Wht about our duties???

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friend_16

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Salamz everyone .. well before u start reading thiz i have a request .. plz read it carefully with concentration .. .. i had been observing this for few days n still not reached with a conclusion .. the problem is .. being a Muslim (Alhamdolillah) i had being observing mine, my friends n colleagues life.. how do we start our day?? .. especially in holidays?? we go to sleep late at nite n wake up late in the morning.. without listening to music we feel incomplete.. while sitting on the computer its necessary to listen music.. coz music keeps us refresh aur waisay bhee music rooh ki gaza hai!! Where the hell it came from that music rooh ki gaza hai?? Who said that??

We can spent 3 hours watching a movie .. but if our mom comes n asked us to pray which hardly takes 15mins we feel tired .. exhaust.. n we have so many excuses for it!!! If we had our fav singer’s concert n on the other hand we had to attend a naat mehfel or something related to islam or Quran .. we’ll attend concert.. hey mom my fav band is here after so many days .. I have to attend thiz one aur ye mehfilaain wagiara to roooz hee hote hain I’ll attend it some other day.. n that some other day never comes again in our life!! .. we just have to pray five times a day .. that’s the only duty of us … n we don’t care .. we shamelessly says I m busy .. I have to go to college .. my friends r waiting for me .. I m feeling tired .. thus we have thousands of excuses for not praying.. n on the other hand if our fav movie starts we never feels tired or anything .. n also we don’t want anyone to disturb us!!! Wht about NAMAZ?? Wht about QURAN?? We can read nasty books .. watch movies for endless hours .. but wht about our duties??? We r forgetting everything.. we r forgetting our duties.. n I even heard people saying that yaar hamaree tu dua kabool nahi hote .. even I used to say this .. but if we pray to Allah with a belief that HE is there to listen to our every problem .. HE is always there in happiness n sadness then definitely hamaree dua kabool hoo gee.. hum waisay namaz nahi pertay laiken jab koi mushkil atee hai tu regularlay namazain parh rahay hain aur duaan ker rahay hain … wht is this??

We r spending our lifes the way we want .. we have crushes n fav celebraties to follow.. even I saw few people who r crazy about actors .. singers .. etc.. the way they dresses.. they way they walk .. they talk .. n everything .. people crazily follow each n everything .. hey shouldn’t be HAZRAT MUHAMMAD (SALLAH- ALIHAY- WASALM) be the one we should follow??? We know everything about our fav actor .. singer .. his/her bio data.. fav things.. dislikes.. ??? but wht about Hazrat Muhammad who was supposed to be our fav personality… we r moving away from islam .. we should do something to realize our duties .. we should wake up now .. we r the next generation .. so its in our hands whether to forget our duties or follow it!! ..

( I have not written thiz to feel appreciated n also I don’t want to b called dadi ama or stuff like that .. its something which I felt n wanted to share it with my JB family.. hope u’ll understand.)

Regards,
Friend

Posted 23 Jul 2004

friend_16 says
8 viewz n not a single posts .. koi kehay bhee tu kia..
Posted 23 Jul 2004

Ashii says
- well i love music,, but dont feel incomplete without listening to it atleast meri rooh ki ghaza music nahi hai ;)
- i rarely spend 3 hrs to watch a movie (2hrs,, hehhhehee)
- im not 'fanatic' abt anyy singer or actor or actress,,
- i read a lot,, but "nasty" books nahi yar
- it happens to me to miss prayers,, but i never make any excuse,, like im tired or wotever,,, i know well when im wrong
- and yesss,, i believe k Allah miyan sache dil se ki hui dua zaroooor kubool karte hein (beshak kabhi kabhi i become a little depressed)
but Insha Allah end mei sab acha hoga,, just like i want it to b, Ameen..



hmmm,, and i know one thing,,, im not a good muslims, not even a good human.. but i hope i ll keep trying for my best,, coz WE dont have any excuse to waste our lives.



waise DADI AMMA khair to hai na,,,
khamkha mei serious kar diya mujhe
Posted 23 Jul 2004

friend_16 says
yaar Sall main nay kafee din is baray main soocha aur phir mujhay aisa laga kay i should share it with u guys .. with my family .. thats it!!

yahee tu problem hai kay hamain jaab koi samjhta hai tu hum kehtay hain kay waqat lecture milta rehta hai .. laiken agar kabehe ghour karain tu lecture hamaray liay kitna acha hota hai.. hai na?
Posted 25 Jul 2004

Ashii says
ummm welll

have u heard that
akalmand ko naseehat ki zaroorat nahi
aur bewakoof naseehat sunta nahi
so,,,,,,,,




but rite,, it helps a lot sometimes
par agar insan apna ehtsab na karna janta ho to aik chor 136 lectures de dalo ,koi fark nahi parta
Posted 25 Jul 2004

friend_16 says
haan ye tu hai kay hum aik kaam say suntay hain aur dosray say ...

laiken yaar kabhee socha hai kay ye saab hamaray hee kaam ki batein hain..

