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Life Must Go On

Dear JB friends

You know I start thread very rare.There is a reason behind that. I want to share my thoughts very rare.

Ths time I am going to share a funda of my life that life must go on chahe kuch bhi ho jaye.

My First experience that hurt me a lot and i suffered even years to came back to life is sudden death of
My best friend in 2000 killed all the activities in life come to end but Allah gave me strength to accept this and I started my life again coz I have many other lives attached wid me.


In University life (2001) I was in love with a girl. She rejected me by saying that I am not financialy stable. I agreed and she left me. My life turned into hell and I lost hope. I left studies and dropped the semester.
My friends convinced me to continue studies and I left Pakistan to forgot all this. Even I am still unable to forget the pain but I am in better position than before.

Marriage of girl I loved , I was in Singapore.My family attended her wedding but I cried whole day.But it does not stop the thing.

Even I have faced ups and downs in health but I never make this hurdle in my life coz SHOW MUST GO ON.

Now today Another friend of mine has left my company for better future.But I wish good luck to that person. because we are all actors and every body has some role to play and leave.


The purpose of this post not to show how brave I am but to tell my friends who got dissapointed after small or big mishap that We must face the truth bravely for own sake and for those who love us.
It is my request to if you have nothing to say in this topic plz dont post. If you have then plz post ur experiences.Mods and Admins I have made this sticky until 15 Dec.If in case i am not available on that date
then please unstick on my behalf.

My friends if you have initiative to share such thoughts JB pages are available for you and we will stick this on your request too.You can fwd the request directly to me or any mangment member.
Thankyou

Posted on 12/14/2006 1:04:00 AM
JAAN

i know how if feels jaan, i understand,

hey i lost both my perents

i work 3 jobs unpaid,

i go college full time

cook and clean for a whole household

as far as love go, i loved khan u know that jaan, but if someone is not gona respect you for who you are? she is not worth it, your worth more then that,

and dont u DARE EVER CALL YOURSELF POOR

ASLEE DOLAT DIL KE HOTIE HAI

your very rich MARSHALLAH in your heart and nature, no one can take that away from you

if u become bitter and twisted they win,

lift your head up, and pop your colar u will be fine jaan

and asian bunny is always here for you

to call u kala pindo and poke pencils up your nose
Posted on 12/14/2006 1:58:49 AM
Words up brother.
Don't feel down.
Hit back to your this brother, if you need any help.
And I mean any help :)

As far that love thingy is...
College life is to early to be in love. Thats what I say and think.
Thats more like lust infatuation you know.
But I don't know.

But my prayers are with you
And may you succeed in your life and get to your goals.
Amen!

loves
-Romeo
Posted on 12/14/2006 4:00:05 AM
sir
aapki life se mainay yeh seekha k life must go on.
kuch bhi ho jaye himmat na khona.
woh kehtay hai na kay
"Every thing is OK at the end,if it is not
OK its not the end."
Allah subhana o Taa'la aapkay friend ki mughfarat farmaye Ameen.
shayad Allah subhana o Taa'la nay apkay liye is say
behter koi life partner likha ho.
Posted on 12/14/2006 8:02:54 AM
Sunshine,Asian and MR

Thats what I am saying that I came back to life after such events.Then Y ppl disappointed .I am emphasing to be brave
Posted on 12/14/2006 10:07:41 AM
TT bhai .... life bohat dangerous hai .. woh bholney nahi deti . lakh koshish kar lo
Posted on 12/14/2006 10:15:50 AM
time is best healer dude,,now a days nothing seems to be going my way,,i keep on losing things i wanted the most,,some of them were soi mperative for rest of my days ,,but look at me iam happy,,and i knoe its from the lord,,thinkinh this way helps a lot,,bcoz u cant have whats not written for you,,and u cant even turn down whats cumin yer way,,so live, live without care,,like a fish in the water; like a bird in the air,,and love, perhaps love is like the ocean;full of conflict, full of Pain, like a fire when it`s cold outside Or thunder when it rains..but what i feel is that its better to have loved and lost then just living with the psycho the rest of yer life
amigos,adios
Posted on 12/14/2006 10:54:48 AM
well said frenki i agree with u jom
Posted on 12/14/2006 11:26:43 AM
Teen Tracker:
Sunshine,Asian and MR

