that is disqusting. tht guy was just such an idiot

What happened to the man? was he prosecuted?

the same happened with missy elitot who was raped by her cousin.

thats why u should as parents never let kids go alone with cousins, uncles etc...na mehram.

in pakistan girls r too scared of badnami anyway.

Its Not necessary to Mention that HE HAD BEARD...or he was Clean Shave

He was a Human. And He did an Evil Act....We Condemn it.

It is the Fault of our system. In which we give "FREEDOM" to children, to our relatives....

And this happens.

And when some says to obeserve "PERDAH" to some of cousins...firs of all the Parents of that girl will object....

SO How we can blame a single person...

First "Accept and ADOPT" islamic moral values in life...

That's the story I referred to in one of the posts sis dolly. the 4 yr ole lil girl is man's sister in law. When I read that story, it boiled my blood. I was so enraged, I can't express it in words.

NB, PERDAH is not an issue here. Girl was only 4 yrs old and it has nothing to do with the system. It is only a perverted mind and a filthy soul that commits such a heinous crime.

Mentioning of beard was not out of context either bcuz this person was known as a religious and presumably versed in islamic morals. he kept a beard knowing it is from the sunnah of the prophet and had no regard for it while commiting the act in a violent manner. He committed this crime against a minor and scarred her and her family's lives for ever. He shattered what remained of any confidence of people in institutions of family and protection Allah gauranteed in it.

This person is being prosecuted and when found guilty, should really be stoned to death.

very very bad act done by him

his own niece ???????????

parda kya kare ga aise mei
uncle to mehram hota hai na,,, apne bhai baap uncle se bhi parda kare kya ab koi
these .................

i wish i cld kill such ppl with my own hands
to be hang till 2nd last breath,,, then hang again and again,,, par mare nahi woh next 100yrs tak

LiL_DollY:

I just heard last week a terrible story from my sister. About a Pakistani
man and his perverted mind. They has shown the story on ptv. Its about
a Man...He had a beard. He asked his wife to follow through with duties
that husband and wife do. The wife refused. This man had adopted his
four year old niece. He took his niece to a seperate room. And raped
her...many times. He cut her face and picked her up and through her
against the wall...one of her eyes came out of the socket.

And at the end the man said: I dont know what got into me.

Now thats a buncha...BS
If I ever met him. I would slap him so hard I swear.

That child has lived through everything and shes gonna have a hella of a
life facing the future knowing whats been done to her.

Its really upsetting. But very common.

I begin to tel my sister that you cant really trust anyone not even your
own family and close friends sometimes.

Rape/molestation especially to children happens USUALLY by someone
very close to the family.

And 1/3 people are touched inappropraitely everyday.

Makes you think twice doesnt it. About being a lil more protective when
leaving your duaghters especially around uncles, or other males.

what do you think?

ya i saw dat too... but lemme correct u on one point... the baby wasnt his niece... she was his sister in law.... his wife's youngest sis.... OMG
plus he told dat wen his wife refused he kept quiet and he was watching sum songs and den all of a sudden he felt an urge and went to his sister in law and raped her... he cut her nose and she lost an eye and i saw da baby too....her mum was crying and dat baby dint even know wat happened to her coz she is so young but she will know it afterwards dat she went through hell...

new_beau:

Its Not necessary to Mention that HE HAD BEARD...or he was Clean Shave

He was a Human. And He did an Evil Act....We Condemn it.

It is the Fault of our system. In which we give "FREEDOM" to children, to our relatives....

And this happens.

And when some says to obeserve "PERDAH" to some of cousins...firs of all the Parents of that girl will object....

SO How we can blame a single person...

First "Accept and ADOPT" islamic moral values in life...

NB SHE WAS JUST A FOUR YEAR OLD GIRL... SHE DINT EVEN KNOW DA RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN HER N HER BROTHER IN LAW...

is tha all tru ????

*no comments*

peace

Chandramuki:

What happened to the man? was he prosecuted?

he is behind bars and his mother in law n wife asked the law to give him as tough punishment as they can

Smooth_daddy:

That's the story I referred to in one of the posts sis dolly. the 4 yr ole lil girl is man's sister in law. When I read that story, it boiled my blood. I was so enraged, I can't express it in words.

NB, PERDAH is not an issue here. Girl was only 4 yrs old and it has nothing to do with the system. It is only a perverted mind and a filthy soul that commits such a heinous crime.

Mentioning of beard was not out of context either bcuz this person was known as a religious and presumably versed in islamic morals. he kept a beard knowing it is from the sunnah of the prophet and had no regard for it while commiting the act in a violent manner. He committed this crime against a minor and scarred her and her family's lives for ever. He shattered what remained of any confidence of people in institutions of family and protection Allah gauranteed in it.

This person is being prosecuted and when found guilty, should really be stoned to death.

yeah smooth daddy is rite...

ameen suma ameen...
Allah sab ki bahnon aur baitiyoon ki izat bachaay rakhay

Dear All..

The message was not Clear...Thats Why I miss understood.

I am sorry If I hurt anyone...

phsyco man

goli mar do or bus
kaam khatm kero

new_beau:

Dear All..

The message was not Clear...Thats Why I miss understood.

I am sorry If I hurt anyone...

its ok NB u dont have to say sorry

new_beau:

Its Not necessary to Mention that HE HAD BEARD...or
he was Clean Shave

He was a Human. And He did an Evil Act....We Condemn it.

It is the Fault of our system. In which we give "FREEDOM" to children, to
our relatives....

And this happens.