aur hum jitnay bhee akalmand hoo jaiy laiken kabhee na kabhee hum koi na koi bewaqofi zaroor kertay hain..
Posted 25 Jul 2004

Ashii says
kabhi na kabhi ?????????????


hehehhee
yarrr i m sure that hum sab aik din mei kam se kam 5/6 bewakoofiyan aur 1/2 gunah karte hein
Posted 25 Jul 2004

actually its true every single word is true but u know sheetan hum logon pe itna hawi ho chuka hai ke hum loog bura kaam bhi acha samjh kar kartay hein.
Posted 25 Jul 2004

f16 u really did a good thing by starting this topic...u know wat we all do this but nvr admit it its good to know we r wrong n reminded once in a while take hume apni ghaltee ka ehsaas ho..thx fer doin that fer me sis...i owe u big time!
Posted 25 Jul 2004

SanaSana says
yes it's quite a bitter truth......
Posted 26 Jul 2004

~CHANDNI~ says
sona   and intzar karna
Posted 26 Jul 2004

friend_16 says
ur welcome sunzz.. :)

n yea charizmatic hum loog ghalat ko ab ghalat nahi samjhtay is liay bohat ghalat kaam aram say ker daitey hain ... aur shetan agar hawee ho chuka hai tu hamain hee is ko rokna hai ... har jaga muslamaan badmaan hoo rahay hain .. jin logoon ko darhee(beard) hai un ko terrorist aur iss tarhaan kay naam diay ja rahay hain .. kabhee soocha hai kay ye saab kyun hoo raha hai coz hum islaam say duur hotay ja rahay hain apnee duties bhooltay ja rahay hain ...
Posted 26 Jul 2004

rao_buddy says
fiurnd i m totally   with u
u really did a great job to star this topic
yes we all do bad things
we can flirt in markets we can make rong calls
we can do any rong work but u rightly say that when some one ask us to do good things to say prayer
we said oh we will start it
now these r all realities
but we also dont forget that reality that we should not claim it toatally onus
there r many factors which tends out attaention on other subjects
like our culture
although we r muslims but really stop and see our bazars our education our thoughs our way of life its totally against islam
taht is not only our duty but some thing should be done by govt
we r muslim but what our politions do
they in reality give us new path which toattaly differs islamic values
i can give some instructions to achievbe our goal wait 4 that
Posted 26 Jul 2004

rao_buddy says
1 we should promote islamic values and rulz on our television
2 we should immidailtely stop indain channels take a pardon acctuually all channels which r against our moral values
3 gove should make it confirm that all people should pray to god
4 our leaders should set up example 4 us
5 our religion hold authourites should give us the order of good things and stop all sins
6 we should develop our own way of life according to islam instead of working on america theory
7 we should b e united
8 we should promote the importance of namaz and QURAN
Posted 26 Jul 2004

i totally agree wid u rao_buddy but not wid da third point dat govt shud confirm dat everyone is praying..dekho telling someone to pray is a good thing but u can't force someone to do it aur phir it has been said by Allah
"Let there b no compulsion in religion" rite so i think dat cannot b implemented doosra yeh k its not practical cos govt kia ghar ghar ja ker logon ko namaz parhai gi..i think this comes fronm within....dats ma view
Posted 27 Jul 2004

rao_buddy says
sunzz u not understand that point complete prayer means not nazam prayer means ibadat and ibadat menas good works
sccondly i want to clear that u write about that there is no compulsion in religion i think tahts 4 non muslims but look see that man who is muslim but forget his values then wt will be thye duty of govt?
me kindly want to clear that gove should pay attention on this but not onlyattention just give order that shops and markets should be closed at time of namaz or azan
Posted 27 Jul 2004

friend_16 says
yea rite rao buddy .. laiken hum new generation hain n we will be the next generation .. agar hum khudhee sirf apnay app ko theek ker lein .. doosroon ko pint out kernay kay bijayee apnay app par ghaor karain .. apnay app ko theek karein .. aur agar saray hee aisa karein tu saab kuch theek hoo sakta hai..
n yea ur rite .. indian channels should be banned .. coz kehtay hain na "jo botay(sow) hain wohe nikalta hai" .. agar hamaray zehan main ye indian films hoon gee ye action movies aur ye saab bakwas to definately jo hamaray zehn main hoo ga hum wohee karein gay .. .. aur jahaan taak islamic channels ko promote kernay ki baat hai tu hamary paas kuch channels hein aisay like Qtv .. but as long as there r indian channels .. kaun deekhay ga ye islamic channels??    
Posted 28 Jul 2004

rao_buddy says
hum then
Posted 28 Jul 2004

friend_16 says
then i think kay hum logoon ko apnay app ko sahee kerna chahyee .. apnay app ko improve kerna chahyee.. kisi ko ghalat kaam main help nahi kerna chahyee.. aur rishwat wagiara hum lain gay hee nahi tu koi day ga kaisay?? isee tarhaan hum agar choti choti batoon ka deehaan rakhhin tu bohat see buriaan khatam hoo saktee hain..
Posted 28 Jul 2004