Thats what I am saying that I came back to life after such events.Then Y ppl disappointed .I am emphasing to be brave



yeah but jaan reflecting on them dosent help either,

look sometimes its best to not sit and think about these things

me? koi deemag hai he nahie sooch ne kilyah

na i say i am a slave to no man but ALLAH

i really care about u bobo, your a good friend to me

u were their for me when no one was, when i had major issues

so i am here for u today

anytime u need your kali moti walatee muj u know what i am okie jaan
Posted on 12/14/2006 1:52:09 PM
TT main apnay talkh tajurbaat likhnay bethun tou bohat waqt lagay ga bohat.......................
Posted on 12/14/2006 2:42:28 PM
na janay koi kasi hai ya zindgani ...

humari udhori kahani

....

life mai ya sub cheezian na hooon tu life mai koi maza nahi rah jata ...

dats it
Posted on 12/14/2006 9:05:42 PM
Dekho mere kahne ka maksad sirf yeh hay kay life kisi bhi moment par nahi ruktee
Posted on 12/14/2006 10:48:32 PM
nahi TT bhai

her koi aap jaisa bahudur nahi hota

ager meray saath aisa ho tu i ll kill ma self

n ya know it very well k mein kiya kuch nahi kar sakta
Posted on 12/14/2006 10:50:36 PM
u know wot
sometimes u feel as life took everything u loved away from u,,
but its only with time that u understand it was only for ur good,, u cant even imagine how much hapiness is waiting for u..... jsut few more step

dont keep staring into the dark...........
speeeeeeeeeeed into it



aur dabbbaaaa tummmmmmmmmmm
u r one of the vvvv few ppl i know who never let down
Allah miyan tum ko hamesha bohot khush rakhein, aur bhi zyada himat dein
Posted on 12/15/2006 1:49:48 AM
Ya TT Bro,

Jindgi to bahte hue dariya ki manind hoti hei.
Chahe kitni hi rukavaten aaen, dariya apne bahne ki jagah der-saver banaa hi leta hei.

Dariya bahataa rahataa hei tabhi khoobsoorat aur saaf rahta hei. Khud bhi uchalta-machalta kush rahta hei aur auron ko bhi sukun pahuchataa hei.

Thahraa hua paani sarrne lagta hei.

Isliye hamen bhi yahi koshish karni chahiye ki yah dariya bahta rahe. Kitnee bhi rokavaten aae, thorri der ke liye sust bhale hi ho jae lekin rukna nahin chahiye, bahne ki jagah banaa lenee chahiye. Vo mushkil bhi nahin hei kyonki dariya aur zindgi ki nature hi aesi hoti hei ki vo bahnaa chahte hei.

Ups n downs to aate hi rahte hei har kisi ki life mei. Mere khayaal se ek bhi esa shakhs nahin hoga jo ye claim kar sake ki usne apni zindgi mei kabhi downs nahin dekhe.

Meri life mein bhi downs aae hei aur aate rahte hei.
Aese waqt mein, jab mein low feel kar rahaa hota hoon ek gaana baar-baar sunta rahataa hoo. it inspires me..

NADIYA CHALE, CHALE RE DHAARA
CHANDA CHALE, CHALE RE TARA...
TUJHKO CHALNA HOGA, TUJHKO CHALNA HOGA
(Sometimes when u r free, listen this old hindi movie song, u will feel good and stonger.)
Posted on 12/15/2006 8:21:53 AM
~Fragi~:
nahi TT bhai

her koi aap jaisa bahudur nahi hota

ager meray saath aisa ho tu i ll kill ma self

n ya know it very well k mein kiya kuch nahi kar sakta





Dekho Fragi bahaduree aapkay under hotee hay. Apnee powers ko sahee jagah use karna hi bahaduri aur akalmandi hay.
Posted on 12/15/2006 10:43:18 AM
dekhain nashay main par jana marne ki dua mangna apnee problem se bhagne ka doosra naam hay.

