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As all of us know (whether agree or not) Introduction section is only for inroduction and nothing else. So what about the other chit chat not related to the subject of the topic? Such posts and replys should be removed by moderators, and i think moderartors will get into trobble are you ready for it?

It is much better option to close old topics. 30 day period is enough for anyone to inroduce himself, isn't it?
Posted 10 May 2005

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King of jb said:

to kia app es baat say agree kertay hay kay jo topic reopen kerwana chatay hay members esay teen talk ya kesi or section may moved ker diya jaey ??



it is not reasonable king
Posted 10 May 2005

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QUEEN VICTORIA said:

I think intro kamaqsad yeh nahin hai k aap chit chat karain so topics close kerna ghalat nahin
baqi wol said k jis ko apna topic reopen kerwana hai woh bata day Fos ya teen talk main move ker diya jaye ga
baat khatam
voting kis nay mangi thi

aur mera khayal ha sirf 5---6 members hi hain jin k topics lambay chalay aa rahay hain
ager abhi tak oon ka intro complete nahin hua tou teen talk main move ker daitay hain




well said QV, but teen talk main move tu nahi kiya ja sakta, teen talk is not for such topics.

aur jin ka intro complete nahi hua wo doobara topic bana saktay hain or the duration can be increased from 10 days to 30 days.
Posted 10 May 2005

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Bazigaar said:

i want to ask one question, give me one good reason why u want topics in intro to stay open after 10 or 15 days? juc cuz u want to chit-chat in there?

it;s a simple question and i want a short and simple answer



you answered to your question yourself, CHIT CHAT

INTRO section was not intended to be a chit chat section, it was only for new members to intoduce them and old members to welcome them and thats all. there are other sections where we can have gossips like fos, d3si squad, teen talk etc. or anyone is not convinced he can request a new forum to be opened named CHIT CHAT/GOSSIPS.

"agar memberz wahan ziada enjoy kar rahay hain to" is ki waja sirf yeh hai kay jb start hi inro say hota hai aur is ka yeh matlab nahi kay stick to the intro and foget about the rest of the forum. "CHAHAY KOI AAP TI POST KA REPLY HI NA DAY" i dont agree, aisa kis kay sath hua hai?

"kabi kabi koi new member aik bar aata hay and topic dal kar BUSY ho jata hay" tu mostly usay welcome bhi usi wakt hi kar diya jata hai (jb members are so quick ) aur lets suppose wo 3 weeks baad hi ata hai tu topic close kiye janay kay 10 days ko barhaya bhi tu ja sakta hai, 20 days, 30 days, how much is required?

"aap us ko BORING kion karna chahtay hain?" har section ka aik purpose hai na, tu usay uskay purpose tak restrict karna, boring karna nahi kehtay.

"intro main ITNI ziada posting ho rahi hay, and ppl are enjoying there" tu jab members intro say doosray sections main ain gay tu wahaan bhi ziada posting honay lagi gi and ppl will enjoy there too
Posted 10 May 2005

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SALL said:

sab k sab shaattaaap ho jao




























oups,,
sorry



aap is meharbani kay kabil nahi hain
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Posted 10 May 2005

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SIGNATURES: Everyone here is going oppose large signatures first. Ok, me starting from the same, ofcourse sig's size should be controlled, it gets very irritating sometimes when we see only the sigs everywhere on the page. An easy way to do this is to disable forum codes in sig. Since it will disable images at all, most ppl will oppose it as they are accustomed to huge, fancy sigs.


AVATARS: About avatars, it is clearly written of Avatar Upload dialog "Images must be of the type, jpg, jpeg, gif, png, and have a maximum file size of 75KB" while i have seen avatars of sizes greater than 1000KB (animated gifs). They take plenty of time to download. I think it is also a falut of the uploader who does not check the file size before uploading.


USERNAMES: Prohibit using sacred words like God (God_Girl) and foul words like s*xy (S*xyBabyGirl) in usernames too.

I need to explain something here, whats wrong with God_Girl. God here is is used as adjective (in english rules) meaning Girl exalted to the rank of God, just as Pretty Girl. In urdu we say 'chand chehra' meaning 'the face as beautiful as moon', 'chand' representing the quality of the face.

Here is a common name Abdullah, where Abd means 'banda' in urdu, but that does not mean to 'man', 'woman', 'boy' or 'girl' at all which are just sex distinguishing words. Abd means 'obedient' and 'worshiper' in english (for Allah). Abdullah means 'Allah ka banda' or 'Allah ki bandagi karnay wala'.

Now someone may say it means 'God's Girl", then as i wrote earlier, it would mean 'Allah ki larki' (Allah's daughter) and not 'Allah ki bandi'. It is not equivalent to Abdullah. It is very common in urdu as well as in english to say 'Aslam's girl' or 'Aslam's boy' meaning Aslam's daughter or Aslam's son.

Not anyone would mean intentionally either of the meanings i described above, but care must be taken while using such clauses. They may create doubts in the minds of the members.

