my story!bare it if u wnt

Sup guyz?
yeh discussion mein maine bahut kuch para and samjha.. esp yeh ki evry1 over here b'live in luv .. well agar sach kaho toh i dnt b'live in luv..infact i dnt wnt too..n moreover its real too late 4 me too b'live in luv..bas in a month or so me gonna b engaged..wid a guy jisse main sirf pasand karti hoon..but pyar? nahi i dnt luv him!!...maine hamesha suna haii ki jab hum kisi se pyar kare tabhi v can return hiz luv...but m i wrong by sayin dat guy "yes" wen me dnt luv himm??....jaha tak mera khayal hai me not wrong! i agree luvin and liking sum1 ,is two different terms...me doin dis coz dat guy used 2 luv me since i dunno since wen...n even my folks thinks dat he is a gud guy 4 me...me jst 18 and yeh pyaar vyar mein thoda sa bhi b'live nahi haii...

abhi jst ek postin mein which waz posted by "paki" "love story" mein maine Luv is blind read kiya thaa..
luv is blind yeh term humne banaya haii....jab ki v still dunno d true meanin of luv..i bet yaha kisi ko bhi true luv kya hai pata nahi honga...
sach toh yeh hai ki luv is not blind....it outh 2 b unconditional..
if me wnt me can say no 2 my engagement...me gotta evry rite over itt...still me need sumtime 2 b'live in luv.. i jst wanna know "CAN ME REALLY FALL IN LUV??"
datz y me readin each and evry postin very carefully coz itz fun

seein ppl so blindly b'livin in luv..

guyzz......life hai njoy it 2 d fullest....yeh pyar an all mein y to waste timee? wht say??

Posted on 11/13/2004 9:11:26 PM

Blood-Lovers

You say that love is nonsense....I tell you it is no such thing. For weeks and months it is a steady physical pain, an ache about the heart, never leaving one, by night or by day, a long strain on one's nerves like toothache or rheumatism, not intolerable at any one instant, but exhausting by its steady drain on the strength.

Posted on 11/13/2004 9:59:23 PM

hudz9

hey hey hey buddy...chillax dude....i didnt say ki luv is nonsense...its jst dat i dnt hav dat much sense 2 get itt

oops sowwie jokes apart...me know luv hurtss.. me seen zillions of dat kinda cases..newayz..me jst wnt a real gud reason so dat me can convince myselff 2 b worth luvin by sum1..i know not dat ez..but can xplore diff opinions abt wht accordin 2 ppl luv is...datz all

Posted on 11/13/2004 11:39:10 PM

joker

salam and Happy Eid to all of u,
hudz look piyar kia haii aur kia nahiii yay hum jaan suktay hain ager hum piyar wasay hiii kary jasa piyar kernain ka haq haiii.hum piyar ko pianful like that khaty hain kia kabi hum nain yay soocha haii kay yay piyar pain full koyoo haiii no never,bcz hum logo ko apnaii sadness say forset mily to janian na,look piyar main dard sadness hum nain payda kii haii koyoo kay ajj kaal ki life main is kay elawa kuch nahii haii.ager app piyar kerna chahty ya chahti hain to kabi biii kudgarz na bany apnay halat bii dakhay and us kay bii apnain ger waloo kay halat bii dakhy and us kay bii yani us kii life and apni life ko aik jaga rukh ker soochy kia hum agay chal suktay hain ya nahiii.i know piyar ho jata haiii laken ager hum zara sa sooch ker piyar kary to i think its better then for not thinking,

Posted on 11/14/2004 4:15:06 PM

hudz9

thnks 4 d suggestion pal...but aapni life ko samjhao kyaa..
me not bein selfish...maine aapne ghar walo ka bhi socha and sayeeed ka bhii...ab bas dua kariye ki Allah meri life sahi le jaaye...
plz dua mein yaad rakhna

Posted on 11/14/2004 5:09:25 PM

joker

yes y not
but its own u na kay app life kay sath smajhota ker pati hain and kia ap apnain app ko time kay mutabik daal suktii hain ya nahii
sub kuch app kay hath main haii

best of luck

Posted on 11/15/2004 4:02:21 PM

BadShaH1

Piar is gr8!
hudz9
YEH DUNAIN PIAR KEE BUNIADON PE BANI HEY!

its different forms we experience in life
jab allah neh nabi kee mohabbat mein ye dunia banai!

1-opposite sex se mohabbat
2-pese se mohabbat
3-ambition se mohabbat
4-dost se mohabbat
5-khel se mohabbat

and so on

so kiisi ka piar na thukrana, abhi sirf 18 years ki ho to jab bari ho gi tab pata lage ga, or phir sahi dil tootey ga, ....
is assure u!

