- divorce in our society -

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Ashii

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our religion Islam gives the right of divoce to men

lets start with few questions
how do u think a man shd deal with this right ?
what do u think is a valid reason that man can use this right ?
how seriously do WE take this issue in our families/society ?



lemme precise that im not asking for a long copy paste from an islamic site
we all know wot is halal, haram or na-pasandeeda
here I only need UR views, facts,,,
Posted 29 Aug 2006

mmja says
pasend ke shadyion say usa ka matlab hai kay shade karlo ma peyio no dusan de ke lodr aye
aray banday ka dil ab star + daykhnay ko kar he jata hai bachon ko sharim kare chaye woh kyia kar rahay hain
rites
koi bhe ladrke azadna kisi bhe ladkay kay sath date pay jaye no tension
or koi bhe maa baap apne kudre ko lor lor phirnay say nahin rok saktay
abhe inpay tabserah karo baqe bad main
Posted 14 Oct 2006

sun_shine says
aurat k qanoon k baray may main ziyada to nahi janti per jo pakistani or asian societies ka aj kal jo haal chal raha hay woh kuch theek nahi hay.
Posted 15 Oct 2006

Ashii says
yeh kanoon to pehle se hai,, k over 18 larka larki shadi kar sakte hein
wots new ???

bande ka dil jab star+ dekne ko chahe to woh yeh soch le k iss ka asar uss ki aulad pe kya par raha hai,, ya dil ko sambhalo ya aulad ko




munnu,, kiss dunya mei rehte hein aap
jab beta date pe jata hai to NO TENSION,, beti jae to kya maut par jati hai sab ko
kuri looor lor phire to bari takleef hoti hai,, munde ko kyun nahi rokte ???
do u think yeh law pass hoga k "larki ko date pe jaane ki ijazat hai"


aur yahan baat NEW LAWS ki ho rahi hai,, u didnt tell me any new law jo pass hone ja raha hai.. im NOT WITH this present gvt,, par koi reason koi baat to ho naaaa rola dalne ki



paki society ka haal bohot pehle se kharab hai,, there s nothing new,, sirf itna k pehle larke bure the, ab larkiyan bhi hein
wots wrong in it
Posted 15 Oct 2006

mmja says
darsal main law sahe tarahn expl nahin karsakta na senc pro hai kahin main band he na ho jayion
lor lor aray khan woh to hum isliay jatay hai kisi girl ko koi pro to nahin lift to nahin chaye   
jahan tak ulad ke bat hai para maray main to nahin chodrnay ka itne sohne kudrion walay dramay
khabar dar jo koi kudre meri ijazat kay beghair bahir gaye tnagay todr donga
Posted 15 Oct 2006

sun_shine says
asian societies or pakistani society maana kay pehlay se kharaab hay per pehle log yeh harkatain karnay main sharmatay thay ab khulay aam iska aitraaf aisay kartay hain kay jaisay koi naik kaam saranjaam diya ho.
Posted 16 Oct 2006

nikama says
hamari problem hi yeh he k hum bolna zaroori samajhte hain chahe kuch pata ho ya nahin
hudood ordenance aur is per jo proposed amendments gov.lana chah rahi he,us ki hamayat aur mukhalfat donon main bolne valon ko nahin pata k asal issue kya he.amendments asal main hain kya,kya vo shariat k against hain ager han to kaise.
kya hadood ord.islami tha
sorry to say but is forum per in issues per baat kerna hi
bhens k agay been bajana he.
is topic ko talaq do aur lets go to f.o.s
Posted 16 Oct 2006

Ashii says
thnx mmja
aap ki post ne agay kuch kehne ki gunjaish hi nahi chori
jo akalmand hai khud samajh jae ga k aap ko NEW LAWS jinn ki aap itni mukhalfat kar rahe ho,, unn k baare mei kitni maloomat hein



