PARENTS B4 Marriage.

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Blue Oasis

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Revised to include the less fairer gender.

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Pregnant but not married. Mother without a husband. This isn’t a new situation and certainly not one exclusive to the West. The same applies for daddies as well as mummies.

My question is, if this situation happened to your relative or friend, how would you react and WHY? Would you accept and forgive? Or disown and forget? Another reaction?

Posted 19 Feb 2005

Sall, I think I once answered that question of rights and place for children born from out of wedlock. Let me elaborate:

Allah creates a life and it is equally as sacrad as any other human life. Each human being will stand in front of Allah to give accounts of its deeds only and will not bear the burden of anyone else. Such individuals granted equal rights in the society and are not waranted to sub-social treatment. There are only certain rulings that apply to such individuals.

Humans generally seek protection matching their natural sense of insecurity. In any society, where family lineage, material strengths, and solid backgrounds taken as gaurantees for successful future, children born out of wedlock are seen as production of crime, week background and broken lineage having a very little chance of becoming successful (again materially). Though such attitude brings hardship upon victims of a crime (who had no part in it), society at large bears the harm of criminals. That's why Islam takes stern position against crimes that pose substantial burden on the society.
Posted 16 Mar 2005

kash_beauty said:

app mein bardasht kitni hai woh hum pehlay din he dekh chukay thay!
or hum kia bardasht kar saktay hein or kia nahin!!
yeh na app k liye jan-na zarori hai or na hamara batana



Hey kash, that's very arrogant, you pass judgement on others and become harsh when others return you the favor.

kash_beauty said:

shan !!
app ko baat bardasht nahin hoti jab kaho tou !!
khud jo merzi boltein rahein
likin aglay banday ki baat bardasht karna app k bas ka kaam nahin hai!!!



I don't think either one of you were understanding each other. in this serious corner, if we want to discuss something lets do it with facts, evidence and proofs. Mere understandings, opinions, emotions and speculations render any comment weightless.
Posted 16 Mar 2005

LiL_DollY said:

everyone has there own opinions bawsed one the way they were raised and life experiences so there is not one right answer here.



So you mean education process one goes through!
Very true, education makes the difference. Unfortunately, people know very little about their religion yet speak with authority.

When we say there is no one right answer to any question, it means the subject knowldge is still evolving. In case of Islam, those questions have definite answers, we only need to dig them out from where we burried them.
Posted 16 Mar 2005

Ashii says
SD,, where r u bro
u shd post more often yarrr
Posted 17 Mar 2005

I get too busy at times. I try my best to get here and post.
Posted 17 Mar 2005

LiL_DollY says
Smooth_daddy said:

LiL_DollY said:

everyone has there own opinions bawsed one the way they were raised and life experiences so there is not one right answer here.



So you mean education process one goes through!
Very true, education makes the difference. Unfortunately, people know very little about their religion yet speak with authority.

When we say there is no one right answer to any question, it means the subject knowldge is still evolving. In case of Islam, those questions have definite answers, we only need to dig them out from where we burried them.


YOU SOUNDS EUDCATED YOURSELF
VERY IMPRESSIVE
and smooth

hehe

oh yeah...i mean i just heard a khudba last friday about juma. It was really nice. the guy was saying Islam is one but evryone from the different countries has thier own ways of practicing it. Some people call themselves sunni some shia...and whatveer else. I mean...ther is only Islam....and we are all muslims..you know...do you getme,....

sighing...some people jsut read quran withoutn knowing its meaning or believe what is heard without asking for a reference.

I mean I jsut met a paki girl a few mons ago. She tried to tell me that it is in the quran if a girl doesnt spend the wedding night with her husband that her valima will not be accepted.

i laughed and then hesitated...and told her. thats not true. and if shes so sure of it to show me where in the quran it says that. she stil is so convinced but she never got back to me. i know for a fact that is not true. i never read it anywhere.

you get wwhat i mean.

i think i went way off topic somewhere.
Posted 17 Mar 2005

LiL_DollY says
no it makes sense...

when ur educated
you dont jsut believe what people say

you ask for a reference
and you give references yourself

your a leader not a follower
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