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shujaslam

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Aslamu Alaikum warahmatullahi warabakhtu

hey peeps, just want your opinion on what u think of dating

in my opinion, its totally wrong to date, or go out wit him/her if you are not married to him/her. waisy bhee, its haram in Islam
Posted 26 Aug 2003

~Fragi~ says
i agree wid ya ,,,, but ISLAM is an open n loving religion,....
Posted 26 Aug 2003

Cute_gal says
u'r rite @ shuja!
Posted 26 Aug 2003

saieen says
u r right there is no doubt....abt it
Posted 27 Aug 2003

DOES IT SAY IN D QU'RAN THAT U CAN NOT GO OUT ON A DATE OR IS IT JUST OUR PARENTS WERE ALL HEADING FOR D ARRANGE MARRIAGE BANNER
Posted 27 Aug 2003

Cute_gal says
quote:
Originally posted by SANAM SHABIR

DOES IT SAY IN D QU'RAN THAT U CAN NOT GO OUT ON A DATE OR IS IT JUST OUR PARENTS WERE ALL HEADING FOR D ARRANGE MARRIAGE BANNER



we r not talkin' abt ARRANGE MARRAIGES.....we r talkin' abt dating.....damn!!!
Posted 27 Aug 2003

I never go for a date, I mean real date. I think nothing wrong in go out and watching film together.
Posted 27 Aug 2003

YEAH AND WEN UR MUM CATCHES U ULL BE RUNNING ALL THE WAY HOME....LOL.....
Posted 27 Aug 2003

ShujaSlam says
yo, SANAm shabir, it says it the quran that you cannot go out(or make love) with a girl/boy who you arent married to.
Posted 27 Aug 2003

SBG18 says
OK
HERE WE
GO
BEEN THERE DONE THAT
AND HERES THE KNOWLEDGE
YOU KNOW THAT ALLAH TESTS THE MUSLIM BELIEVER....THE STROGNER THERE FAITH IS THE MORE OBSTACLES HE PUTS BEFORE THEM
TO TEST THEM AND TEHRE FAITH. SOEMTIMES IN LIFE...YOU HEAD THE WRONG WAY....BUT THEN AGAIN ALLAH IS FORGIVING.
ISLAMICALLY DATING IS NOT ALLOWED.
AND IF YOU REALLY THINK ABOUT IT THERE IS A REASON BEHIND IT.
NOW A DAYS WHAT IS THERE TO WANT IN DATING
JSUT EPOPLE HURT YOU AND LEAVE EVEN THOUGH AT TIMES IS MAY NOT SEEM LIKE IT.
BUT ALLAH (SWT) LOVES US SO MCUH THAT HE AHS FORBIDDEN THAT. HE DOESNT WANT US TO HURT
AND THEN AGAIN aLLAH SWT DOES NOT GIVE US MORE THAN WE CAN HANDLE.
BE STRONG PEOPLES.
IN ISLAM THE GIRL IS ALLOWED TO MEET THE GUY AND TLKA WITH HIM WITH A CHAPERONE WHICH CAN BE A FRIEND OR FMAILY
AND YOUR NOT SUPPOSE TO TOUCH
AND ALL THA STUFF
IF YOU ALL WANNA KNOW MORE I CAN RESEARCH AND BERING YOU MORE INFO BUT EVERYTHING ELSE IS COMING FROM TEH TOPZ OF MY HEAD
I AM ALSO AGAINST ARRANGED MARRIAGE
MAYBE THE REASON BEING CAUSE THE WAY I AHVE BEEN RAISED UP HEAIRNG STORIES LIKE
ALLADIN OR CINDRELLA...SNOW WHITE...SLEEPIGN BEAUTY
I THINK ALL US GIRLS ARE LOOKING FOR PRINCES
BUT TRUTH IS WE SHOULD BE LOOKING FOR BROTHERS IN THE WAY OF ISLAM
AND WE MARRY FOR ALLAH SWT
NOT REALLY FOR OURSELVES
WE HAVE KIDS TO SEND THE WORD OF ISLAM DOWN TO
ARRANGED MARRIAGE TO ME IS LIKE A STORY ALL BACKWARDS
AND LOVE MARRIAGE SEEMSLIKE A SOTRY STRAIGHT FORWARDS
AND I TELL YOU I AM SCARED OUT OF MY SKIN
CAUSE MY PARETNS ARE LOOKIGN FOR A GUY FOR ME
AND I WONDER HOW CAN I MARRY SOMEON I DONT KNWO OR WHO DOESNT KNWO ME
I FEAR ALLAH (swt) CAUSE I AM NOT THE BEST PERSON IN THE WORLD
WHAT HE WILL BRING TO MY FUTURE AND MY LIFE.
ONLY HE KNOWS.
ITS REALLY HARD
BUT SERIOUSLY PRAY AND PUT YOUR HEART FORTH ALLAH HE IS THE BENEFICEINT
THE AWARE
AND ALLAH KNOWS BEST
Posted 30 Aug 2003