Prob ko solve karo us ko nayee problem nahi ban jane do
Posted on 12/15/2006 10:47:12 AM
shahrukh khan:
~Fragi~:
nahi TT bhai

her koi aap jaisa bahudur nahi hota

ager meray saath aisa ho tu i ll kill ma self

n ya know it very well k mein kiya kuch nahi kar sakta


u will kill urself for whom


i ll kill ma self for some one n i dont have any other solution
Posted on 12/15/2006 11:27:24 AM
Teen Tracker:
~Fragi~:
nahi TT bhai

her koi aap jaisa bahudur nahi hota

ager meray saath aisa ho tu i ll kill ma self

n ya know it very well k mein kiya kuch nahi kar sakta





Dekho Fragi bahaduree aapkay under hotee hay. Apnee powers ko sahee jagah use karna hi bahaduri aur akalmandi hay.


i agree but ......
Posted on 12/15/2006 11:55:59 AM
T.T i luv u yar
i can to a very great extent,
relate to your situation,since i have also gone through many ups and downs,gains and losses in my life.
but i tell u what....
every bad experinece is some way or another compensated in life.now when i look back and see my last 10 years i really marvel at this aspect.
see,ager ap ka vo bohat payara dost ap se juda na hota to tum shaid kabhi yeh realise na ker pate k aur kitne log hain dunia main jo tumhain utni hi shiddat se chahte hain.
aur her nai larki aik naya experience hoti he,thats what i think.
i have even been betrayed and financially cheated by a best friend of mine but i still meet him and pray for him for he has taught me a great experience that is certainly worth all that money.
we humans beings are very short sighted as far as our future is concerned,ALMIGHTY only can see the whole picture,some seemingly bad things turn out to be really ablessing in disguise.
ab jaisa k do din baad mere sath aik aur bohat bari tragedy hone vali he but i'm really looking forward to it.
FOR THE LIFE MUST GO ON
Posted on 12/15/2006 1:58:29 PM
Way i see it

our Nabi park (P.B.U.H)

watched his whole family die, he had so many trials and tribulations

my pain is nothing comapired to what he faced

but i fall on my kneez and thank ALLAH every day

for making me who and what i am
Posted on 12/15/2006 2:23:16 PM
looks like everyone agrees to the topic
except fragi,us ko bhi qail kerna pare ga.
vo he kidhar
Posted on 12/15/2006 4:30:30 PM
haan,
ab tashreef lay aay hain sahib bahadur.
dekho yahan kab ukh kerte hain
Posted on 12/15/2006 4:51:46 PM
nikama:
looks like everyone agrees to the topic
except fragi,us ko bhi qail kerna pare ga.
vo he kidhar


see i agree wid TT ,

TT n i was together on monday evening n we had a chat ova this topic for good 3-4 hrs

but mite b i m not going to understand dis all at this time
Posted on 12/15/2006 5:50:09 PM
hmmm,
this is understandable
Posted on 12/15/2006 5:53:22 PM
Bus mera demagh hee bus out hai

i dont want to accept da reality
Posted on 12/15/2006 5:58:41 PM
time    
Posted on 12/15/2006 6:01:52 PM
sapne dekhna apne bass main kab hota he.
but sooner or later we have to face the reality
Posted on 12/15/2006 6:09:21 PM
Blv me .. meri soch diff hai

ya tu khud ko maar doonga
ya us ko jo dhoka deker chala hai
Posted on 12/15/2006 6:19:55 PM
U BRING OUT THE DEVIL IN ME
Posted on 12/15/2006 7:10:17 PM
exactly
n i mean it na yaar
Posted on 12/15/2006 7:11:44 PM
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