Sweet Goodbye - But HELLO new Mr!!!

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Blue Oasis

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I really couldn't decide where to put this message, I thought about FoS but then again this is a relationship issue...

My fiancé and me decided to break our engagement today. It was a decision we’ve both been thinking about for the past three and a half months, and well, today we made our choice. After a year together as an engaged couple, we both realised we weren’t right for each other. I think we were both looking for the right excuse to take the step, and today when he cancelled our date, I took that step.

I won’t lie and say it didn’t hurt when I took the ring off to return to him, but I rather he admit now that he doesn’t love me instead of years later in a divorce court. We haven’t broken the news to our friends and family yet, but I know it’s something they were expecting sooner or later. Our families are friends but both agreed that this rishta was a bad match.

Personally I don’t want to listen to the “we told you so” right now, I’m not up for it. Besides sometimes it’s easier to tell these things to a computer screen and know people who don’t know me personally will be the ones reading.

It was a sweet goodbye, we hugged, kissed and smiled, all very mature and friendly, but I felt almost sad knowing that after this I won’t have the right to touch him anymore. Me and Kazmi have the same social circles and classes so I will be seeing him almost every day, but I have to be strong about it, it is after all for the best. I know we will always be friends and that sounds corny but it’s true, we still like each other a lot, but as husband and wife, it won’t work.

Maybe if we had just dated as boyfriend/girlfriend longer, we would have figured this out, but on my last – last birthday he was feeling too romantic and proposed.

*sighs* it feels good to let that all off my chest, I'm not expecting any replies or anything, I just needed a place to free my mind of all these mixed emotions.
Posted 27 Feb 2005

Bazigaar says
Jia_ka_chand said:

oh whatever! he took the first step into a new relationship, so why should I sit home and be gloomy? besides I've known my date for months now and he's never meet the girl he's gonna marry! What I'm doing isn't moving fast bazi it's "moving on"



maybe u think u've moving on but i think it's moving fast, cuz u just got out of a relationship like a week ago...but instead of giving u;rself time to look back and see what went wrong, etc etc, u jumped into another one...but then again...u r different individual then me...u know what's better for u
Posted 09 Mar 2005

Blue Oasis says
that's right I do
Posted 09 Mar 2005

Bazigaar says
very good
Posted 10 Mar 2005

Bazigaar says
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Bazigaar says
hello mr new
Posted 13 Mar 2005

old is GOLD , new is SILVER











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Bazigaar says
and what's white gold?
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