I find controling my temper quite hard at times, I'm trying to learn to better myself as a person & as a Muslimah, not just in this holy month but for life.

And I really need to stop swearing too!

trying to control my anger

meri buri aadat ...... mai kaam karte waqt har waqt gaati rahti thi gaane(jis se meri ami bohat pareshan hoti thi)ab naate parhti huu......short temper thi ab koshish kar rahi hu k is pe control rakhoo

shahrukh khan:

i wanna control my anger but a member from other forum made me mad..i just said sorry to that member..i was being called pathetic in open forum that member is not muslim but sikh..i said sorry due to ramadan cause my behaviour was bad to that member..that made me so mad..

Hey at least you acted like a gentleman.
Ignore those fools, they're not worth it.

Have been successful in curbing your habits?

no

Surprising

Only bad habits we know we have and we want to get rid of are:

temper/anger
swearing
singing

and that's it!

What about quitting:

smoking
back biting
lying
being lazy
extra vagance
chasing girls

What about weaknesses:

not having control on eyes and sight
having doubts or suspicion about our muslim br/Sr
spying on our muslim br/Sr
not taking care of neighbors

How about neglecting religious duties:

not praying on time
missing sunnah prayers
not reading Quran everyday
lackin in remembernce of Allah in the morning and at night
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no smoking......
no back biting.........
no lazy ness.......(mai apne ghar ka sara kaam karti hu or univeristy bhi jati hu or bacho ko parhati bhi hu,kuch ko QURAAN-E-PAK tajjveed k sath or baki ko tutions deti hu)
mai to khud larki hu so no chasing girls
sunnah.ramzan mai nahi chhorti
extra vagance...mujhe shopping ka koi khaas craze ya shoq nahi
baaki kuch khaslate hai lekin koshish kar rahi hu un per control paane ki

wow Maddy! way to go you are near perfect

now that list is a starter to jog readers' mind. If you think of anything that you want to rid yourself of, only few days left!

MashaAllah Maddy
U r rite SD we have much more bad habits few of them u have mentioned

smoking
extravagance
chasing girls
lying(i think i have quit them)

What about weaknesses:

not having control on eyes and sight
spying on our Muslim br/Sr
not taking care of neighbors( also these ones)

not praying on time
missing sunnah prayers
not reading Quran everyday
lackin in remembrance of Allah in the morning and at night (didnt neglect them )

I m not perfect but simply trying to be a gud muslim InshaAllah,
backbiting & having doubts or suspicion about our muslim br/Sr i think both of these are in same category, 50-50 success failure ratio i hope 1 day it will be 100%

keep up the good work Rapu
May Allah help you and all achieving their goals, Ameen.

Thnk U so much SD do pray 4 me

...and you too pray for me.

InshaAllah