Rasul Allah, sal Allah alayhi wa sallam, said, "Anyone who
believes in Allah and the Last Day (of Judgment) should not harm
his neighbor. Anyone who believes in Allah and the Last Day
should host his guest generously. And anyone who believes in
Allah and the Last Day should say what is good or keep quiet."
- Sahih Al-Bukhari, Volume 8, Book 73, Number 47
[Lessons from this Hadith>
Did you send out a bad mouthed email to someone recently?
Did you post something in a chat room or forum that you shouldn't
have?
You are Muslim, so make sure whatever comes out of your
mouth is something that will bring you closer to Allah.
If it's not, then keep quiet.
Test yourself, for the next 3 days, before
you say anything, ask yourself, "Is this something good to say?"
ji aisa na bolain jis say kisi ka dil dukhay
is ka yahi matlab nikaltahaina
so hal yahi haina kay jab bhi bolain achha bolain aur aisay ilfaz use an karain jis say kisi ki dil azari ho
koshish hamesha ki hai kartay rahain gay
Allah sab kou aur mujhay bhi toufeeq ata fermaye ameen
sometimes u need to voice yourself in a negative way to get your point across..
I dont think so
we dont need to voice ourselves in a negative way
speak gentle
and speak good
if the next person aap say behes kartay hain
to araam say logically apni baat kahain.
Negativity is not a way to speak to anyone.