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why does it happens to me?

when something goes wrong, when things don't work our way...we usually (well, atleast i do)....say...ohh well, sh*t happens, life goes on...

but...as an individual, ever come to u;r mind k...yeah sh*t happens, but why does it happens more often on my case? i mean, why does this ALWAYS happens to ME?

Posted on 2/10/2005 4:45:56 AM

Bazigaar ji pob har eak ki life main aati hain lakin diff diff tareeka sa
Or wasa bhi Allah us insan ka sab sa zada imtehan lata hai jis insan sa who piyaar karta hai.
Ok

Posted on 2/10/2005 6:44:55 AM

coz i dont often look to the rest of the world
pbs others r facing
i cant imagine that others r suffering more than me


coz after allll,,
par meri kya galti yar,,, sab se bari museebat mere sir pe pari hai na
i dont have time to think abt the rest
par yaar wakai
Y ME ??
mere sath hi kyun ho raha hai yeh sab

Posted on 2/10/2005 5:00:02 PM

asa sab ke saat hota hai... lekin banda yehe sochta hai ke sab kuch sirf usi ke saat ho raha hai..

Posted on 2/10/2005 5:06:46 PM

Dua_786:
Bazigaar ji pob har eak ki life main aati hain lakin diff diff tareeka sa
Or wasa bhi Allah us insan ka sab sa zada imtehan lata hai jis insan sa who piyaar karta hai.
Ok


ye philosophy ko to i don;t even buy k God us ka imtehaan leta hae jin ko wo piyar kerta hae....i think it;s just to make u feel satisfied k ohh God loves me...lol..naah...

think bout it...jab ham kisi se piyar kertay hain...to kiya us ko mushkil mae ka preshaani mae dekh saktay hain? nahi na...phir God un hee logoon ko kiyoon museebtain deta hae jin ko wo piyar kerta hae? naah...lame theory    

Posted on 2/11/2005 4:01:35 AM

oh yea
every day of my life :p

Posted on 2/11/2005 5:18:18 AM

Bazigaar:
Dua_786:
Bazigaar ji pob har eak ki life main aati hain lakin diff diff tareeka sa
Or wasa bhi Allah us insan ka sab sa zada imtehan lata hai jis insan sa who piyaar karta hai.
Ok


ye philosophy ko to i don;t even buy k God us ka imtehaan leta hae jin ko wo piyar kerta hae....i think it;s just to make u feel satisfied k ohh God loves me...lol..naah...

think bout it...jab ham kisi se piyar kertay hain...to kiya us ko mushkil mae ka preshaani mae dekh saktay hain? nahi na...phir God un hee logoon ko kiyoon museebtain deta hae jin ko wo piyar kerta hae? naah...lame theory    


acha tu hum jis say pyaar kertay hein usay azamatay nahi kia?? mayb ye aik azmaish hai ...

Posted on 2/11/2005 1:02:10 PM

Bazigaar:
when something goes wrong, when things don't work our way...we usually (well, atleast i do)....say...ohh well, sh*t happens, life goes on...

but...as an individual, ever come to u;r mind k...yeah sh*t happens, but why does it happens more often on my case? i mean, why does this ALWAYS happens to ME?


EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON'
AND GOD KNOWS BEST
YOU DONT HAVE MUCH CONTROL
JUST DEAL WITH IT
YOULL GET IT SOONER OR LATER

Posted on 2/12/2005 1:41:07 AM

My bad
does it get any better
now

Posted on 2/12/2005 1:59:54 AM

oh yes
thanks

ermm you must be new round here
got a name?
[you should feel lucky, i'm never this nice :p lol]

Posted on 2/12/2005 2:02:45 AM

DEAR SALL
SALL:
coz i dont often look to the rest of the world
pbs others r facing
i cant imagine that others r suffering more than me


coz after allll,,
par meri kya galti yar,,, sab se bari museebat mere sir pe pari hai na
i dont have time to think abt the rest
par yaar wakai
Y ME ??
mere sath hi kyun ho raha hai yeh sab

