t.v channels, hamara media,every thing is explioting us coz these r CHAMCHE of america.larkoon ka damaag kharab ho giya hai i m in college chuti time har larka hero ban kar impress karne ki koshish karta hai cable dekh dekh kar larkion k peeche bikes le kar aate hain these r coz of parents coz they donnt keep check on their children this is fatal mistake which ourparents r doing
r u one of those ppl who have suffered enough from parents who are too strict and so have decided that they r going to b really free with their kids. this doesnt garentee happy kids. kidss will b unhappy with their parents for various reasons, and sometimes even for been given too much independance, that has spoilt them.
first of all dont take this personally. secondly im am 20, thirdly im not a mother, and finally all i say comes from experiences i have had and from what i have seen. i have been to so many places and met a lot of ppl, so i suppose i have always observed. i am not blaming u in anyway im jus saying that a majority of ppl who have had a strict upbringing feel that way. fair enough. i had somewhat a strict, and mid teens i felt the same that i would bring uo my kids like that. then i learnt why that strictness was important, however u add ur own way of how u trea\t ur kids. a moderate cilivised way and give them what they want, but leave no stone unturned when it comes to their development.