Congratualtions and may God grant her a long healthy life and make her a source of happiness and proudness for both of you, Aameen.

To prove the existence of God and the legitimacy of His deeds on the basis of our “special senses” and so called scientific mind is not possible. Our mind and senses has its limitations and it can only solve or try to solve the myths within its limitations. It is just like as a group of KG students are discussing and trying their best to solve a problem of a PhD syllabus.
In my opinion we should concentrate to do “WHAT” we are asked to do by God and not to waste our energy to solve the question of “WHY” we are asked to do so or try to justify or otherwise the deeds of God.

I am afraid I couldn’t make my poll question clear. OK let me elaborate it.
It is not the kind of question that you read casually and answer, but you have to think before answering. Why?? Because the answer to the question gives a reflection of your character. Wo Kaise Bhai. Yeh Asay K nearly all of us always brag about of our honesty, fair play in every field and hatred to foul play, double standards etc.
Now if you agree to the poll question I am afraid you are saying that you believe in cheating, foul play, using unfair means at least in these fields i.e. love and war. If it is so give numbers to your character yourself.
And if you don’t agree, make sure that you really and honestly don’t agree, and then suggest plans to win game of love and war, love in particular. Thanks.

Quote:- "how can u b such a great judge of character....and then not see the true evil face of the person who has been there always???? "
Yes, it is nearly impossible to be the true judge of someone's character. But we can have some idea of it with our past experience.
I do believe that all human beings are born with good & trustworthy nature. It is the circumstances which change their nature. It must be in your observation that a child always trusts you e.g. if he is standing on a high wall and you ask him to jump into your arms he will do so without hesitation. But an older child will hesitate and demands assurance of safty of this act from you. This "hesitation" increases with age and is due to his past experience. You may call it as betrayal on your part.
To cut the long story short you learn with experience and it is lack of experience on your part.
And surely you are not the only one to whom this has happened, this world is full of "Bholay Badshahs" like you.
Be brave and take it as a minor tumble in life. Come out of it as early as possible. BEST OF LUCK.

I agree to "Night" regarding people must have freedom to do what they like. A process of natural selection will exclude the ones not fit for the job.