shahrukh khan said:haan tu un ka masla hai..karne do
SALL said:
shahrukh khan said:haan tu un ka masla hai..karne do
iss forum mei jitne bhi pbs hein unn ka directly hum mei se kissi se koi wasta nahi hai
yani k yeh forum aur yahan k tamam topics --> UNN KA MASLA HEIN, KARNE DO
SALL said:hmm,,,, dont agree yar
hamare han bache ka zehn uss k parents banate hein,, larki k zehn mei yeh baat bachpan se bethi hoti hai k usse sirf apne husband aur bache sambhalne hein,,
usse serious guidness kabhi milti hi nahi
(its not true for allll galz, but zyada yehi hota hai)
i agree kuch log aise hote hein jinhein kissi guidness ya encourage karne ki zaroorat nahi hoti,, but yeh umeed hum sab se nahi laga sakte
degree se show off karna bhi sahi hai,,,
jab larki ko pata hai k meri degree ka sirf aik yehi maksad hai to bass woh apni degree se yehi kaam leti hai
Gee-Z said:mery frnd hindu,afriacns,bahgli hain ..un ho na khabi yah nahi kaha k humaray country mai yah sub khrab hai bul k woh yah kethy hain k hallat aub acchy hotu ja rahyaa hain
but hum is k bilkul agaist hain asaa nahi hona chiyah
is liya ketha hooon k +tive thinking honi chiyah
ganday ko ganda kah dayna koi braveness nahi hai ....us k liya khuch karna k woh accha ho jaya woh hai baudrai
holla
Gee-Z said:
sall je aub plz ek bar yah kah doo "Yah Aya Pak k Bara Humdard lolzzz"
sirf ek acchi thinking hi pak k haalat badal day gaiee INSALLAH
holla
Gee-Z said:hmmmmmmm
tum jio hazroo sall tum nahi sall
now listen
mai in baaton ko isliya fazoool kah raha hooon cz yah baat har bachy bachy ko pata hai .tum na yah baat kar k koi teer nahi para .......
hum sub prob n critse karny mai sub say agay hoty hain but us k hul k liya khuch nahi sochty...
aj kal asii baatian har koi kar raha hai ...cz har koi batna chatha hai k woh pak k sub say zaida
khyal rakhny waly hain
dekhoo aub centuries say ghulam rahay hain......khabi muslims govt ki n khabi btitish....
n still ....
acyually Gory(english) nay humara zehanooon pay kaam kiya hai un ho na humaray mind he ghulam bana diyay hain ...
time lagtaa hai har cheez say nikalnay k liya ..mai na yah nahi kaha k tum na khuch ghlat kaha ..but yah baat sub ko pata hai jis ko dekho woh yah he baat kar raha hai k pak mai yah ,woh ...
but koi is k liya accha nahi soch raha
u kno better jub hum abroad mai bathy pak k haal dekthy hain in Tv news etc .we feel k wahan tu khanay k liya bhi khuch nahi hai
looog bhooky maar rahy hain
as we all kno tum khuch ursa phely in pak mai thiee u tell me k ppl k kiya haalat hain mean ek normal life ghuzar rahi hai sub ki
koi bhook say nahi mur raha yah sach hai k halat khrab hai ghurbat hai but kon but ghreeb kider nahi here in usa tum soch bhi nahi saktiii ...
18 hours kaam karna partaa kaam kar kar k shkalian he ajeeb hoo gaienn hain n phir bhi ro rahya hain ok
aub aty hain gal ki education ki ..dekho yah sach hai k humary haan gals ko bauth prob face karny party hain
but yahan baat atii hai society ki ok ......
k humari society kiya hai ....jaliyat hai ...but now Insllah haalat acchy hoty ja rahyaa hain
in next 30 to 50 years sub theek ho ga 30 to 50years is liya kaha k society, mind ek din mai change nahi ho jaty ok
aub ager tum asaa sochti hoo k gals ko after studies job karna chiyah tu m sure tum apni beti ko nahi roko gaiee ...but as compare to urs mom woh mayby na chati hoon k meri beti job kary ..but time 2 time har cheez change ho jati hai
ager tum is topic mai yah likh datii k haalat aub acchy hoty ja rahya hain inslllah khuch ursaa mai sub betar hota nazar a raha hai tu koi read karny wala is say healty impression laytaa ...ok
mery frnd hindu,afriacns,bahgli hain ..un ho na khabi yah nahi kaha k humaray country mai yah sub khrab hai bul k woh yah kethy hain k hallat aub acchy hotu ja rahyaa hain
but hum is k bilkul agaist hain asaa nahi hona chiyah
is liya ketha hooon k +tive thinking honi chiyah
ganday ko ganda kah dayna koi braveness nahi hai ....us k liya khuch karna k woh accha ho jaya woh hai baudrai
barhaal u all guys try kiya karian ager hum pak k liya khuch accha kar nahi sakty kum say kum soch tu sakty hain ..... pak mai jo buriean hain un ko discuss karna fazool hai cz yah baatoan hum last 55 years say kar rahay hain yah he waja hai k hum aj tak waheen khray hain cz hum sirf bolty hain k wahan yah wahan woh but uss khrab cheez k theek karny k bary mai nahi sochtay
sall je aub plz ek bar yah kah doo "Yah Aya Pak k Bara Humdard lolzzz"
sirf ek acchi thinking hi pak k haalat badal day gaiee INSALLAH
OMG raat k 3 baj gaya hain zalim loog sony bhi nahi datyaay
holla
Doctor Sam said:well sall... i must say k ab wo time nahi hey jab grls apnay parents ki taraf se guidance ka intazar karti hain.. i m saying this on the basis of my personal observation...jab wo apni marzi se apni pasand k subjects chose kar sakti hain, maths, stats, economics..psychology... i cant admit k un k mind main ye nahi hota k unhain kya karna hey... ye sab practical subjects hain aor inko sirf parhnay ka koi maqsad nahi agar aap professionaly apply nahi kartay...