ShujaSlam says
what up BabyGirl18
All that info was really good and true. but you know the 2nd biggest sin is hurting and not obeying your parents(as told by prophet(SAW)) and for example if you dont like the guy/girl your parents are arranging for you and then suddenly you marry someone that aint your parents choice, that is reallllllyy going to hurt them. and if your mother dies angry or hurt at you, you are really going to get a bigg punishment.
Posted 31 Aug 2003

pakikababa says
don' talk rubbish hea....iite....dats da 1st & da last warning!!
Posted 01 Sep 2003

ricky says
...
Posted 01 Sep 2003

marvi says
...........AND I AGREE WITH U 100% SEXYBABAY AND THE OTHERS


I AGREE...MARVI...DAT WOTEVA RICKI SAID WAS OFFENSIVE....BUT NOW....WAT'S DA DIFF....U ALSO DID....AVOID DAT IN UR FUTURE POSTS....
Posted 01 Sep 2003

marvi says
:s
Posted 01 Sep 2003

Jiya_k says
Dating is not Haram in Islam....even though falling in Love is also not haram as long as u r in your limits....!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted 01 Sep 2003

Rain Man says
Dating is good untill there is nothing HARAM going on...
Posted 01 Sep 2003

ricky says
well everything haram in islam . where do u draw teh line.hahahah and why?
Posted 02 Sep 2003

Cute_gal says
OK....ENUFF!!!...PPL R GOIN' OF LIMITS HEA.....DON' MAKE ME LOCK DIS TOPIC!!
Posted 02 Sep 2003

Rain Man says
no one else said anything but...u know who
Posted 02 Sep 2003

ShujaSlam says
OMG, Y DO SOME OF YOU IDIOTS HAVTA RUIN IT!


anyway, you absolutly cant go out wit(or make love) anyone if you arent married to that person! That is what Prophet Muhammed(SAW) said!
Posted 03 Sep 2003

ricky says
yeah sure .
Posted 04 Sep 2003

faysal says
making love and going out r two seperate things...u go out with ur friends but u dont make love to them...
Posted 05 Sep 2003

~Fragi~ says
well .... i think this topic getting (N)
Posted 05 Sep 2003

faysal says
come on its not getting anything...]
Posted 05 Sep 2003

ricky says
EDITED [menani]
Posted 05 Sep 2003

faysal says
coz there should be a difference between humans and animals..
Posted 05 Sep 2003

SBG18 says
you guys dont say anythign against the person that said
that denying an arranged marriage mgiht hurt your parents
because that guys opnion is true in his eyes...
and I am sort of agreeing with him
Im letting my parents do whatever
I love my parents to death
wondering why it took me a while to realize that.
Posted 06 Sep 2003

ricky says
is that so sweety- i love my parents too doesnt mean i ll accept everything they decide for me. the idea bout lovin someone is to realize that people could have a difference of opinion and being ok with that. if ur parents love ya they will never try and hook ya up with just anybody. that s getting married for the heck of it.gettting married about falling in love with somebody and then deciding if wanna spend the rest of ur life with that person. nobody can take that decision; not even ur folks. i think it s stupid.
Posted 06 Sep 2003

sanam411 says
ARRANGED MARRIAGE IS FINE WITH ME!...IF THATS WHAT MY PARENTS WANT...IM TOTALLY COOL WITH IT!...CANT DO ANYTHIN ABOUT IT ANYWAYZ!..IF THATS WHAT THEY WANT....THEN FINE!
Posted 06 Sep 2003

faysal says
but ur parents cannot force u in an arranged marriage..any ways most of the love marriages here end as a disaster.:)
Posted 06 Sep 2003

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