And when some says to obeserve "PERDAH" to some of cousins...firs of all
the Parents of that girl will object....

SO How we can blame a single person...

First "Accept and ADOPT" islamic moral values in life...

I didnt mean it like that...
I just meant that usually when you see a man with a beard
or a woman with hijab
generally the first thing that comes to mind
is that they are religious...
My key point is
dont be fooled by peoples looks...
just because they dress a certain way
or groom themselves a certain way
doesnt mean there good or bad.

I feel so miserable.

So it was his sister-in-law...sorry about the mistake.

Thxz for listening you guys. I really appreciate it.

WELL...theres not much else to say. I didnt know if he was punished. But,
from reading everyones posts...IM glad...I just hope he gets what he
deserves. Soo much pain...double of what he caused the 4 yr old.

koi baat nahin donnt cry,
now that chid had dead

FGS SRK! pain to the victim child

rapunzel:

koi baat nahin donnt cry,
now that chid had dead

who told u

DISGUSTING....
WE GOTA FACE IT, IT'S HAPPENING MORE THAN WE WANA BELIEVE,IT'S BECOMING MORE AND MORE COMMON. AFTER READING THE STORY...IT REMINDED ME OF SEVERAL OTHERS I HAVE HEARD THAT ARE SIMILAR.

N DOLLY IT'S TRUE...WHEN U SEE A BEARDED MUSLIM MAN OR A WOMAN IN HIJAAB/JILBAAB/NIKAAB U GENERALLY EXPECT THEM TO BEHAVE IN A CERTAIN WAY, THESE ARE THE LABELS OF ISLAM, IF YOU WEAR THESE LABELS YOU ARE MAKING A STATEMENT, FOR INSTANCE, A MUSLIM WOMAN WEARING A HIJAAB AND SMOKIN WEED WOULD BE CRITISIZED MORE THAN A MUSLIM WOMAN NOT WEARING A HIJAAB AND SMOKING WEED, IT'S NATURAL.

SO WEARING THE LABEL AND DOING WRONG SAYS SOMETHING ABOUT ISLAM TO THE WESTERN WORLD, BUT WE KNOW THAT THIS IS NOT THE CASE, NOT ALL BEARDED MEN ARE THE SAME, NOT ALL WOMEN IN HIJAAB ARE THE SAME, WE GOTTA WEAR THE LABEL AND SHOW PEOPLE THAT THE TEACHINGS OF ISLAM ARE FAR SUPERIOR.

DURING RAMADAAN, YOU HEAR MANY PEOPLE SAY...'YOU'RE FASTING AND DOING......?' WHEREAS IF YOU DID THE SAME ACT WHEN YOU WERE NOT FASTING SUCH ACTS ARE NOT TAKEN AS SERIOUSLY, ALSTHOUGH SIN IS SIN WHETHER DONE DURING RAMADAAN OR ANY OTHER MONTH, OR WHETHER DONE IN HIJAAB OR WITHOUT, OR WHATHER IT WAS A BEARDED MAN OR A MAN WITHOUT A BEARD.

Bravo SohniKuddi

ok, it was confusing the way it was said.

yeah agree sohni mohni
I just feel miserable today too.

I dont know whats wrong w/ me

so many ill duas come from my heart for this sicko, there's nothing, absolutly nothing I hate more than child molesters.

But i admire his wife for standing up against him, so many times the victims and their familes stay silent for fear of badnamee.

It is indeed a very heinous crime, and how much we condemn it, it wont suffice. Every one expressed his/her feelings and my feelings are the same.

But why are we afraid of describing the other aspect of this crime, the reason which leaded that man to such a big crime? His wife refused him to fulfil his desire with her which was his right, and this leaded him to a much bigger crime and sin. Isnt it? That was why our Prophet ordered women not to refuse their husbands. Now we have seen the result of refusing to husband (of a halal thing) which leaded him to a haram.


Messenger of Allah (SAW) said,

"When a man calls his wife to his bed, and she does not respond and he (the husband) spends the night angry with her, the angels curse her until morning". [Al-Bukhari and Muslim].

"By Him in Whose Hand is my life, when a man calls his wife to his bed, and she does not respond, the One Who is above the heaven becomes displeased with her until he (her husband) becomes pleased with her". [Al-Bukhari and Muslim].

"When a man calls his wife to satisfy his desire, she must go to him even if she is occupied with the oven". [At-Tirmidhi and An-Nasa'i].


Why it was so urged not to refuse to husband, could be easily understood by this incident. The wife of this man should also feel sorry for this, as she neglected his husband's right, and incurred the displeasure of Allah, his husband, and the curse of the angels.

so what you're saying is that if a wife refuses to sleep with her husband it justifies him raping a little girl? Listen to yourself!

If the desperate man was so worked up he should have fasted to control his desires - or recited the quran.

It's not a husband's RIGHT to sleep with his wife, a wife isn't a piece of flesh, the only person to have a RIGHT on her body is her herself or her maker, not her husband. You've mis-interpreted those hadiths big time.

Where i stated that it justifies this sin? its your corrupt thinking which leads you conclude this. I condemned the man, and pointed out the wife's fault. If I say someone commited robbery because he was poor and in need of money, it wont mean that i am justifying his act, but rather descrbing what leads him to that crime so that we may make precautions to stop this. Knowing the cause of the evil is the first step towards its elimination.

And yes, its the right of the husband over his wife, and our Holy Prophet stated it clearly, and warning those women who deny this right. Every Muslim with only a "little sense" can well understand this from these hadiths. I misinterpretted them? can you explain them then?