~khushi~
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Bazigaar said:
~khushi~ said:
secondly, u said u cant talk to da gal? well i think u shud.. u both need to understand each other.. even before shadi.. u shud know what she is like.. she shud know what ur like.. so try to talk to her over da phone ot on da net.. whatever is convenient for both of u.
i know i know...talk to her on fone atleast so i could atleast get some idea what she's like...but kiya karoon apni kismat ka k her family is like religious freaks
doesnt matter if they are religious freaks.. ye to shara bhi kahti hai k both of dem shud talk to each other at least once.. even before fixing da rishta.
where does da gal live? in pak? cant u ask sum1 there in pak to help you out?
~khushi~
Age: 124
7410 days old here
Total Posts: 1439
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secondly, u said u cant talk to da gal? well i think u shud.. u both need to understand each other.. even before shadi.. u shud know what she is like.. she shud know what ur like.. so try to talk to her over da phone ot on da net.. whatever is convenient for both of u.
~khushi~
Age: 124
7410 days old here
Total Posts: 1439
Points: 0
Location:
Aruba, Aruba
Bazigaar said:
~khushi~ said:
r u being forced to marry dat gal? u can reject da proposal.. koi zabardasti hai kya? marriage is a life long commitment. if u rnt happy den dont go ahead wid it. dont take any risk. if there's sum1 u like, sum1 u want to marry den why not marry her. apne aap ko kisi zabardasti k rishte mai mat bandho.
not forced...but u know..we desis...mom found..fixed..now if u say no then everyone looks bad..so what do u do? but not that i am unhappy or happy, just...feels strange..wired...never got arranged married before
lol unexperience eh? lol dont worry sab theek ho jaye ga juz go wid da flow n luk forward to ur new life believe me it does make alota difference u will see sab acha hoga.. inshallah
kya? nikah nahi hua? why?
