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Freddy

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apna apna hessab doe yaha aa kay...rozana jo hum acchay ore buray kaam kartay hain woe sub kay sath share kareen......


sooooo ajj app nein kya kea ?
Posted 23 Oct 2004

shaista says
hmmm, nice topic!

such main apne baare ehtesaab karna mushkil hota hai.

i think u need a lot of courage to tell here what ur negative points are.

aur aggar hum yeh points note karlein to mere khayaal main is par kuch kar sakte hain...

very good that u tell it openly here, freddy! Khuda tumhain akkal de

aur larkiyon ko burri nazar se dekhni wali baat par yeh soocha karo ke tumhaari sis ko bhi koi aise dekhe to..... (sis,daughter etc....)

Posted 26 Oct 2004

Ashii says
oo well,,, im sure sasha yeh log aisa sochte hein
tabhi apne ghar ki larkiyon pe kafffiii dher pabandiyan lagate hein




supid pa jii,,,
kya naaa
Posted 26 Oct 2004

shaista says
haan, apni larkiyon par pabandi lagate hain aur auroon ki larkyon ko dekhte hain... stupid!!!

yahan par bhi hain kuch aise loog....

Posted 26 Oct 2004

Freddy says
oyeee bund karoo ye sacchi sacchi bateen

Question to all Boys.... Hum kisi larki sei pyar kartay hain tu kesay khush hotay hain ......duniyaa rangeen lugnay lugti hai.........dil chahta hai logoon ki madad kareen ....insanoo kay kaam ayeen....ore agar woe larkii hum sei bahir milnay aa jayee tu uss ki bahadarii kay kisay sunatay sunatay zubaan nahi thukti.......




paar agar yehi sub kuch hamari apni behan karay tu ham ko kya ho jata hai ??? duniyaa hamari aankoon kay samnay aandheer kue ho jati hai....kue jee chahta hai kay haar insaan ko hatam kaar dein.........kue ??????
Posted 26 Oct 2004

Ashii says
haaahahhahahahaa...

freddy beta
u can wait for ur answer,, jitttnnnnnnnna bhi chaho
yahan koi jawab nahi de ga,,
hmm,, kaho to me answer kar du ????
Posted 26 Oct 2004

Great topic! thnks Faradiya

I got upset with my little boy just before Iftar yesterday and scolded him but hugged him a moment later as I realized it was wrong. I felt so bad that after fasting whole day, I felt anger when a child was acting normal. I seek refuge with Allah from weakness and anger.
Posted 26 Oct 2004

faradiya said:

oyeee bund karoo ye sacchi sacchi bateen

Question to all Boys.... Hum kisi larki sei pyar kartay hain tu kesay khush hotay hain ......duniyaa rangeen lugnay lugti hai.........dil chahta hai logoon ki madad kareen ....insanoo kay kaam ayeen....ore agar woe larkii hum sei bahir milnay aa jayee tu uss ki bahadarii kay kisay sunatay sunatay zubaan nahi thukti.......




paar agar yehi sub kuch hamari apni behan karay tu ham ko kya ho jata hai ??? duniyaa hamari aankoon kay samnay aandheer kue ho jati hai....kue jee chahta hai kay haar insaan ko hatam kaar dein.........kue ??????






bcuz we are selfish and look to serve our interest only. We look at other girls bcuz we see them as objects of pleasure while oblivious of the fact our own sis/dauts are same to others.
Posted 26 Oct 2004

Ashii says
buri baaatt,,
u get angry with ur little angel


i can neverrr eveeerrrrrrrr do this to my kids







hmm,,
only fajr ki namaz parhi,, but im sooo tired k legs kaanp rahi hein meri
hmmm par abhi type bhi to kar rahi hu na
AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa..
Posted 26 Oct 2004

I know. I feel bad especially bcuz I prayed to Allah for this one alot. And when I get upset with him I feel bad thinking I am being unthankful to Him for this precious gift.
Posted 26 Oct 2004

A young guy once approached the Prophet (pbuh) and sought his permission to commit 4nication. Prophet (pbuh) asked the guy how he would feel if he would like someone to do the same with his sister, he responded, Never', then he asked him if he would like someone to do the same with his mother, he responded, Never. Then Prophet (pbuh) told him that the person he wanted to have illicit relations with must be somebody's sis or mom. He then placed his blessed hand on the guy's chest and prayed for him which receeded his desires.
Posted 26 Oct 2004

SALL said:

only fajr ki namaz parhi,, but im sooo tired k legs kaanp rahi hein meri
hmmm par abhi type bhi to kar rahi hu na
AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa..



How do you then fast!
You know that other acts of good will not even be looked at if the person neglects prayers. Just like prayers are unacceptable without the shahadah.
Posted 26 Oct 2004

Ashii says
i know yar,,
but i came back from office at 7:45
and aftaar is at 6:45

hmmm,, but i can pray abhi,,, hein na
okk,,, me going
thnxxx SD :)
Posted 26 Oct 2004

Freddy says
ajj mein nein aik aesay shaks ko maaf keya jis nein mujay dhuk pohanchayaa tha....

aik bemaar ki ayaadaat karnay geya.......

kisi fakeer ko aik rupeyaa be nahi deyaa.

ajj takrebaan aik be jhoot nahi bola ( i proud of it)











gharii panchar hoii ore mein nein dil he dil mein gharii bananay walay paar lanaat bheeji(khuda mujay maaf karay)

ajj phir larkiyoon ko dekha ore dil mein buray buray khayaal ayee.(ya khuda mujay honsala dena)

Posted 26 Oct 2004

Freddy says
thanks you for your valueable comments mr smooth.

if we say the word "natural thinking" what do you think how a natural person should response if his sister love with someone .
Posted 26 Oct 2004

faradiya said:

thanks you for your valueable comments mr smooth.

if we say the word "natural thinking" what do you think how a natural person should response if his sister love with someone .



