1. Do not have them on your mind 24/7. Try to think about other things like friends, what your going to do today, past funny memories.. something to keep them off your mind. Because the more you think about them, the more your mind will play up how nice it would be to be with them. So if things don't work out you wont get your hopes up. 2. Don't only hang out with them. You cant just ditch your pals. If you spend every day with this person you will become attached and like them a whole lot. If you separate time for your friends and your girl or guy then you'll see things will work out much better, because the person wont think your the only one they have. 3. Don't be so quick to tell your friends about your new date. This will make the new relationship seem like more than it is. If you guys are starting slow, by telling your friends it will only make them ask you all the time, "so whatsup with you and chad?" you don't want that.. because then in your mind you will start to believe you guys are practically dating, and you may not be. Trust me I know from past experience! 4. Avoid thinking that he/she is the only one out there. If you think things are going downhill, oh well, what can you do? hope for more.. that gets us nowhere. Move on and if this person doesn't like you, then who cares! be strong move on.
Tips
* Be yourself. people can tell when your putting on an act and trying to be someone your not, you look uncomfortable. * Do not expect ANYONE to have no flaws. More important is to find them and accept or leave that person if you can/can't live with those flaws. Eats with mouth open? Fine I can deal with that. Hates people of different colour or religion? BuhBye!
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*Nice Sharing But I Think if You Love someone Your Life partner or anyone tho 24 hours woh ap k mind main hotay hain unko yaad karna ya na karna yeh Insan k apnay Ikhtiyar main Nahi hota. Buhat Kam log hotay hain jo har cheez ko apni Jagah pe Rakh k sochtay hain but I Beleive k Har cheez ki apni jaga aur apni limit hoti hain woh Cheez usi jaga aur limit main rahay tho hi Achi lagti hain...!
lekin eik problem hai