So the rule should be to prohibit such use of these words whether intentional or unintentional. I hope you got it now.


REFFERENCES: About serious discussion I would say that, while quoting somthing, ppl should also include refferences to artiles/books from which they are quoting, to minimize the possiblity of distorted information, and to give proper credit to the source.


SENSITIVE INFO: Any information such as your address, e-mail or phone number should not be posted in topics because it can raise security issues. Some ppl do it at the end of the post or in their signatures. Though it does not happen very often, but it should be clearly mentioned in forum rules.


FLOODING: It is mentioned in forum rules:

Flooding has always been taken seriously anywhere on the Internet and we are no exception to that. Flooding involves:-

a. Duplicate/Multiple postings
b. Repeated posts from the same member.
c. Meaningless Posts for time pass which no replies r made too after a certain time.

Repeated posts from the same member and Meaningless Posts for time pass are prohibited but prohibition is not being properly practised (specially in Introductions, Sentiments and FOS). It should be properly applied.


ALL CAPS: It is also mentioned in forum rules (not very clearly):

ALL CAPS will be considered yelling & rudeness.

It is also known as SHOUTING. It is prohibited in all forums and some forum softwares automatically change all uppercase sentences to lowercase. Some members are accustomed to using ALL CAPS. All caps posts are alse difficult to read. It shoud be mentioned clearly in forum rules not to use all caps.


ADVERTISEMENT: While there is a section name 'Advertisement' for this, some members do the trick and use their signatures for this purpose to advertise all over the forums (for example, adding links to websites in sig). That should be forbidden.

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Posted 10 May 2005

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agree to Sall

FOS is not the place for all topics, there are special sections for special topics and they should be posted here, FOS is a place for general discussion.

Quantity, i agree (till now) and i think it needs no explanation. opposition of the new rule about INTROS points to the same.
Posted 10 May 2005

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kash_beauty said:

decision will b taken on the number of ppl against or in favour of the rule!



who said that?

and who said that something is going to be decided?
Posted 10 May 2005

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kash_beauty said:

dnt jump to conclusion!!
coz no one can conclude wht she meant!!!

u gave ur comment!!! we appreciate tht

now lets c wht our other members have to say!!!

again i advice evry1 to stay on the topic please



har baat ka koi na koi matlab zaroor nikalta hai, it can not be avoided, isi liye tu kaha jata hai kay think before you speak

aap ko yeh dar kyu laga hua kay ppl go out of the topic. i think you are pointing at me, so also point out what i said that is not related to the discussion.
Posted 10 May 2005

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SALL said:

but the only thing i cant get is.... it seems pooori dunya mei sirff iss liye buraiyan hein coz women dont wear hijab



who said that? not me at least. and we know very well isi tarah aik aik burai ikathi ho kar poori society kharab kar deti hain, larna to inhi buraiyoon say grass root level par hi parta hai.

SALL said:

i only believe in BALANCE,, that s it
we know few examples of coutries where women r in hijab par unn jaghon pe bhi utni hi buraiyan aur jahalat hai jitna kissi western coutry mei



BALANCE okay then as it requires perform your duties without any 'shart' and pursuade and expect from others the same, not just critisize others.
i do not agree to your second opinion.

SALL said:

jab tak kissi ko hijab ka matlab aur reason nahi pata koi fark nahi pare ga,, har woh kaam jo soche samjhe bager kiya jae rasm hi hoti hai,,

hijab shd b the consequence of a global attitude and not a way to avoid pbs



jo kaam Allah ha hukam samajh kar kiya jaye at least wo rasam nahi hota as is the case with hijab.

hijab should be the consequence of fear of Allah.
Posted 09 May 2005

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kash_beauty said:

badal!
u read wht WOL said!
n u read wht the topic starter has said!
post ur comment!!
r u in favour or not!
simple as tht!
coz..healthy arguments are welcome!

baaton ka matlab kia hai..os say issue ka lena dena koi nahin!..n i m sure balich wasnt critisizin JBianz behaviour!



posters stick to the issue please!
just post ur comments or simply tell us whether u r in favour or not!




"post ur comment!!" topic starter said "no COMMENTS"

"coz..healthy arguments are welcome!" topic starter said "no ARGUMENTS"

and i think i am giving healthy arguments.

I am sure too that balich didnt mean that, but it leads to conclude the same.
Posted 09 May 2005

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WARMTH OF LOVE said:

lemme add some more details abt our decision


1. Introduction section is jus for introduction.
2. ek member TEN DAYS mein achi tarhan introduction karwa sakta hay ... ( k woh kon hay , kiya hay , kiya karta hay aur kahan rehta hay)
3. jab topics kam hoon gay tu new member ko "IMPORTANCE" mily gie mean k eachone get have opertunity to say welcome a "new member"
4. when a member find his/her topic closed after 10 days then he/she'll move fwd to OTHER SECTIONS.
5. WE need Quality , Classifications .

so be careful its urs own Forum.

sobehave and talk / discuss only logical things coz its all abt Introduction.


Only healty comments should be welcomed.

