It is said, "larki zindagi mein ek baar mohabbat karti hay". What does this philosophy signify actually?
Let's suppose, a girl loves someone and later on could not marry him. Afterwards she marries some other person. So now what is the state of her love to her husband? If, according to the said philosophy, the previous one was her 'ek baar mohabbat' so what kind of this 'mohabbat' is? Or this is COMPROMISE (because she had already loved someone earlier i.e. 'zindagi mein ek baar mohabbat').
So what the husband is receiving from her wife: . love (which he believes to be true) . compromise love (which the wife knows what she is giving to him)
Does this 'kahi janay wali baat' work in real sense? Or should this 'nazariah' exist to classify the standard of love of a girl?
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A girl never forgets her first love but learns after getting married dat her husband was da rite person for her n doesn't compromise wid him but falls in love all over again......bt first love is first love it cn never b forgotten bt at times b laughed at
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yaa agree with all of you as big bro has said that we should always be honest to our realtions chahay koi sa bhi relation ho as a Sister,as a daughter,As a wife and as a mother
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sry yaar but of course wo usse nahi pear kare gi kiun ke jese kaha gea ek larki sirf ek dafa sacha pear karti hai:
mein ye isliye keh sakti hoon kiun ke men bi ek larke se pear karti thi, karti hoon aur karti rahon gi meri shadi usse ho ya na ho... mere parents chahte hain ke men apne cousin (jis ka age mere se tora hai ) se shadi karon....mein unka dil nahi thi dukhana chahti is liye meine han keh dia...magr mein sure keh sakti hoon ke mein usse sari zindagi naffrat karon gi magr usse ye kabhi bi pata nahi chale ga kiun ke uske samne mein smile karon gi.....
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Sentiments said:
It is said, "larki zindagi mein ek baar mohabbat karti hay". What does this philosophy signify actually?
Let's suppose, a girl loves someone and later on could not marry him. Afterwards she marries some other person. So now what is the state of her love to her husband? If, according to the said philosophy, the previous one was her 'ek baar mohabbat' so what kind of this 'mohabbat' is? Or this is COMPROMISE (because she had already loved someone earlier i.e. 'zindagi mein ek baar mohabbat').
So what the husband is receiving from her wife: . love (which he believes to be true) . compromise love (which the wife knows what she is giving to him)
Does this 'kahi janay wali baat' work in real sense? Or should this 'nazariah' exist to classify the standard of love of a girl?
What do you say?
yup..larki aik baar hi mohabbat kerti ha.. when she finds a new love.. yeh us kay lye nai zindagi ha...
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QUEEN VICTORIA said:
khaas larkyun ki baat hi kyun
kisi ka bhi koi bhi piyaar aakhri nahin hota sab pehlay piyar ko bhulanay main dusra aur dusray ko bhulanay main teesra kartay hain aur sari zindagi silsila chalat rehta hai
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what i feel is if you are inlove with someoene marry them and be strong and go for it but if you cant marry the one you love and you marry someone else then learn to love him and thats all you can do....
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QUEEN VICTORIA said:
khaas larkyun ki baat hi kyun
kisi ka bhi koi bhi piyaar aakhri nahin hota sab pehlay piyar ko bhulanay main dusra aur dusray ko bhulanay main teesra kartay hain aur sari zindagi silsila chalat rehta hai
no deari am not agree with u pahla piyar kabhi nahi mitta ..............
yah thik hay nahi marta koi judai may khoda kise ko kise say mager juda na kary.........
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well i'd like to say that firstly good topic..! i think it is true that a girl duz forget her first love but shows it to the others that she has forgotton him but deep inside she has still got the hearts for him! which is true...but she duznt want to show it because she doesnt want to create any problems between her own life and her family or frends around her...at the end of the day the most important word that she sticks by is RESPECT! plus also she duz love once in her life but she has to love her future family too..and it is important for her to actually show her love and respect otherwise she's outta the door!
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Girls are just the same as guys, we are human and are capable of loving more than once. Everyone is different, it all depemds on personality and personal choice yaro. Some girls feel they can love one man only whether they stay with him or not and some believe they can love and forget. Im sure most girls wuill try to foget cos its too painful trying to remmeber a past love when u are wit someon else cos u will end up ruining ur life and not be able to give ureself completely mind, body and soul to the person in your life at the present.
but if you cant marry the one you love and you marry someone else then learn to love him and thats all you can do....