U r a little bit depressed from the way of life bt dear why dont u make ur nazaria wide to see the world.
tum wo insan hai jo sirf apni aur hi dekhta hai kabhi kisi govt. hospital mein jaakar dekho, kisi jhopar patti mein ya kisi oldage home jao.wahan na sirf jaao balkee sab se baat karo unki baat suno.2 payar ke bol bologe to u will come to know abt the miseries of life or what the life is called.I think Hamari zayadatar probs hamari khud create ki hoti hain.jiske liye hum dukhi hote hain.ye sab apne sochne & dekhne ka nazriya hai mere dost.WHENEVER U FEEL LOW JUST SEE THE PPL LOWER THEN U.
u know u r far better than the ppl who cant see the computer in whole life bt u hav BOTH EYES +COMPUTER OF UR OWN,u may hav ur parents bt see the children who never seen their parents. Try to see a forsaken parents or any widow helpless poor lady,U R FAR BETTER THEN ALL THESE.
DON'T U THINK SO.
U HAV TO JUST WIDEN THE AREA OF UR THINKING.
HOPE U WILL UNDERSTAND WAT I MEAN TO SAY.
I never want ki mein apni thinking kisi par thop du.
bcz zindagi ko dekhne ka sabka apna nazaria hai.
I know everyone has their diffrernt existence & hav their own point of view.I may be wrong in ur point of view bcz neither u know me better nor I bt remember it
NOTHING IS GOOD OR BAD BT THINKING MAKE IT SO.
GOOD OR BAD IS JUST DEPENDS ON THE WAY WE R TAKING THE EVENTS.THEN ON THE NATURE OF THOSE EVENTS.
BE HAPPY.BE CHEERFUL ALL OF U.

Posted on 2/12/2005 3:37:35 PM

friend_16:
Bazigaar:
Dua_786:
Bazigaar ji pob har eak ki life main aati hain lakin diff diff tareeka sa
Or wasa bhi Allah us insan ka sab sa zada imtehan lata hai jis insan sa who piyaar karta hai.
Ok


ye philosophy ko to i don;t even buy k God us ka imtehaan leta hae jin ko wo piyar kerta hae....i think it;s just to make u feel satisfied k ohh God loves me...lol..naah...

think bout it...jab ham kisi se piyar kertay hain...to kiya us ko mushkil mae ka preshaani mae dekh saktay hain? nahi na...phir God un hee logoon ko kiyoon museebtain deta hae jin ko wo piyar kerta hae? naah...lame theory    


acha tu hum jis say pyaar kertay hein usay azamatay nahi kia?? mayb ye aik azmaish hai ...


Yeah ,, Right.. HE do
And Kabi Ham Auron Ki Life And Apni Life Ka Moazna Karnay Lag Jatay Hain And,, Spec Kisi Aisay Shakhs Ki Life Se Jis Ko Koi Praishani Nai Ho ( Or Maybe Just We Think Ke Us Ko Koi Praishani Nai Hai)To Zahir Hai Yahi Sochna Hay Na Ke Why Me??? ...

Posted on 2/12/2005 8:38:06 PM

YA ITS TRUE KAROBI.

Posted on 2/14/2005 12:32:07 PM

if yah wanna think im new go ahead
if yah think i remind yah of someone maybe ive been here
since this web site started
lets see
...
only a few peeps here that might figure me out otherwise

im new 2 u

Posted on 2/14/2005 11:46:37 PM

WELL Bazigaar, I THINK FRIEND_16 IS RIGHT.
AUR EAK AUR BAAT KA KUSHI MAIN KABHI KOI INSAN ALLAH KO UTNA YAAD NAHI KARTA JITNA DUKH MAIN KARTA HAI. AUR SHAYID ALLAH ISLIYA APNA BANDON SA IMTEEHAN LATA HAI.


Posted on 2/15/2005 6:20:29 AM

Bazigaar:
Dua_786:
Bazigaar ji pob har eak ki life main aati hain lakin diff diff tareeka sa
Or wasa bhi Allah us insan ka sab sa zada imtehan lata hai jis insan sa who piyaar karta hai.
Ok


ye philosophy ko to i don;t even buy k God us ka imtehaan leta hae jin ko wo piyar kerta hae....i think it;s just to make u feel satisfied k ohh God loves me...lol..naah...

think bout it...jab ham kisi se piyar kertay hain...to kiya us ko mushkil mae ka preshaani mae dekh saktay hain? nahi na...phir God un hee logoon ko kiyoon museebtain deta hae jin ko wo piyar kerta hae? naah...lame theory    

aap masoom logon ko khush nahi dekh sakte kya



i wont say dua ki baat sahi hai ya bazi ki
par itna zaroor hai k,,, agar hamare saath ya hamare kissi pyare k saath kuchc bura ho to we always say ALLAH MIYAN HUM SE PYAAR KARTE HEIN ISS LIYE IMTEHAN LE RAHE HEIN,, shayd khud ko tasalli dene liye
aur agar kuch bura aise shaks k saath ho jo humein pasand na ho (for any reason) we ll say BURE LOGON K SAATH BURA HI HOTA HAI
so ??????????????????
Allah behtar janta hai,,, konsi baat sachi hai

