what if in your marriage your husband provides financially for you but not emotionally? should you just accept the financial or should you leave ? what is healthier love or finance?.
udaaslarki24
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no one cares about me in my life if i get a divorce i will never find a man because iam not a pretty woman or attractive all i have is american citizenship thats all iam not a millionares daughter sooooo besides that iam an ugly woman no man wants an ugly woman ask any man fat old or grey he doesnt want an ugly woman
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I got your point.
If he's not a LPR yet, you can negotiate a settlement for money and get out of this misery. If he got his paperwork all taken care of, then he thinks he is returning the favor and being nice by keepin you as a wife. I bet he feels bad inside for using you but he won't admit it.
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this man doesnt feel bad for using me he doesnt even notice when cry or when iam hurt he laughs he only cares about himself ok for everyone else he has loe but for me the one that gave him my heart hes got no love no time nothing no joy
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i dont expect him to be around 24/7 but he doesnt even have one day to spend time with me, he works 6 days maybe one day hes off , if he feels like it even then he ignores stays distant talks on the cell and goes off so honestly i dont expect be w\ith me all the time and you an be a workholic if you would like but if you have one day off dont ignore me walk off he gives everyone else time but me iam invisible the way he treats me is like iam not in the house , sooo i dont expect 24/7 but some time would be good
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udaaslarki24 said:
no one cares about me in my life if i get a divorce i will never find a man because iam not a pretty woman or attractive all i have is american citizenship thats all iam not a millionares daughter sooooo besides that iam an ugly woman no man wants an ugly woman ask any man fat old or grey he doesnt want an ugly woman
self respect is as important as love, money n all that other stuff.
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udaaslarki24 said:
no one cares about me in my life if i get a divorce i will never find a man because iam not a pretty woman or attractive all i have is american citizenship thats all iam not a millionares daughter sooooo besides that iam an ugly woman no man wants an ugly woman ask any man fat old or grey he doesnt want an ugly woman
you know who pretty is? the one with a good heart...no one is ugly in this world...dont call urself ugly...if someone loves other by looking at her beauty thats not love...thats flirting...aur wese bhi soorat ko nahi seerat ko dekhna chahiyey dont be sad
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UL24, you didn't answer my questions. I think I have understood your problem. I want to understand what 'ld be the extent of damage if you separated from him.
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taali do hath say bajti hay if you can work and take care of yourself thn leave him. but b4 this aik bar baat zaror karna usay,maybe usay sirf ahsaas dilanay ki zarorat ho. baki my prayers are with you
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WELL UDAS LARKI THEREZ ANOTHA THING U CAN DO..u start ignoring him...pretend infront of him that u r having affair with sumoneelse...when hez home start talkin on cellphone...if even this thing doesnt bother him then u shd think ofa separation that means hez indifferent towards you he doesnt have any feelings for you than whats the reason for living together.. and i think asera is rite if u can live on ur own than leave him
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Aasera said:
taali do hath say bajti hay if you can work and take care of yourself thn leave him. but b4 this aik bar baat zaror karna usay,maybe usay sirf ahsaas dilanay ki zarorat ho. baki my prayers are with you
yup i agree aid aasera try it...it mite work n us24 dun think dat ur ugly n he's doin u a favour by makin u his wife n keeping u in his house...isn't it better 2 liv without such a person dan 2 live with him?
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udaaslarki24 said:
listen he doesnt smile at me, he says hes got no time for me for everyone else he has time, but for me he does not iam lonley and misreable so if i leave one day maybe it will be a good thing i cant be lonley like this for the rest of my life u know the point of getting married is haveing someonees company and if he doesnt give it something is wrong
may b rzn is ur own behaviour. xpect les from others. agr husband apki care ni krta to zruri ni ha k ap b khyal na kro. wesy b yara muhabat aik banday pe aa k khatam ni hoti ap k aas pas aur bht sy piyary rishty hon gay un say muhabatain sametain
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WAFA said:
WELL UDAS LARKI THEREZ ANOTHA THING U CAN DO..u start ignoring him...pretend infront of him that u r having affair with sumoneelse...when hez home start talkin on cellphone...if even this thing doesnt bother him then u shd think ofa separation that means hez indifferent towards you he doesnt have any feelings for you than whats the reason for living together.. and i think asera is rite if u can live on ur own than leave him
Subhan Allah is sy [pyara mshwra ni tha kia????
yar asi mamooli baton pe ghar tornay lago to phir to bus nibh gaen shadyan.. meri jan Allah pak ko halal kamon may sab sy napasand e divorce ha...srf huby ki twajah hasil na hony pe separate ho jana aqalmandi to ni.
aik bnda ghalat kar raha hai to ap usko ignore kr k ya koi aur afair ka pretend kr k khud b to koi aala o arfa kam to ni kr ry na
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YAS said:
well u can stay in love without money for a few days n then u'll die since love can't buy food,clothes etc.
but if u gotta pick one, go with finance, atleast u'll live longer.
agreed... aik bari kahen parha tha .........pait khali ho na to poora chand b roti e nzr ata ha....
wakai e realistic ho k socha jae to srf muhabat apka pait ni bhr skti....paisa zindgi may bht eham ni ha magar bht si eham kamon kliay apko paisa e chaey hota ha.
dont be sad
