Chandramuki:

I expect my husband not to try and restrict any of my activities or take away even and inch of my independance.

Chandramuki:

oh bloody that damn add made erazed my entry. basically mutual respect is important, and i personally am not insecure or possive or afraid of one his girl mates becoming my home wreker, i'm strong enough and sure enough of myself to know he won't creep.

Shahenshah:

mutual respect..well yeah...and then again...if u respect them, then u listen to them too rite...

Chandramuki:

Obviously the couple have to make adjustments, but that doesn;t mean they can't do the things they enjoyed as single people, they just need to reagrange their routines around it a little.

i wouldn't neglect my responsibities as a wife and go out to see my friends and that's the only valid objection a husband can have in my eyes from stopping his wife from having her own will. At the end of the day I was a person first and wife after.

Chandramuki:

Shahenshah:

mutual respect..well yeah...and then again...if u respect them, then u listen to them too rite...

mutual, so they listen to me and return the respect as well.

LiL_DollY:

when you get married
you get to spend time with your spouse

and then you give each other space
to be alone
or with your friends

or so both of you can work

cause if your with each othe all the time then you will get sick of each
other

there should be understanding and trust.

Shahenshah:

Chandramuki:

Shahenshah:

mutual respect..well yeah...and then again...if u respect them, then u listen to them too rite...

mutual, so they listen to me and return the respect as well.

but wot if they r not the type of person who goes out and party hard with friends...etc etc...where as u r the kind who goes out with friend all the time and wish to do that even after marriage...how will that work...