Posted on 2/15/2005 3:42:03 PM

geetanjali:
U r a little bit depressed from the way of life bt dear why dont u make ur nazaria wide to see the world.
tum wo insan hai jo sirf apni aur hi dekhta hai kabhi kisi govt. hospital mein jaakar dekho, kisi jhopar patti mein ya kisi oldage home jao.wahan na sirf jaao balkee sab se baat karo unki baat suno.2 payar ke bol bologe to u will come to know abt the miseries of life or what the life is called.I think Hamari zayadatar probs hamari khud create ki hoti hain.jiske liye hum dukhi hote hain.ye sab apne sochne & dekhne ka nazriya hai mere dost.WHENEVER U FEEL LOW JUST SEE THE PPL LOWER THEN U.
u know u r far better than the ppl who cant see the computer in whole life bt u hav BOTH EYES +COMPUTER OF UR OWN,u may hav ur parents bt see the children who never seen their parents. Try to see a forsaken parents or any widow helpless poor lady,U R FAR BETTER THEN ALL THESE.
DON'T U THINK SO.
U HAV TO JUST WIDEN THE AREA OF UR THINKING.
HOPE U WILL UNDERSTAND WAT I MEAN TO SAY.
I never want ki mein apni thinking kisi par thop du.
bcz zindagi ko dekhne ka sabka apna nazaria hai.
I know everyone has their diffrernt existence & hav their own point of view.I may be wrong in ur point of view bcz neither u know me better nor I bt remember it
NOTHING IS GOOD OR BAD BT THINKING MAKE IT SO.
GOOD OR BAD IS JUST DEPENDS ON THE WAY WE R TAKING THE EVENTS.THEN ON THE NATURE OF THOSE EVENTS.
BE HAPPY.BE CHEERFUL ALL OF U.

i agree geeeta
listen yar,,, have u ever heard JISS TANN LAGE WOH TANN JAANE
i know isss dunya mei bohot dukhi log hein,,, Allah ka shukar hai me ne kabhi mushkil din nahi dekhe,, since im born bohot asaaish se rahi hu..
par dear saari baat to priority ki hoti hai na,,, money, power, beauty, comfort,,, dont mean anything to me
these thing ve never been my target/goals
half of my depression is based on others' misery,, ppl u mentioned in ur post.... when i say Y IT HAPEND TO ME,, it means am i the only one who s so dependant and unable to do anything
life wd b much better if i stop looking at others misery

Posted on 2/15/2005 3:48:56 PM

Bazigaar:
when something goes wrong, when things don't work our way...we usually (well, atleast i do)....say...ohh well, sh*t happens, life goes on...

but...as an individual, ever come to u;r mind k...yeah sh*t happens, but why does it happens more often on my case? i mean, why does this ALWAYS happens to ME?


hmmm,,, i think i got the answer
WOT HAPPEND TO ME is not important,,, but Y IT HAPEND TO ME yeh sochne ki baat hai,,, i noticed several times that hum log apni mushkil aur museebat ko pakar k rote rehte hein,, yeh soche bageir k wot i did to deserve this,,,,, im not saying k 100% cases mei galti meri hoti hai par zyada tarr aisa hota hai,,, me ne kabhi past mei koi aisi galti ki hoti hai jiss ka badla mujhe bohooott baad mei ja k milta hai,,,, hamari muskil yeh hai k hum gunah kar k bhool jate hein,, apne hi dil mei jhaank k kabhi nahi dekhte

2nd thing,,, aazmaish ya imtehan wali baat..
agar mujhe sache dil se iss baat ka yakeen ho jae k me ne pooori zindagi mei koi galti nahi ki jiss k badle mujhe yeh saza mili hai to,,,, phir we ve just one option k yeh azma'ish hai
hmmm,,,,,, ab agar azmaish ache aur naik logon pe aati hai to phir uss naik bande ko yeh bhi pata hona chaiye k aise mei kya kare

Posted on 2/15/2005 3:57:48 PM

Lil_dolly Tumhe kis baat ki khumar chadi hui hai. bade chahak rahe ho.Hothon se geeton ke jharne beh rahen hai? Koi khas baat hai to share karo na dear

Posted on 2/19/2005 1:19:55 PM

Hey guys don't worry, ur lives can't be as bad as mine. Don't even get me started ull be asleep by the time i'm a quarter of the way through.

Posted on 2/19/2005 1:57:03 PM