rao_buddy says
firnd u r right but look
agar sab kuch uppor ghalat ha agar hamara sarbraha(leaders) ghalat hain to hum kia karain
agar sab kuchj uppor sahi nahi uppor afratafree ha to humm ya kaisa suppose karain ka nicha sab kucvh sahi ho ga
u r right ka hum aapna app ko sahi karain lakin hamara pasas ha kai karna koo
yar ya kam uppor ka logoon ka hain ka hum ko possibilities dain ka humm kuch sahi hoon
suppose pk main sara bank suud nizam poar ha abb har insan yahi chaha ga na ka iss ka money barha
to its duty of govt ka wo islamic values par bank system promote kara
Posted 28 Jul 2004

friend_16 says
kitnee dair aur wo reh lain gay.. 5 10 yrs??? is kay baad tu hamaree generation hai na .. hum agar chahain tu saab kuch theek hoo sakta hai .. hum aik doosray ko deekh ker sabaq hasil ker saktay hain .. hum jo chahin ker saktay hain .. laiken koi kernay ko raazi hoo tu na..
Posted 28 Jul 2004

rao_buddy says
yar ya socha ka kioon razi nahi
hamara samna koi example set nahi ki gaye ha pk na
hum na 50 saloon main hazaroon dr eng politics aur phy padda kai lakin aik insan aik musalman nahi
oh ya ha pk
jis ka lia hazarooon bahnnon na izat luta ddee thi hazaroon bhaioon na jan luta dee thyi
hayrat ha hum muslims kahta hain apna app ko
yar hum kai karain hamrae to anna wali anslain bhi america ka qarz main jakre ehoe hain
ajj ka hukmaran qarza la latta hain kioonka innn ko patta ha ka inhoon na to challa janna ha 2 sal abd agga ya awam luta dee gee
oh aur tum kahtee ho hum sahi hoon
Posted 28 Jul 2004

friend_16 says
hey rao-buddy .. y don't we set examples for others??

hairat tu saab ko hote hai .. aur afsoos bhee .. par in the end hum ye batein ye batein ker kay chup ho jatay hain.. amal koi nahi kerta..
Posted 28 Jul 2004

rao_buddy says
YAHI TO BAT HA KA AML KIOON HO GA?
yar hamara edu system se la kar politic tak system british ha
ajj tak 50 years main hum apna koi system khud to bana nahi sakka aur bat karta hain hum taraqe kiiiiii
JO BHI ho hum iss qabil nahi hain ka aik country ko run kar sakian
jahaun favour ho rishwat ho chorre ho
yar jis mulk main muslim country honna ka bawajood rap cases   choree dakka wagahar ho wo kaise taraqee kara gaaaaa
jis mulk ki ajj tak economy stable nahi wo kisse ko kia da sakta ha?
Posted 28 Jul 2004

friend_16 says
hmm well .. hamaree government ko bhee kuch na kuch action laina chahyee .. chori ki saza hath katna hote hai .. laiken yahaan tu har rooz kitnee chooriaan hoo jatee hein.. nobody cares.. koi agar pakra bhee jaiy tu rishwat day ker choot jata hai.. hamara nizaam hee aisa hoo gia hai kay loog gunnah ko gunnah nahi samjhtay ... har bura kaam hoo raha hai .. government bhee mille huee hai .. hum karain tu kia karein .. hum yahee ker saktay hein kay apnay app ko sahee rakhain aur apnee duties pore karain..
Posted 28 Jul 2004

rao_buddy says
yar mujhe tumhare bat samjh nahi aye
kioonka hum apna app ko wahan sahi kar sakta hain ajhan ha,mara pass opurtunities hon lakin yahan
Posted 28 Jul 2004

friend_16 says
aray come on.. kyun nahi hain hamaray paas oppurtunities? especially larkay jo chahin kersaktay hain .. app kaisee opputunities ki baat ker rahay hein??
Posted 28 Jul 2004

rao_buddy says
haha tum konse dunya main rahtee ho
yar ya wo mulk ha jahan darhee rakhna par terrorist ban jatta hain
jahan agar girlz se bat na karo to log kahta hain loo molvi
agar yahan parda karo to tanna
aur tum kahte ho opurtunities hahaha
Posted 28 Jul 2004

friend_16 says
loog tu boltay hain is ka ye matlab nahi kay hum bhee un ki batein sunay... aur un par amal bhee karain ... agar hum sahee hein tu hamain kisi cheez ki parwa nahi hoonee chahyee.. thats the point!! laiken apnay point par kaim rehna hee mushkil hai na!!
Posted 28 Jul 2004

rao_buddy says
han lakin yar agar koi darhee rakha to govt america ka hawala kar daatee ha aur tum opportuinities talash kar raha ho
Posted 28 Jul 2004

friend_16 says
well ok .. tu jo kaam government kay hain hum un par choor diatey hein .. laiken jo kaam hamaray hein atleast hum un k otu sahee tareeqay say karain na..
Posted 28 Jul 2004

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