Question is complex bcuz it all depends on values in the family and how much individuals uphold it. if it is a norm for boys to fall in love (lust at)girls at first sight, their sister following suit should be a norm as well. In a household where piety is a norm and boys don't hound girls, sister's falling in love shall not be deemed and judged as wrong or immoral without knowing the matter. Even when it is found to be wrong by principles, one must respect feelings and take a course of wisdom. This by no means an invitation for girls to fall out of the wagon.
Posted 27 Oct 2004

ehtsaab a umer ka itna sa gosshwara hai


oceans eleven
the willow
bourne supremacy
wizard of the oz

i cudnt get no more so
i just sticked to these
4 movies.the 1st three r
the must sees agar kisi nay
nahee dekhi tu watchit budds!







Posted 27 Oct 2004

SupidGuy says
AOA..........
wah bhei wah sahi ka Ehtasaab chal raha hai......
balke Remand hai yeah tu



waqai hooslay ka kaam hai apne errors ko point out karna........



take care
Chao
Posted 27 Oct 2004

Freddy says
MP    pppppppppp ppppppppppppppp aaeh kafirstan kay shehzaday ramzan mein film dekhna sei roza tuut jata hai






































abb aik ore bura kaam kaar raha hoo........Gussa haram hai yaar woe be ramzaan mein toba toba
kekekekekekek
Posted 28 Oct 2004

Freddy says
sahi kaha stupid buss fark sirf itna hai kay ess ramand mein Littar nahi partay








































partay be hotay tu tumheen kya farak parna tha......tum tu tamashayee hoooo
Posted 28 Oct 2004

Freddy says
thanks mr smooth...but i must say mujay kuch zeyada samaj nahi ayeee































can't you write in simple english ??? difficult for me to understand.
Posted 28 Oct 2004

Ashii says
Smooth_daddy said:

Question is complex bcuz it all depends on values in the family and how much individuals uphold it. if it is a norm for boys to fall in love (lust at)girls at first sight, their sister following suit should be a norm as well. In a household where piety is a norm and boys don't hound girls, sister's falling in love shall not be deemed and judged as wrong or immoral without knowing the matter. Even when it is found to be wrong by principles, one must respect feelings and take a course of wisdom. This by no means an invitation for girls to fall out of the wagon.



in simple words,,,,
agar aap ki apni niyat kharab hai,, to u ll never accept ur sister being in love with someone coz aap ko lage ga k uss shaks ki (and ur sisters') niyat bhi buri hai
aur agar aap khud kissi larki k liye dil mei burai nahi rakhte to aap ki sis ko koi pasand kare iss mei koi burai nahi dikhe gi

aya samajh ??
Posted 28 Oct 2004

Freddy says
Posted 28 Oct 2004

Ashii says
lagta hai samajh aa gaya hai
Posted 28 Oct 2004

Simple answer to your quest wld be for guys to mend their ways first. Because their relations with someone else's sis and some other guy might hav relation with their sis. Respect sisters of others like yours. lower your gaze and don't check their figures out. Sounds so unreal! no fun! ......there's no short cut it. Old American adage, "what ever goes around comes around!"
Want to save embarrassment for self! save someone else from the same. Shaitanz nobodyz friend - vowed to cause destruction for humans while beautifying the temporal but sinful delights to them.
Posted 28 Oct 2004

Freddy says
haan abb samaj ayaa.......ess sawal ka ess sei accha jawab ho he nahi sakta tha..............wakeyee jo mein nein samja tha ore jo tum mein translate keye uss mein bohot fark tha
thanks to both of you
Posted 28 Oct 2004

Fairl_Girl says
Posted 28 Oct 2004

anytime
Posted 28 Oct 2004

Ashii says
shukar hai kissi ko to kuch samajh i..
khajooron ka asar lagta hai






hmm,,, okk lemme say it,, as SD and F16 told abt a mini eitkaaf, i wanted to do it on friday,,, par it was my last day @infineon,, i spent nearly whole day talking to collegues,, aur ghar hi late i.. bohot se jhoot bole,, nothing that can hurt someone but still bohot se jhoot

then saturday,, i wanted to pray for whole day,, but mom went out and i had to prepare aftaari,, woh din bhi miss.. aftari thori late ho gai aur mom se daant pari aur bohot gussa kiya me ne

last night i wanted to pray till sehri,,, but itni zor ki neend i k

Posted 31 Oct 2004

A believer is always happy - truly blessing from Allah.

You intend to do good and were not able to establish it, you still get reward for intention, and when you cld also it, you get double the reward. Isn't it heart warming   

Now this doesn't apply to obligatory prayers and other worship. Doing it is required and failure to it is sin.
Posted 02 Nov 2004

Ashii says
.........intend to do good
hmmm..

my brain s completely messed up


i better dont confess anything
Posted 02 Nov 2004

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