says
so we shud take care na
Posted 16 Apr 2009

~Fragi~ said:

Crushes b akser serious ho jatey hain



nahi zarori to nahi hy..
Posted 16 Apr 2009

sun_shine said:

*I Think Agar Crush ho tho woh chand din ki baat hain woh Khatam ho jati hain,us main Mamla itna Serious nahi hota...!



very well said ...
Posted 16 Apr 2009

~Fragi~ says
Little Vampire said:

~Fragi~ said:

Crushes b akser serious ho jatey hain



nahi zarori to nahi hy..

But chances r there na
Posted 16 Apr 2009

ab jis ko har dosry din crush ho raha ho to phir ???
Posted 16 Apr 2009

~Fragi~ says
us kee intensity hee kam ho jatee hai .......
Posted 16 Apr 2009

ohh acha guru ji
Posted 24 Apr 2009

~Fragi~ says
oh ho i m not Love Guru na
Posted 24 Apr 2009

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