Once there were two freinds who grew to be very close to eachother.
Once when they were sitting at the edge of a swimming
pool, she filled the palm of her hand with a little
water and held it before her freind, and said this:
"You see this water carefully contained on my hand?
it symbolizes Love."
As long as you keep your hand caringly open and
allow it to remain there, it will always be there.
However, if you attempt to close your fingers around
it and try to posses it, it will spill through the
first cracks it finds.
This is the greatest mistake that people do when
they meet love...they try to posses it, they demand,
they expect... and just like the water spilling
out of your hand, Love will retrieve from you.
For love is meant to be free, you can not change
it's nature. If there are people you loves,
allow them to be free beings.
Give and don't expect.
Advise, But don't order.
Ask, but never demand.
It might sound simple, but it is a lesson that may
take a lifetime to truly practice.
It is the secret to true love. To truly practice it,
you must sincerely feel no expectations from those who
you love, and yet an unconditional caring.
May be this is applicable for all of us.......
Posted on 2/1/2005 6:23:40 PM
missing u sis 