aap ki baat bhi ghalat nahi hey sall, lekin i must say ab ye scene kafi hudd tak change ho gya hey...
rapunzel said:aap ki baat tu sahih hai sall lekin is ka hal nikalna hamara kaam hona chahiye
log is topic ko parhein gay aur bas
inqelaab jab aata hai jab hamari sooch mein tabdeli aaye
nikama said:coming back to topic i have observed that our work environment also discourages many girls from choosing a career.their parents also feel hasitant to send them in an atmosphere where sex starved males oggle at them like hell,paki men i think aggle more at girls then men of anyother country in the world.besides there is also a tendency to keep girls underpaid,accept for multinationals,n.g.os and some good national companies,elsewhere girls are paid less as compared to their male colleagues for the same services.these factors also account for less participation of gals in economic activities.and one thing more i dont know why but girls in our country dont grow up into mature all round personalities,i mean their knowledge abt the world around them remains so limited as compared to boys of their age.their interests,their hobbies are so predictable and traditional that one really gets bored of their company,and this lack of an all round personality also hamper their development in professional life.and... and...and
SALL said:
Gee-Z said:hmmmmmmm
tum jio hazroo sall tum nahi sall
now listen
mai in baaton ko isliya fazoool kah raha hooon cz yah baat har bachy bachy ko pata hai .tum na yah baat kar k koi teer nahi para .......
hum sub prob n critse karny mai sub say agay hoty hain but us k hul k liya khuch nahi sochty...
aj kal asii baatian har koi kar raha hai ...cz har koi batna chatha hai k woh pak k sub say zaida
khyal rakhny waly hain
dekhoo aub centuries say ghulam rahay hain......khabi muslims govt ki n khabi btitish....
n still ....
acyually Gory(english) nay humara zehanooon pay kaam kiya hai un ho na humaray mind he ghulam bana diyay hain ...
time lagtaa hai har cheez say nikalnay k liya ..mai na yah nahi kaha k tum na khuch ghlat kaha ..but yah baat sub ko pata hai jis ko dekho woh yah he baat kar raha hai k pak mai yah ,woh ...
but koi is k liya accha nahi soch raha
u kno better jub hum abroad mai bathy pak k haal dekthy hain in Tv news etc .we feel k wahan tu khanay k liya bhi khuch nahi hai
looog bhooky maar rahy hain
as we all kno tum khuch ursa phely in pak mai thiee u tell me k ppl k kiya haalat hain mean ek normal life ghuzar rahi hai sub ki
koi bhook say nahi mur raha yah sach hai k halat khrab hai ghurbat hai but kon but ghreeb kider nahi here in usa tum soch bhi nahi saktiii ...
18 hours kaam karna partaa kaam kar kar k shkalian he ajeeb hoo gaienn hain n phir bhi ro rahya hain ok
aub aty hain gal ki education ki ..dekho yah sach hai k humary haan gals ko bauth prob face karny party hain
but yahan baat atii hai society ki ok ......
