yaar yeh hmmmm pain in neck

Love is a natural thing, but the point of contention here is the way it is promoted as a way of realizing sexual desires, a social stature, companionship for social acceptance ...

Teens are not at fault. Its their elders who have not presented to them a good role model.

In our society people over look boys love adventures, without realizing that such acts are being performed with someone's girl (daughter, sister...). But it hurts so bad when girls in our households involve in it.

Want fix for it! Teach boys modesty and morality and rein them in. Set good examples in self for them when they are young. It is so embarassing to see guys posting & seeking shamelessly for a girl friend. someone should ask 'em, don't they have a girl at home to make friends with. Why do they want to friends with their sisters when all they want a sensual element in their relationship which will not materialize otherwise.

o doubt the true thing is true ... i m wid u BIG DADDY
itz a reality dat love iz promotin by thoz 1nz

n u mr raja ji hmm meanz yez
ager neck main pain hota to main kabhi bhi iss ko xpress nah karti .........
dun u wurry ager hua bhi nah to main aap k medical store se medicine le loon gi ....

Smooth_daddy:

Love is a natural thing, but the point of contention here is the way it is promoted as a way of realizing sexual desires, a social stature, companionship for social acceptance ...

Teens are not at fault. Its their elders who have not presented to them a good role model.

In our society people over look boys love adventures, without realizing that such acts are being performed with someone's girl (daughter, sister...). But it hurts so bad when girls in our households involve in it.

Want fix for it! Teach boys modesty and morality and rein them in. Set good examples in self for them when they are young. It is so embarassing to see guys posting & seeking shamelessly for a girl friend. someone should ask 'em, don't they have a girl at home to make friends with. Why do they want to friends with their sisters when all they want a sensual element in their relationship which will not materialize otherwise.

its not always elders fault.. ur company does matters too ...
kafee achay ghanaray kay larkay/larkiyaan bhee is main involve ho jatay hein.. elders ki fault is tarhaan hai kay jo khulee chuti dee hoti hai bachoon ko jahaan merzi janay ki .. jo marzee kernay ki .. baas yahee ghalti hoti hai ... aur ziada strictness bhee majboor kertee hai .. ye hamaray fitraat main hai kay kisi kaam say ziada rooka jaiy wo zaroor ker kay deekhtay hein.. even zidd main hee kertay hein ..

yeah datz true ... har fact effect karta hai

Free rein's a big fault of elders. But I agree teens got to bear some responsibility of their actions as well. Parents are at a much bigger fault when they failed to educate, train and convict kids to high morals. Instead they only focus on academics and some manners.

What would you say about parents watching movies filled with bad language and acts with kids or without. Kids learn that immorality is permissible to adults but not to kids. So they do it when they think they are adults.

A heard a 5 yr old kid saying, only dads can smoke but mom's can't because he only saw his dad smoking while mom didn't. He thus concluded just that it is ok for dads but not for moms. What do you think kids of parents who drink and do other bad staff would do!

You bet! they will do the same and even worse. Because their parents only talk about morality but when it comes to action, they are just the opposite.

rite.. Parents har waqat to apnay bachoon par nazar nahi rakh saktay na?? .. i know kay jo unko samjhaoo aur un ki tarbiaat wagaira ye zaroor bachoon par asar kertee hai ..

but the thing is kay jaab app aisee company main bethtay hein jahan mazaak aurya jaiy.. shugal wagiara hota hai tu app ka emaan level down hoo jata hai .. i have experienced it myself ..

its not only parent's fault .. hamara media .. hamari society main ab loog language he is tarhaan ki use kertay hein aisee fazool harqateen kertay hein aur koi discourage bhee nahi kerta aur ye chezain bohat aam hotee ja rahee hein ..

bakhair....

   is silsal e mein tv bhi bara -ve role play karta hey

No doubt company and society play a great role in shaping personalities. Inner character that puts up resistance to temptations and shields one from adopting bad habits develops early in the life. I agree that Eman level goes down in a company of bad friends or spending too much time in front of tv, but the inner strengths battle it out.
You know how docs keep a child in an incubator immediately after birth to stabalize its organs and to prevent exposure to any possible germs or viruses; parents must adopt that technique to isolate kids from exposure to any foul environment for first few years. Once proper values are ingrained in their minds, parents will slowly let them loose.
When we teach kids to swim, we don't just drop 'em in deep waters. We don't even let them go on their own until we are sure they can survive. Then how do we leave our kids to the wolves of tv and media and the society at large?

I don't think I suggested any forceful measures. I think sometimes we jump to judgments and conclusions without any research. If I tell you that research shows children upto age 9 or ten look upto their parents for guidance and take anything they offer. After that it starts to shift towards peers and friends. Developmental years are under 10 years of age when a child develops a personality with traits that will live with him/her for the rest of the life.