I cant agree or disagree to anything coz mujhe kuch pata hi nahi




nikama
meri taraf se topic khatam hi tha,, tum sab logon ne re-open kiya hai isse
Posted 16 Oct 2006

mmja says
ashii je ab banday ko dunyia main kyia ho raha hai uske information to hone chaye na
or jahan tak apkay agree ya disagree ke bat hai to koi aik faisla karo apkay han ya na kay he intezar main bill ka ab tak kuch nahin ban saka
Posted 16 Oct 2006

mmja says
asian societies or pakistani society maana kay pehlay se kharaab hay per pehle log yeh harkatain karnay main sharmatay thay ab khulay aam iska aitraaf aisay kartay hain kay jaisay koi naik kaam saranjaam diya ho.
bus je ab apko to pata he hai kay zamana kharab ho geyia hai or sodharnay kay bhe asar nahin nazartay kyia keyia ja saktay hay sawaye apnay apko theek karnay kay so woh koshish kar rahay hain daykhayn ab kamyaab hote hai ya nahin
Posted 16 Oct 2006

mmja says
talkak hai talak hai talak hai
oye zalima mughay josh dilakay mera bhara para ghar ugadr deyia uper wala tugh say iska jawab mangay ga
Posted 16 Oct 2006

Ashii says
"""" TOPIC CLOSED """"
Posted 16 Oct 2006

mmja says
why abhe ho sakta hai kay kisi ro say talak na hoye ho
Posted 16 Oct 2006

Ashii says
serious topics mei fazool batein mana hein
go to fos or teen talk
Posted 16 Oct 2006

mmja says
ok medum as you wish
Posted 16 Oct 2006

nikama says
mmja said:

talkak hai talak hai talak hai
oye zalima mughay josh dilakay mera bhara para ghar ugadr deyia uper wala tugh say iska jawab mangay ga


LAUGHING OUT LOUD
TOPIC CLOSED
Posted 17 Oct 2006

mmja says
ok
Posted 18 Oct 2006

ONLYARBAB says
i heard that halal chaeezon may sab say napasand ALLAH ko talaq hay
Posted 30 Oct 2006

mmja says
sahe suna hai apnay
Posted 30 Oct 2006

ONLYARBAB says
ok good
Posted 31 Oct 2006

kiran says
per afsos ke ajj kal sab se divorce humari society main bhar raha hai khas ker yahan bahir reh ker loog idher jaise hi hote ja rahai hain thoori dair saath rehte hai aur sochte hain ke bas abb hum eik doosre ke saath nahin reh sakte.
Posted 23 Nov 2006

mmja says
aik masla or bhi hai or woh hai education jis main pak ka hal boht bora hai jiski wajah say loog sochtay sahi nahin hain or paray likhay jahil bhi boht hain pak main ager education sahi ho jaye to kafi halat sahi ho jayen iskay ilawah hamayn apnay andar dosray ki bat ko sunnay ka sabar bhi peda karna chaye or yeh nahin sochan chaye kay hum hamesha hi sahi hain
Posted 24 Nov 2006

sun_shine says
do cheezon se insaan ka character banta hain.
ek taleem doosri tarbiyat.taleem to aaj kal sab kay paas hain per tarbiyat ki kami hain.
aaj kal logon main bardasht khatam ho gaye hain.kisi bhi mamooli baat ko khainsh kar apni ana ka masla bana daitay hain.
Posted 24 Nov 2006

mmja says
second point pay agree karonga par first pay nahin ajkal taleem bhi har kisi kay pass nahin hai or jinkay pass hai woh bhi srif kitabi taleem hai asal taleem kisi kay pas nahin hai
Posted 27 Nov 2006

sun_shine says
i will agree kay aaj kal logo kay paas information hain ilm nahi.thats why hamari societies aisi ho gaye hain aur ek aur waja islam se doori hain.
Posted 27 Nov 2006

mmja says
yehi to sara masla hai ager hum islam say dor na hotay to education kay beghair bhi guzara ho jata lakin
Posted 28 Nov 2006

sun_shine says
tamam masail ka hal Islam say kurbat hain.
Posted 28 Nov 2006

mmja says
bilkul lakim mughay nahin lagta future main bhi hum islam kay qarib jaynegay
Posted 29 Nov 2006

sun_shine says
mujhay bhi yakeen to nahi per inshAllah umeed zaroor hain.sirf apna country ka nahi.
Posted 29 Nov 2006

mmja says
umeed hi to hai lakin jo ankhaynd aykh rahi hain un say to chance boht kam hai lakin uper walay ki marzi ho to kuch bhi ho sakta hai
Posted 29 Nov 2006

sun_shine says
beshak Allah Taa'laa sab kuch karnay ki qudrat rakhtay hain.
Posted 30 Nov 2006

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