k humari society kiya hai ....jaliyat hai ...but now Insllah haalat acchy hoty ja rahyaa hain
in next 30 to 50 years sub theek ho ga 30 to 50years is liya kaha k society, mind ek din mai change nahi ho jaty ok
aub ager tum asaa sochti hoo k gals ko after studies job karna chiyah tu m sure tum apni beti ko nahi roko gaiee ...but as compare to urs mom woh mayby na chati hoon k meri beti job kary ..but time 2 time har cheez change ho jati hai
ager tum is topic mai yah likh datii k haalat aub acchy hoty ja rahya hain inslllah khuch ursaa mai sub betar hota nazar a raha hai tu koi read karny wala is say healty impression laytaa ...ok
mery frnd hindu,afriacns,bahgli hain ..un ho na khabi yah nahi kaha k humaray country mai yah sub khrab hai bul k woh yah kethy hain k hallat aub acchy hotu ja rahyaa hain
but hum is k bilkul agaist hain asaa nahi hona chiyah
is liya ketha hooon k +tive thinking honi chiyah
ganday ko ganda kah dayna koi braveness nahi hai ....us k liya khuch karna k woh accha ho jaya woh hai baudrai
barhaal u all guys try kiya karian ager hum pak k liya khuch accha kar nahi sakty kum say kum soch tu sakty hain ..... pak mai jo buriean hain un ko discuss karna fazool hai cz yah baatoan hum last 55 years say kar rahay hain yah he waja hai k hum aj tak waheen khray hain cz hum sirf bolty hain k wahan yah wahan woh but uss khrab cheez k theek karny k bary mai nahi sochtay
sall je aub plz ek bar yah kah doo "Yah Aya Pak k Bara Humdard lolzzz"
sirf ek acchi thinking hi pak k haalat badal day gaiee INSALLAH
OMG raat k 3 baj gaya hain zalim loog sony bhi nahi datyaay
holla
just want to say ONE THING
"serious corner" --> where u can DISCUSS serious matters
i beleive discussion wahin hoti hai jahan koi masla ho
agar me itna keh du k "hamare han aisa hota hai, par its not such a big deal, Allah miyan sab theek kar dein ge"
we dont need to discuss something which will b fine without any effort
there s a topic here IRAN n BUSH
aap ne wahan pe yeh comments nahi diye k "muslims aik hein, Isha Allah halaat theek ho ja'ain ge,, we muslims wont leave Iran alone,, america ki koi majal nahi k aankh utha k dekh sake,,, bura bura sochne se koi faida nahi"
jab kissi ko bura kehna hota hai to u beleive in facts, apne gireban mei jhankne ki baat aati hai to hum log bohot optimist ho jate hein
acha hai,, apni apni soch hai
kissi pb ko solve kerne se pehle uss mei apni galti ko admit karna zaroori hota hai
yeh meri soch hai
koi iss se mutafik ho ya nahi,,, I DONT CARE
sirf tareef karne se mujhe koi matlab nahi
me achi tarha janti hu k hum logon mei kya kuch acha hai,, par achaiyan to sab ko pata hoti hein,,, point out to burai ko kiya jata hai
im saying it again,, u dont need to waste ur time in my topics
Gee-Z said:huh
discussion ..... aur khuch na karna bus yah he karnaa.... k flaan woh flaan yah etc
itni baatian jo kar rahii hoo
tell me wats urs contribution?
kiya khuch kiya hai tum na kise ek bhi asii larki k liya jis pay zalum hota hoo..or khuch bhi accha kisi k liya....... but yah its done k baatian bauth ki hain
sall ji i want k aub hum ko in baaton wali baaton say nikal ana chiyah
bauth kar lii sub nay baatian ...aur jub say pak bana hai karty chaly a rahya hain .jis ko dekho jub dekhoo kisi na kisi mai koi na koi khami nikalnay pay tula hua hai
effort? kider hai ji ap ki koi bhi effort except yah ruti ratie baatian jo sub ko pata hai
rahi iran n bush waly topic ki baat ..... i ddint read it yet
but ager mai asaa kahoon ga K Allah sub accha kary ga tu i will say .. cz Allah pay mera blv hai woh sub khuch kar sakta hai
Bura ....
Miss sall sub ko pata hai k kiya hoo raha hai ....plz aub girbaan mai jahkna bund karo aur sub khuch karooo mai yah hee kah raha hooon kub say ...
koi ek ap mai say hum sub mai say koi suggestion day k hum kissi bhi pb ko kiss thran slove kar sakty hain
Hum itnay looog hain yahan hum sub khuch kar sakty hain... but remember ya koi room nahi hai jo ek din mai clean ho jaya gaa...
in the end ..
Nikma k sig
Jo Khuch nahi Karty Kamal karty Hain
meri request hai ap say bulk hum sub say k kamal karna chorain aur khuch accha karny ki try tu karian .....
Next time koi motivative sa topic banana wid some good suggestion jiss say kisi k bhala bhi hoo ..
Holla
SALL said:
yar mujhe pata hai time change ho raha hai par pakistan sirf isb, lhe ya khi nahi hai
doosri baat,, zehn bachpan se banaya bhi to jata hai na
bachpan se koi aisi guidness nahi milti k samajh aae k unhein kya aisa parhna chaiye k prof life mei kaam aa sake
pabandi nahi hai,, par guidness bhi nahi hai
larkon k saath baat alag hoti hai, they go out, they have friends, contacts jahan se kuch pata chal sakta hai unhein,,,,, but girls ?????
unhein kaun batae ga,, and as i already said larkon k zehn bachpan se bana hota hai k chahe kuch bhi ho they must work with or without studies,, lakiyon k liye yeh optional hai
galti sab ki hai,, parents ki, teachers ki, mahol ki
aur khud larkiyon ki bhi that they dont want to change things