SBG18
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OK HERE WE GO BEEN THERE DONE THAT AND HERES THE KNOWLEDGE YOU KNOW THAT ALLAH TESTS THE MUSLIM BELIEVER....THE STROGNER THERE FAITH IS THE MORE OBSTACLES HE PUTS BEFORE THEM TO TEST THEM AND TEHRE FAITH. SOEMTIMES IN LIFE...YOU HEAD THE WRONG WAY....BUT THEN AGAIN ALLAH IS FORGIVING. ISLAMICALLY DATING IS NOT ALLOWED. AND IF YOU REALLY THINK ABOUT IT THERE IS A REASON BEHIND IT. NOW A DAYS WHAT IS THERE TO WANT IN DATING JSUT EPOPLE HURT YOU AND LEAVE EVEN THOUGH AT TIMES IS MAY NOT SEEM LIKE IT. BUT ALLAH (SWT) LOVES US SO MCUH THAT HE AHS FORBIDDEN THAT. HE DOESNT WANT US TO HURT AND THEN AGAIN aLLAH SWT DOES NOT GIVE US MORE THAN WE CAN HANDLE. BE STRONG PEOPLES. IN ISLAM THE GIRL IS ALLOWED TO MEET THE GUY AND TLKA WITH HIM WITH A CHAPERONE WHICH CAN BE A FRIEND OR FMAILY AND YOUR NOT SUPPOSE TO TOUCH AND ALL THA STUFF IF YOU ALL WANNA KNOW MORE I CAN RESEARCH AND BERING YOU MORE INFO BUT EVERYTHING ELSE IS COMING FROM TEH TOPZ OF MY HEAD I AM ALSO AGAINST ARRANGED MARRIAGE MAYBE THE REASON BEING CAUSE THE WAY I AHVE BEEN RAISED UP HEAIRNG STORIES LIKE ALLADIN OR CINDRELLA...SNOW WHITE...SLEEPIGN BEAUTY I THINK ALL US GIRLS ARE LOOKING FOR PRINCES BUT TRUTH IS WE SHOULD BE LOOKING FOR BROTHERS IN THE WAY OF ISLAM AND WE MARRY FOR ALLAH SWT NOT REALLY FOR OURSELVES WE HAVE KIDS TO SEND THE WORD OF ISLAM DOWN TO ARRANGED MARRIAGE TO ME IS LIKE A STORY ALL BACKWARDS AND LOVE MARRIAGE SEEMSLIKE A SOTRY STRAIGHT FORWARDS AND I TELL YOU I AM SCARED OUT OF MY SKIN CAUSE MY PARETNS ARE LOOKIGN FOR A GUY FOR ME AND I WONDER HOW CAN I MARRY SOMEON I DONT KNWO OR WHO DOESNT KNWO ME I FEAR ALLAH (swt) CAUSE I AM NOT THE BEST PERSON IN THE WORLD WHAT HE WILL BRING TO MY FUTURE AND MY LIFE. ONLY HE KNOWS. ITS REALLY HARD BUT SERIOUSLY PRAY AND PUT YOUR HEART FORTH ALLAH HE IS THE BENEFICEINT THE AWARE AND ALLAH KNOWS BEST
ShujaSlam
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what up BabyGirl18 All that info was really good and true. but you know the 2nd biggest sin is hurting and not obeying your parents(as told by prophet(SAW)) and for example if you dont like the guy/girl your parents are arranging for you and then suddenly you marry someone that aint your parents choice, that is reallllllyy going to hurt them. and if your mother dies angry or hurt at you, you are really going to get a bigg punishment.
SBG18
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you guys dont say anythign against the person that said that denying an arranged marriage mgiht hurt your parents because that guys opnion is true in his eyes... and I am sort of agreeing with him Im letting my parents do whatever I love my parents to death wondering why it took me a while to realize that.
ricky
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is that so sweety- i love my parents too doesnt mean i ll accept everything they decide for me. the idea bout lovin someone is to realize that people could have a difference of opinion and being ok with that. if ur parents love ya they will never try and hook ya up with just anybody. that s getting married for the heck of it.gettting married about falling in love with somebody and then deciding if wanna spend the rest of ur life with that person. nobody can take that decision; not even ur folks. i think it s stupid.
sanam411
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ARRANGED MARRIAGE IS FINE WITH ME!...IF THATS WHAT MY PARENTS WANT...IM TOTALLY COOL WITH IT!...CANT DO ANYTHIN ABOUT IT ANYWAYZ!..IF THATS WHAT THEY WANT....THEN FINE!