   



Agree to WOL

10 days are enough for anyone to inroduce oneself and for rest of the jb members to welcome the new member.

Ofcourse, after months of joining jb, koi apnay aap ko introduce tu nahi karwa raha ho ga ya welcome to nahi kiya ja raha ho ga, aur doosray sections bhi tu hain who deserve our attention.
Posted 09 May 2005

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~ ßã£îçh ~ said:

well badal,

yah baat is liyay kahi gai hay kay like SPAMMING HELL walay topic kay, yahan bi memberz kay darmiyan,
behes na shoron ho jaey, to SAB JAB VOTE DAL HI RAHAY HAIN, AGAINST OR FAVOUR main to
sakoon say vote dalen and baat khatam
na kay APNI BAAT kay sahi-o-ghalat SABAT karnay beth jaen AND JIS KA END FIGHT PAR HO..

Hope ap ko apna jawab mil gaya ho ga , THANKS!



I didnt asked to proove yourself right, just asked to give your views about the issue which is a proper way of deciding an issue.

you think discussing such issues will always end in a fight (bcos jb members do not have manners to discuss you mean ) it not right at all.
Posted 09 May 2005

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it is a very old and 'successful' tactic kay agar koi baat mannay ko na dil chahay tu ulta kehnay walay par hi shuru ho jao
Posted 09 May 2005

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mera ye matlab nahi kay wearing or not wearing hijab only concerns you. i only said it is not right to say, if it will be so or so then i will wear hijab. it an order of God not any 'rasam'. the whole society is affected by it, not just an individual. you believe on niyyat so what is the 'good' niyyat behind not wearing hijab and breaking Allah's order?
Posted 09 May 2005

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waisay mujhay maloom tha aur intizar bhi kay aap aisa koi tanz zaroor karain gi, anyways sharm o hayya ka topic bhi ban jaye ga aik tu parh lain pehlay, aur aap bhi tu post kar sakti hain kisi nay roka tu nahi.
Posted 09 May 2005

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aap ka wala...

top ten hain na ye bas, aap ka 11th sahi

hijab le lain tu kisi ki nazar main sharam ho ya na ho is say fark hi nahi parayga aap ko. aur aap ka hijab lena kisi doosray ka kisi amal say mashroot nahi hai, all are lame excuses, at least maan tu lena chahiye.
Posted 09 May 2005

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"no COMMENTS and no ARGUMENTS", just vote RULES should be there, not because people like them, because there are always good reasons for them to be there (or at least, there should be).

But most ppl do want what please them. Here comes the notion of democracy, the selection of majority without deciding whether they are right or wrong. They are supposed to be right because they are in majority. As our national poet quoted:

'jamhooriyat ik tarz e hukoomat hai kay jis main,
bandoon ko gina kartay hain tola nahi kartay'


Still, this democracy is not to practised while deciding rules and regulations. There must some good reasons behind them. So everyone should explain why he/she is in favour/against the rule.


Posted 09 May 2005

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yahaan

bazu... only serious posts here


that is extremism indeed. probably he wanted to attain the rank of Ibrahim (A.S)
Posted 09 May 2005

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YUSFI yeh hai kon

topic bhi tha Moved: " YUSFI ", laikin shaid trash main chala gya kia tha is topic main? lagta hai bazi ki harkat hai, ab admin jo ho gaye hain, main nay abhi dekha hai, unkay kaan kheenchnay parain gay

aur khabardar jo edit kia tu...


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Salam!

Both are correct indeed. First try to overcome your difficulties, strive for the good. But if the results are not good and convincing, accept it as the will of God, dont blame Him or go hopeless, and be thankful to Him because He has blessed us with many other blessings.

Best wishes.
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shahrukh khan said:

kismat khud banate hain..i believe it 2...not even blaming kismat..chalo mujhe jo chahiyey..main usey paane ki kohshish karta hoon



jo chaiye you mean bewakoofi

jumping into a well in a hope that you will survive and will find a treasure in its bottom
Posted 04 Apr 2005

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Balich said:

Badal said:

shahrukh khan said:

leken jo hona hai wo tu ho key rehta hai...



that is mostly the last answer in that matters, blaming kismat.



hmm jo bi but pyar ta tiya kasoor

and jo log mil datay hain,, and lives happy whole life unti bi bewakoofi hoi tiya yah?


pyaar ka kasoor ye hai kay it is bewakoofi

aur jo log mil jatay hain they are minority
Posted 04 Apr 2005

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shahrukh khan said:

leken jo hona hai wo tu ho key rehta hai...



that is mostly the last answer in that matters, blaming kismat.
Posted 03 Apr 2005

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Balich said:

But phil to baat kismat ti hoi na zeesh na tay pyar



shahrukh khan said:

exactly balich



suna ho ga aap nay, insaan apni kismat khud banata hai
Posted 03 Apr 2005

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shahrukh khan said:

balich koi faida nahi..negeative ans milein gey...you will also think the same



realities negative hain tu realities ka kia kusoor?
Posted 03 Apr 2005