hhhhhhhhhhhmmmmmmmmm

rafia ji kuch aur bhi bataye plz

islam mei LOVE pe pabandi nahi hai
but we should learn first wot is love

islam mei jiss cheez pe sab se zyada zor diya jata hai woh hai sachi aur saaf niyyat,,,
agar aap ki niyyat saaf hai,, jo promis kissi se kiye unhein nibhane ki himmat hai,, dunya ko aur apni family ko face karne ki himmat hai,, apni kahi baat ko poora karne ki, kissi ka saath dene ki himmat hai to phir love is not wrong,,

par agar u r still tied to ur mom's pallu,, aur apne parents ki galt baat bhi chup kar k maan lete ho,, (which is abs wrongggg) buzdil ho, jhoote ho,, to phir to yarr mere nazdeek love to door ap ka nikah bhi bemaani hai

that s it



hmmm yeh baat aur hai k ab hamare haan bhi short term relations ka silsila chal para hai,, par humein sirf itna sochna chaiye k hum jiss jaga hein hamari aulad hum se 4 kadam aage hi hogi,,
okk i wont say more,, jiss mei akal hai khud samajh jaae

I love my Parents, brother and sisters and my little niece and sure all my friends thats pretty much it . Well Girls ahh i will love my wife is she is worth it lol .
Running around girls and stuff like that well i am too old for that now so i leave it to the young,

I am Agree Wid Sall

u r right sall....

but but


agur yaa sub batay theeq hain....tu Mehrum ya Na mehrum kahan gaya...???

strange question

im talking abt love,,,
mehram se pyaar karna to gunah nahi hai,, woh to parde ka masla hai,, i mean u marry a NA MEHRAM person, han k nahi ??
btw love doesnt mean datin,, outing and all that stuff

sall je pehlay question tu sahi tarha sei read karoo .....uss nein kaha

"loog yeh jo love kartay hain log pagal ho jatay hain apni life ka bhi khayal nahi hota unko 1 insan kai liye kuch bhi kar deh gay"


janubabe agar hum islam ki nazar sei dekheen tu i think ye wrong hai.....

i can give a simple example.....sharab kue haram hai ???
ess leye nahi kay woe sharab hai ess leye woe haram hai ...balkay ess leye kay usay pei kay insaan apnay khosh kho deta hai...acchay buray ki pehchaan nahi rehti....woe dosroon ko ya apnay app ko nuksaan pohancha sakta hai....


abb aooh love kei taraf kya ess mein essa he nahi hota ???
insaan apnay khosh kho deta hai
apnay buray bhalay ki pehchan khatam ho jati hai
apnay app ko ya dosroon ko nuksaan pohanchata hai....pohachata hai kay nahi ???


abb aooh dosri taraaf ....koi bemaar hota hai ore doctor uss kay elag kay leye usay sharab pelatay hain ...pelatay hain kay nahi chumcha chumcha kaar kay.....ore uss sei woe sehat mund ho jata hai ....paar meray dostoo bazoorgoo sharab tu haram hai ??
yaha ye baat sabit hoti hai kay sharab tub tuk haraam hai jub tuk woe insaanoo ko nuksaan pohanchati hai magar jub hum usay insanoo ki bhalai kay leye estamaal kareen tu woe halaal hai.

essi tarha love be hai ..halka halka ..dheema dheema ...halki aag pay pakta hoa love....jo insaan ko jeena sekhayee na kay murna ya marna...jis mein talab na ho ....jis mei havass na ho....jo sirf deena janay ..kuch mangna nahi....

























































by Molvi fradiya

molvi fradiya humari last post saeein jii k answer ka jawab thi na k janubaby k

khair aap ka lecture hum phir parhein ge
abhi ninnnnnnuuuuuuuuuuuu tame

sall main sath na nahi phoch agher apko sath dehna hai to ise hi karo jaise apnay bola hai
   faradiya apkai message matlub hai ki islam main is ki ijazat nahi per agher yeh kiss ki jan bechaye ya kisko himat takat honhila deh to means kai kisi ki life banaye to karna chaiye?

areyy yar i think i was not vv clear
kehne ka matlab tha k agar aap kissi k saath nibhane ka promis kar chuke ho to phir EVEYTHING IS FAIR,, matlab k kuch bhi kar k apna kaha nibhao
balke id say,, jaan bhi jati hai to jae
(am i exagerating ;))

yar niyyat achi hai to sab jaiz hai
aur agar aap sab ulta seedha pyaar mei nahi balke apne dheet pan dikhane ko kar rahe ho to phir galt hai,,

han islam mei apne aap ko nuksaan pohonchana galt hai,, apni zindagi ko khuda ki amanat samajh k iss ki hifazat karne ka hukum hai,, par kissi ki zindagi,, uss ki bhi to utni hi value hai na,,