Posted on 11/16/2004 7:49:07 PM

hudz9

heart__hacker:
yes y not
but its own u na kay app life kay sath smajhota ker pati hain and kia ap apnain app ko time kay mutabik daal suktii hain ya nahii
sub kuch app kay hath main haii
best of luck

salam!...sahi kaha aapne ki sab mere haath mein haii...but mujhe life mein samjhota nahi karna haii...if me comprise toh yeh kisike liye bhi acha nahi hoga..i wanna feeel dat thng so dat mein usse bhi utna hi pyaar do jitna woh mujhe deta hai..i dnt wanna play wid ne1'z feelings..aap samjh rehe hai na wht me sayinn..isliye me got ample of time 2 decide really thnks for helpin me in my decision..

Posted on 11/16/2004 8:56:00 PM

hudz9

BadShaH1:
Piar is gr8!
hudz9
YEH DUNAIN PIAR KEE BUNIADON PE BANI HEY!

its different forms we experience in life
jab allah neh nabi kee mohabbat mein ye dunia banai!

1-opposite sex se mohabbat
2-pese se mohabbat
3-ambition se mohabbat
4-dost se mohabbat
5-khel se mohabbat

and so on

so kiisi ka piar na thukrana, abhi sirf 18 years ki ho to jab bari ho gi tab pata lage ga, or phir sahi dil tootey ga, ....
is assure u!

ahan....baat dil tootne ki nahi haii....i agree duniya mein har type ka pyar haii...examples toh aapne hi dediye...but dnt u think hum log hi sahi tarah se pyar ko samjh nahi paaate.. .pyar sirf dil tootne ke liye nahi hota...waise y dnt v luk at d brighter side n b optimistic...kabhi suna haii "unless n until u dnt experience darkness,u cant appreciate light" jst like dat...ek baar dil jabtak nahi toota tab tak v cant learn how 2 luv other...but mujhe kisi ka dil todna nahi haii.. bas evn i wanna feel dis thng called LOVE..isliye jabtak main feel na karo....tab tak me wanna njoy me dayz and yes pyar age dekhke nahi kiya jata...18yr mein achai burai sab ka pata hojata hai janab

Posted on 11/16/2004 9:03:54 PM

hudz9

i guess kuch zyda hi kehdiya...sowwiee

Posted on 11/16/2004 9:06:49 PM

BadShaH1

hehe ya rite! lekin maturity 20 tak ati hey, kunke mughe abhi ai hey!.

tum ne kaha is tarah tha keh laga keh Luv Shuv ke bohot khilaf ho is liey mein ne detail mein explain kia!

Posted on 11/19/2004 10:02:51 PM

hudz9

arey wah toh aapko pyaar itna pasand haii...well khilaaf nahi hoo...bas pata nahii...ealier me used 2 hate 2 luv ab thoda kaha hate nahii but pyaar mere bas ki cheeez nahi hai datz all

Posted on 11/21/2004 6:49:47 PM

BadShaH1

hmm just wait and see!
dobara sab acha lagne lage ga
dunian rangeen lagne lage gi
log ache lagne lagein ge!

Posted on 11/21/2004 11:28:51 PM

2HOT4U

agreed hudz.
love is a waste of time.
idiots fall in love

Posted on 11/22/2004 12:15:51 AM

joker

sorry but look at ure self 1st na u also fall in love abb kis kay piyar main app jantay hain.

2HOT4U:
agreed hudz.
love is a waste of time.
idiots fall in love

Posted on 11/22/2004 4:44:41 PM

BadShaH1

I am totally sympathetic wid the guyz who got decieved in love, lekin u know time is a big healer!

Posted on 11/22/2004 9:55:16 PM

2HOT4U

i'm not in love
never have been and never will be
no sir
i'll pass

Posted on 11/23/2004 2:30:54 AM

BiKeR

2HOT4U:
i'm not in love
never have been and never will be
no sir
i'll pass

liar

Posted on 11/23/2004 7:16:48 AM

Rain Man

lust lust lust karo
lust say na tum daro
jeenay ka lo maza
har khoobsurat larki pay maro

Posted on 11/24/2004 3:16:02 AM

2HOT4U

BiKeR:

2HOT4U:
i'm not in love
never have been and never will be
no sir
i'll pass

liar

right.. [rolls eyes]
and you would know because...?
oh please inform me..i'd really like to know.

Posted on 11/24/2004 3:18:29 AM

BiKeR

2HOT4U:

BiKeR:

2HOT4U:
i'm not in love
never have been and never will be
no sir
i'll pass

liar

right.. [rolls eyes]
and you would know because...?
oh please inform me..i'd really like to know.