promise?

Srk My abbu speaks to me really roughly

because i was sweeping the floor and told him to lift his feet, i been upset all day.

don't get me wrong, i love my parents but i don't know why

When you're a kid it's different, you misbehave and u get told off, but i'm an adult, and im well behaved, so why do i feel this way?

SohniKuddi:

hey fellas, U know when u marry, Inshallah Allah (swt) will bless you with beautiful children..Don't make your daughter cry, when mum shouts it's different, but when dad hurts you its pain with a scar, u don't understand how she feels unless you're in her shoes.

i haven't shouted @ my daughter so far

yes right, father and brothers
but ham aisa kion feel karti hain?? i think we shouldnt

SohniKuddi:

hey fellas, U know when u marry, Inshallah Allah (swt) will bless you with beautiful children..Don't make your daughter cry, when mum shouts it's different, but when dad hurts you its pain with a scar, u don't understand how she feels unless you're in her shoes.

i can feel your pain ...i know how it likes
insecure feeling an unknown fear
but lately i realized it's part of life you have to face it the way it is ......
why don't you hug your father someday surprisingly... to tell him you are my father and i love you a lot with all your feelings with pure heart.....
it might be a new beginning of your life ..you even havn't imagine

SohniKuddi:

hey fellas, U know when u marry, Inshallah Allah (swt) will bless you with beautiful children..Don't make your daughter cry, when mum shouts it's different, but when dad hurts you its pain with a scar, u don't understand how she feels unless you're in her shoes.

totally agree wid u
fathers shud not shout at daughters.. in fact ive seen dat daughters are more attached with fathers dan mothers.. its natural i guess

sweetie:

SohniKuddi:

hey fellas, U know when u marry, Inshallah Allah (swt) will bless you with beautiful children..Don't make your daughter cry, when mum shouts it's different, but when dad hurts you its pain with a scar, u don't understand how she feels unless you're in her shoes.

totally agree wid u
fathers shud not shout at daughters.. in fact ive seen dat daughters are more attached with fathers dan mothers.. its natural i guess

i think it si natural

yep
i was also very attached wid my dad
but after shadi
u know circumstances thoray different ho jatay hain

actually they seem to be hard from outside but inside they are really soft and sweet ...

actually bahir ka kaam ker ker k wo thoray tough ho jatay hein is liay kabhe kabhe dant par jati hai.. par don't worry.. ander say they really love us..

u'll get to know when u'll have alot of work load and mind full of other tensions .. and ur children interrupts u.. (though unconsciously)..

i m not saying k wo theek kertay hein par sometimes they dunt really feel k un k thoray say bhee dantnay say bachn par kia guzrti hai..

par usually aisay he hota hai ..

larkiyaan ziada feel ker laiti hain..

shahrukh khan:

SohniKuddi:

When you're a kid it's different, you misbehave and u get told off, but i'm an adult, and im well behaved, so why do i feel this way?

but is he been roughly to everyone or just you?

its just me, my sis n bro get on with him really well, he's ok with them, my sis gets praised for work that i do, and my dad knows that i'm the one who put in the effort but he purposely praises my sis and he only does this when i'm around.

Bazigaar:

SohniKuddi:

hey fellas, U know when u marry, Inshallah Allah (swt) will bless you with beautiful children..Don't make your daughter cry, when mum shouts it's different, but when dad hurts you its pain with a scar, u don't understand how she feels unless you're in her shoes.

i haven't shouted @ my daughter so far

keep it up Bazi, you'll make a great dad

Freddy:

SohniKuddi:

hey fellas, U know when u marry, Inshallah Allah (swt) will bless you with beautiful children..Don't make your daughter cry, when mum shouts it's different, but when dad hurts you its pain with a scar, u don't understand how she feels unless you're in her shoes.

i can feel your pain ...i know how it likes
insecure feeling an unknown fear
but lately i realized it's part of life you have to face it the way it is ......
why don't you hug your father someday surprisingly... to tell him you are my father and i love you a lot with all your feelings with pure heart.....
it might be a new beginning of your life ..you even havn't imagine

It's good advice, but u see i've never had that relationship with my dad, he'd be like "get off me you loser" lol. i'm not even joking. when i was young i was daddies girl, i liked my dad more than my mum, now dad doesn't wanna know me. i've never been a difficult child, or the problem child, i've dealt with my problems privately, parents never got involved with issues concerning me, my younger sis was the problem child, shes like the rebel and my older sis is just plain lazy. i'm invisible sort of a no one, i get on with life and take every day as it comes. But situations in life and family issues caused us to grow apart. now we just don't talk, and when he does he's normally mean, i drive him to doc appointments, i cook his food i wash and iron his clothes and my sis gets praised. u probably think i'm silly but it eats me.

sweetie:

SohniKuddi:

hey fellas, U know when u marry, Inshallah Allah (swt) will bless you with beautiful children..Don't make your daughter cry, when mum shouts it's different, but when dad hurts you its pain with a scar, u don't understand how she feels unless you're in her shoes.

totally agree wid u
fathers shud not shout at daughters.. in fact ive seen dat daughters are more attached with fathers dan mothers.. its natural i guess

yeah that was true when i was young, my dad used to work overseas, and when he'd come he'd bring me special gifts, my sisters probably got a doll but he knew i loved teddy bears and every time he'd bring me a bear and they'd be bigger and bigger with every visit. But now my mum is my dad also. I love her if she ever stopped treating my like she does i probably go completely crazy

friend_16:

par usually aisay he hota hai ..

larkiyaan ziada feel ker laiti hain..

hmmm true, larkyon ko abbu ki ziada zaroorat hoti hai, sarr par abbu ka haath ho to aurat kiya kiya karr sakti hai. When my car breaks down i have to take it to the garage on my own, in kaamon mein abbu ki zaroorat parti hai i pray to god every night that my little bro grows up very soon, then maybe he can fill in that gap and help me out when it comes to the man's world. I have a very solid relationship with my bro, and have have full confidence he'd come to my rescue, just that, he's only 11 lol, hes still a baby

Aghar for instance: Abbu ki kaddar na ho, to jab beti ki shaadi ho jati hai, agle log bhi kaddar nahin karein ge kiyunke beti ka koi pich nahin hai, unhein koi darr nahin hota.

SohniKuddi:

Bazigaar:

SohniKuddi:

hey fellas, U know when u marry, Inshallah Allah (swt) will bless you with beautiful children..Don't make your daughter cry, when mum shouts it's different, but when dad hurts you its pain with a scar, u don't understand how she feels unless you're in her shoes.

i haven't shouted @ my daughter so far

keep it up Bazi, you'll make a great dad

thank you