yarrr me kya bak bak kari ja rahi hu,,, for the moment even my ideaz in my khopri r not v clear,, ghar ja k baat karein ge,,
aur molvi fradi uz zaman ka farmaan bhi parhein ge
tab tak k liye

rone ka nahi
dhone ka nahi
life mei hanste rehne ka
arey bheja nahi satkane kaa

karna chaheyee ? aray ye tu ho jata hai.. kea nahi jata.....meray kehnay ka mutlab tha kay agar pyar ho jayee tu woe pyar jayeez hai jis mein kisi ko nuksaan na pohanchay ..ore jo insaan ko himat dei na kay ...behisi ore pagal pan (dosroon ko ya apnay app ko nuksan pohanchana wagera)

pagal pan aur behisi aik doosre ki zid hein freddy putar
behis hum log hein,,, koi pagal tabhi hota hai kyunke woh mehsoos karta hai
thora kasoor nerves ka bhi hein,, agar stong na hon to
but kabhi kabhi aise halaat hote hein k strong se strong insaan bhi pagal ho jae
but these ppl r lucky

hmmmmm...

yaha pagal pan sei muraad thi kay apnay app ko ore dosroon ko nuksaan pohanchana ore behisi sei muraad thi kay ghaar waloon ki ezaat ka ehsass na karna

sall bewakooof lafaaz pakaar kay beth jati hoo ..haar lafaz ka haar juga pay aik he mutlab nahi hota











































lugta hai abi tuk roza lug raha hai tumheen
kekekekeke

izzat,,,, ghar walon ki izzaat ???
izzat sirf woh hoti hai jo Allah miyan ki nazron mei hoti hai
baki sab bakwas hai.. log to galt kaam karne walon ki bhi bohot izzat karte hein,, to kya ????
my fffoooooooooooooooootttttttt..





uffffffffff,, chup kar jao yarrrrr,,
i know mujhe kuch samajh nahi aa rahi,, roza nahi par aise hi dimag ghooma hua hai,,
i mean zyada ghoom gaya hai

luck luck kaise pagal ho jatay hai kiss kai pechay bas wohi chaiye wohi

bechari sall muj sei punga loo gey tu demag khiskay ga he......

sorry lucky
yeh kaise zid hai

abay chal naaa,,
hum aik taraf aur pooori dunya aik taraf
tum akele ki kya baat hai





nahi yarrr,,,,,
jo maza deewana hone mei hai
woh deewana banane mei nahi,,, yeh to bohot easy hai,, left haath ka khel hai
maza to mushkil kaam mei hai na,,,
"iss hone se iss banne se
acha hai deewana ban ja
deewana ban jaane se bhi
deewana hona acha hai
shama k dil ki dharkan ban ja
noor e dil e parwana ban ja"

yaro mera answer nahi mila mujko abhi tak

jo tumharay question tha uss ka answer tu dei deya hum nein aab jo tumharay dil mein hai uss ka jawab hum bhula kesay dei saktay hain.

tumheen kaal bataoon ga agar zinda raha tu.......jo kay mushkil he lug raha hai...........hayeeeeeeee doctor nein pata nein kon sei goli dey diiiiiiiii

yallah mian mujay bacha lei aab mein kabi kisi ko tung nahi karoon ga sacchay dil sei toba karta hoon

JANUBABY:

can any one tell me
ki yeh jo love kartay hain log pagal ho jatay hain apni life ka bhi khayal nahi hota unko 1 insan kai liye kuch bhi kar deh gay
islam main is bare main kia bola jata hai yeh jaye hai ya nahi
aur waise EX ki girl aur boy ki friendship nahi ho sakti per yahan per is baat ko koi dehan main nahi rekhta
mujko app love ka bataye ki jo love kartay hai lover banay baithay hotay hai yeh islamic point se mujko kuch bataye agher islam mai hai is bare main to
plzzzzzzz
aur koi mazak nahi BE SERIOUS PLZ
becoz i m very very serious

I'm no scholar but I know a little. Love to the point of insanity -- a state of heart and mind beyond ones control (obsessive compulsive)-- people in such a situation are not held responsible for their feelings but they are responsible for their actions.
Obsessive behavior is satanic in nature. Love is a natural feeling/emotion, then there is reason/intelligence. A balance btw them is from Islam. Love to beoceme rich is normal and Obsessive love for it fares against its teaching bcuz it's abnormal.

Love for spouses, parents, children, siblings etc. are natural and demanded by Islam. While love for same becomes haram when it prevents one from worshiping Allah (includes not only prayers, but also other acts of goodness and staying away from harm).

BF/GF relations are products of ignorant societies and cultures and alien to the principles of Islam. Islam demands from followers to lower their gaze upon seeing person of opposite gender let alone friendship btw 'em.

I didn't understand the last part of you question.

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